is everyone of the younger generation slutty?

haha, yeah. joe was trying to get you to blow him all the fucking time.

Yeah, they should give us REASONS not to have sex, not just "don't do it!!" because that's half the appeal of illegal drugs (although it goes along with feeling so good..). Everyone wants to be a badass.

We should learn to love ourselves, though. There's way too many problems with self esteem these days.

We learn from each mistake we make.

At our age, it seems more like a lust for relationships. It's natural.:sunglasse

 

Marriage can do the opposit. It can ruin sex.

 

Yeah this tread is gett'n a little redicules!

 

they do this because they feel they need acceptance from men... alot of girls think that all men care about is sex and they want to put the good name in. like you said, you probably like it when a girl wants to fuck you, and they think because of that, you like her more and then you will tell all your friends and then your friends will like her to and probably fuck her as well. and then she will feel really good about herself. i'm sure there are still plenty of girls out there who aren't like that, usually the really shy ones like myself....

 

i agree this guy has got some issues if he thinks that every girl is on her back waiting the second he wals in the room

 

maybe you wouldnt think all the girls were whores if you didnt live in whoreville...

 

Well, the problem is that Purityville turned into Whoreville in a matter of years. Not my responsability. I'm not going to move simply because the girls here have become sex addicts.

 

wow that was a cool thing to say, i guess if you cant beat em then join em. become a slut!

 

you're moving just because of that?

 

No, I'm staying just because of that. I like to criticize the sluttification of the nation, but at the same time I enjoy it of course. I'm a bit of a hypocrit, you see?

 

I tend to blame the whole thing on society's sending young people wrong messages. Media's ignoring accurate information regarding sex and continuously feeding the young people garbage certainly don't help at all, either. And then there's the term "slut". What is a "slut", anyway? If that simply means a sexually open-minded young girl then I would certainly NOT call her a "slut". EVER.

Who said it.... Somebody said something that was right on the money on this. He said that a "slut" is someone who sleeps around without feeling any self-respect, while a sexually liberated woman is totally happy with herself, is quite aware of both pros and cons to sex, takes necessary precautions, and is someone who emphasize of being one with sexuality itself...., or something like that.

 

I like girls who give an outward appearance of "nice good girl"...but are totally in touch with their inner SLUT.

 

Yeah, I agree with that. Though it is easier for women to get laid, I'd wager, just because men tend to be more casual about sex (in general).

Personally, I like girls with a very casual attitude towards sex, 'cuz thats the attitude I have. As long as a girl has self-respect and honestly likes herself, I say that doesn't make them a slut or whore. Those terms have very negative connotations, and I don't think being promiscuous or very casual about sex is neccesarily a negative thing. But if it does make you a "slut", then being a slut must be a good thing. Hell, that would make me a slut, too, lol...

One caveat- being casual about sex doesnt mean being casual about commitments or faithfulness in a relationship. Those are two very separate things. As long as a person is upfront and honest about their intentions, there's really nothing to place judgement upon.

 

Woah. WHat a topic I've stumbled upon!
Okay. My opinion. If a girl's having sex because she likes sex and isn't feeling like she's trying to gain something out of it, whether it be inward or outward, and she has her head on straight, is safe, and is happy with who she is, no that's not a slut or a whore. And, going back a bit, woah, girls wearing armbands with sex codes on their bodies?! Holy cow.

 

Well, I don't like to judge people too much so I won't vote in this poll however one of the things that has not been mentioned in this thread (far as I know) is the safety factor. I am concerned that the safe sex message is not getting through to the younger people. Obviously when you are a teenager nothing can hurt you and using condoms is just a hassle but if what johnschlong is saying is true we should be seeing a rise in the number of STD case and abortions. I have not researched this but it would be interesting to look at the figures.
Anyway I am not far off having to teach my oldest child all about sex, this is part of the reason I am hanging around sex forums and in order to teach you have to know all about the subject matter. Most people are not willing to be honest about sex towards their children and hence a child tends to get a skewed view of human sexuality.
Then there are role models such as Brittany Spears, Paris Hilton and a lot of other famous females who dress and act in a provocative manner, are they the cause of all this supposed promiscuity?
No, they may be a small part but it goes a lot deeper than that. It is generally accepted that in times of crisis (such as wartime) people are more promiscuis and that too is part of the "new sexual revolution". Youngsters grow up knowing the world is in bad shape and human physche is to reproduce more, thie is not a concious action but just a trait of nature.
Then there is competition, girls compete amongst themselves to get the best partner they can and there is fear that if a girl does not do everything then she will be left on the shelf or end up with a loser.
Pornography, another reason mostly due to the easy availability. When I was 15 or therabouts I had to go into a shop to buy Playboy (which did not have an age restriction then), nowadays all you have to is have access to the internet. Also the type of porn is harder, it's all arse fucking and then sticking it down the actress's throat. Lot different to playboy. If that is how young men learn about sex who can blame them for getting the idea that is how sex is because there is no decent sex ed in school and parents would rather not talk about the little details. It is a concern that youngsters are not learning the subtle art of seduction and not learning about romance (which they will need later to keep their long term relationship working).
Young ladies are not learning that once you give a bloke what he wants he won't bother talking to you anymore (so girls make sure you get that drink before you blow, otherwise he might cheat you out of free booze). Yes back in the good old days young woman had sexual urges too but they knew that if you give it away for free then men won't respect you. It's like giving a young bloke a car for free, he will more than likely thrash it but if he has to work hard to earn that car he will cherish it and look after it.
Sure it is easy to say if a woman wants a fuck she should be able to scratch her itch just like a bloke and I don't have a problem with that as long as it is safe and fun for all involved. However don't expect to get respect because the kidddie touchers in the pulpit have created a man's world for men.
Alright enough dribble for now, I would just like to finish by saying if we all do a bit of growing up then we could get over stereotyping and name calling and just enjoy life a bit more.
A more mature attitude to sex = a more mature attitude to life

 

If your fucking them what makes you any less of a slut?

 

True, I'm fucking them out of compassion. I'm a Christian, you see?

 

untrue, but funny as hell

 

Nope. Your generation is following in the path of the Baby Boomers who launched the sexual revolution in the late '60s and early '70s. To call women who are more sexually liberated than their mothers' generation "whores" is a blatantly sexist insult -- to say nothing of hypocritical, since men are far, far more "slutty" than women, hands down.

-- Skeeter