Is it Is it Possible to Fall in Love with Someone here on Hip Forums?

Discussion in 'True Love' started by Spud, Jan 3, 2009.

  1. Lunica

    Lunica Member

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    Thanks! :)


    The world is a small place!

    My husband and I spoke for over 6months before we met. It was strange when we finally met because we were already in love.


    I believe meeting someone online has many pros, especially if you're shy. There is no judgment on the physical appearance and both can talk about themselves with little mental boundaries.

    There is no fear of rejection. If they don't like you, or vice versa, you can decide not to speak again and no one has to put up with physical rejection.

    You can tell that person everything because they're just somebody on the internet, who you may never meet. If you're both still talking and interested in each other after sharing your life stories, then that person is a possible match.

    Falling in love with someone without any physical connection makes the love even stronger.



    End of love rant! :D




    The 69 prank caller.. :eek: sounds romantic! haha
     
  2. JimiAllTheWay

    JimiAllTheWay Member

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    I hope so, or I'm just delusional. :D
     
  3. OptimisticFutureBlues

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    I actually did once. Beautiful girl too. Wont name names but it was one of the greatest experiences of my life...then she lost her job, wanted to try ex, crashed her car, and supposedly cheated on me while I was there. I was working as much as I could to support the place but she invited her friend to stay with us when we couldn't even support ourselves. (She didn't tell me about the cheating until I was back home in Arizona) She cheated on me with this bald headed, tooth missing, bro douche bag who knows nothing but how to fight people and brag about his previous negative altercations. Attractive I guess. Then when I begged her to take me back she ignored my phone calls, informed me that she cheated on me and went out with ANOTHER person from Hip forums, this one was and is completely nuts. He treats women like they are just another score, he tells them that they're special and he is actually crazy enough to make HIMSELF believe it. I suppose that's karma for ya, she personally told me that she regretted it. I consider the field even. Though its still very hard to forget, and I think about it every.single.day.

    It completely ruined pornography for me, it ruined my confidence in my decisions, it ruined me. BUT i have since managed to salvage the wreckage, I now walk with a smile and a bit more spring in my step everyday. With the help of my guitar and some psychedelic drugs, I can safely say that I'm simply okay.

    If you plan on dating someone from hip forums or the internet period, I would PERSONALLY advise against it. They may seem amazing from a distance, but everyone reveals their negative side when you get closer to them, either literally or figuratively. Just be careful.
     
  4. newbie-one

    newbie-one one with the newbiverse

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    sounds like there's a story. why not spill the beans?
     
  5. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    no. don't be silly.
     
  6. Lodog

    Lodog Senior Member

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    I almost did about twice, but decided against it.
     
  7. lovelyxmalia

    lovelyxmalia Banana Hammock Lifetime Supporter

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    I dunno...is it possible to fall in love with someone on hipforums? I've never really thought about falling in love with someone on the forum I guess...
     
  8. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    There have been couples whose first encounters were on HF. Dangermoose and Tigerlily were a good example. And in 2006, there were also me and someone else who is no longer a member. My relationship with this ex-HF poster didn't last long, but I believe Danger and Tiger are still together.....unless something happened to them. I know they ended up living together. (I might have even heard something about Tiger being pregnant at some point....though it might have been someone else)
     
  9. JimiAllTheWay

    JimiAllTheWay Member

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    Hmm yes there MAY be a story.... but I'm afraid you'll have to wait for my awesome novel that makes me a multi billionaire..... jks :D
    I'm afraid you'll have to leave the story to your imagination. XD
     
  10. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    i'm in love with rollingalong... what an ass..
     
  11. PrincessBubblegum_:D

    PrincessBubblegum_:D Guest

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    I think so... I have never been in love so I don't know very much about it but I definitely think it would be possible, especially if you shared interests :D
     
  12. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    To fall in love with someone one has never met would (to me) seem to be falling in love with the idea of the person. Though one can try hard to have their personality come across, a lot of human interaction becomes lost through communication by text. The personable aspect just isn't there.

    One could just as easily fall for a robot, as they could fall for a person behind text...

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  13. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    I'm working on trying to tap my last teenager[19]...after that maybe we can talk:)
     
  14. susancollins

    susancollins Guest

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    yeah you can.. i don't think that it will be a true relationship...:)
     

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