is it normal for guys to have gay thoughts

I think it’s normal.
I find men not attractive at all, the thought of kissing a man repulses me.
However there is something about a clean shaved cock I cannot resist looking at and wondering what it would be like to play with it

 

Highly recommend playing with a man's cock. Feeling it grow in you in your hand jerking it off and how hard it gets as it explodes semen

 

I have experienced this when I was in my teens. My friend and I used to jerk each other off often.
Feeling it twitch in your hand and feeling it pulse is awesome, then feeling it get rock hard and hearing him moan as he cums is such a turn on.
I getting turned on right now thinking about it.
I miss it so.

 

Me also and rock hard

 

Guess you will just have to take matters into your own hands.
I know I am

 

They are actually just called "thoughts."

 

Lol I would say fantasies

 

It's pretty normal to have any thought that comes into your head as long as nobody gets hurt.
It's only when others try to decide for you what is "normal" that something becomes "non-normal".
Religion, parents, school, the usual suspects.

 

Simple truth is that normal is whatever you like and whatever feels good for you!

As far as anal sex is concerned, I can tell you that it’s very enjoyable if it’s done right and both parties are gentle and patient. I receive anal sex from my husband on a very regular basis and I love it when he takes his time to massage and play with my anus. It’s amazing foreplay and it feels so good that my anus has no choice but to relax and open up to take him deep inside me!

 

I've done this too. I loved it.

 

I get hard just thinking about it

 

When you think about sexuality as a multi dimensional continuum, then the apparent irony of a straight guy liking cocks becomes much less mysterious. I’m no expert but it feels to me as if I have evolved over my lifetime in this regard, and addition, at any given point in my life, I have moved around within my own personal range of sexual desire from day to day.

When younger, I was heavily focused on females. I was the classic straight male, mostly. But I’ve had occasional same sex thoughts ever since a childhood experience with a good male friend who was a year older, who told me how babies are made, (although he had couple of essential details wrong). This was a powerful experience because until then I assumed (like many children) that when I rubbed my cock on the sheets, pillows, and mattress every single night that it was sort of an anomaly I had discovered. Learning that stimulating the penis was part of something bigger turned me into an instant aficionado of masturbation. This was way before the internet etc but if porn had been available back then I would have taken extreme measures to get access to it. Throughout most of my childhood, I would have happily carried on sexually with practically anyone initiated it, male or female. But I was very aware of the stigma attached to “perverts” and so was too shy to initiate it myself.

This focus on primarily preferring females gradually shifted toward more of an equilibrium between desire for females and cocks, until now, at age 64, married to a wonderful woman, I spend a lot of time fantasizing about cocks and watching gay and male-masturbation porn.

The lust for cocks has gradually evolved into more tolerance for the men that the cocks are attached to, haha. At one time I would have sworn my love of cocks would never evolve into desire for the entire male body, but it slowly has. Faces are the male body part least likely to be attractive to me, but I’ve actually run across one here and there that I would like to kiss. Formerly the very idea of kissing a dude would have always turned me off.

To psychoanalyze myself, my opinion is that the many times I’ve,fucked women, including my wife, has satisfied practically every aspect of my heterosexuality over time. I’ve had very , very few same sex experiences. I think this causes sort of a psychosexual deficiency for sex with other guys, so my fantasy world tilts heavily in that direction. Or some such.

 

I think it's very normal to think about whatever you want while jacking off. No mater what it is (get help if you have violence a part of it). Why do e have to pigeon hole ourselves. I go with whatever turns me on at the time.

 

I havent done it but I often fantasize about sucking a guy's cock and/or them fucking me while my gf or any female watches.

 

If you are like me (and a lot of other guys after reading so many posts here on HF) you might have had some mutual jerk off sessions and/or light male/male sex when a young teen. then you got married and went the "straight route"). But that doesn't stop the thoughts of what it would be to have a dick in your mouth or up your ass.

IMO - gay,bi, straight is on a line. One end is 100% straight, and the other end if 100% gay. Most of us fall somewhere in between I think. whether we realize/acknowledge it or not.

As we get older and worry less about what people/society think (plus a site like this gives us a place to voice it "fairly safely") we recognize that even though like me (who claims to be bi-sexual but a "practing hetero-sexual") being happily married "faithfully" for 38+ years, I am aroused by the sight of a mans cock. It's been 40+ years since I had my hands on another mans cock, but the arousal is still there.

I may have a dream one night of having sex with another woman as much as I am about sucking another mans cock. But I am faithfully married and don't fret over it when I wake up. it is what it is. there is a reason there is so much history about same sex relations. It's normal. Just a matter of whether or not the society at the time permits it.

If you claim to be straight but are aroused by the thought of another mans cock, does that mean you are gay. I don't think so. It just means you aren't at the total end of the spectrum. Acknowledge it and don't be stressed by others here that try to pigeon hole you into one or the other.

 

When I was in my 20s, I had this guy in his 50s that worked for me. His wife was a big-time lawyer for our company.

We kind of became friends. It was cool to have an older person’s perspective. We used to go to lunch and one day he started telling me that he liked women’s feet which I did, too, so it was good to have someone to talk to about sex.

I guess he trusted me because one day he told me how he liked for his wife to peg him. He was short and his wife was tall. He told me that it turned him on that his bigger wife would bend him over and fuck him. I said that’s hot.

I guess he was testing how I would react, so he says, “My biggest fantasy is to suck a cock”. Before I could even say anything (and I was thinking “wut”) he says “I’ve never been attracted to men, but there is something about the idea of sucking a cock that turns me on”. You’re the only person I’ve told. I’ve never been told Elizabeth”.

That was the first time I had heard a straight guy say that. I wondered if he was really bi or maybe there was something else in between gay and straight. I was young, I didn’t know. Hopefully I’ve gained some wisdom. Now I think labels are dumb. People should just like what they like and not worry about it or how others feel about it.

 

But people do worry about it and how others think and feel about it. That's the sad part and "gay" is still a bad word in our social and moral contracts. I do hope he got to suck some cock just the same!