is everyone of the younger generation slutty?

That's what gets people. I think our generation lives their sex lives to such a vicarious extent that they've lost the capacity to differentiate between media portrayals and reality.

I do not think that. That is why I suggested research. Check out the 1998 Univ. of Chicago study in the 2000 NYT Almanac and read about the lifestyle of those involved in the Sexual Revolution of the 60s and 70s.

 

And who was the recipient of all these blow jobs, sir? I think a lot of girls do stuff they don't want to because guys pressure them.


And if a girl wants to for her own reasons like another poster said, then that is her business. It doesn't mean she isn't worth dating.

I for one, won't have sex with a guy unless I like him a lot, have had good conversations with him, and maybe not even until I have real feelings for him. It's just uncomfortable for me to do it with a strange guy, but I don't judge girls who do! To each her own!

 

I think that I loved that about girls when I was single. I dont go around saying all girls are whores, because men have always done it. The women are just catching up, and being aggressive nowadays. Most of the women I know have been with several guys. I just think that most girls today are short term girlfriend material, and that is great when you are single. When you get married though you want a nice girl who you know is not all (walleyed) out. This way of thinking is much better dont you think. The sad thing is that some girls who have been with like 50 guys will be someone's wife one day. Some poor schmuck who has no idea. I am a man so I admit I am biased in my entry.

 

all this negativity .....if there realy were all theese 'sluts' out there , id like to give them all medals of valor .....hip hip houray for sluts .....!!! we need more of em ...

 

That's brilliant. Woman's like sex man like sex. If she/he know what to do to make sex safe, why tehy shouldn't sleep with each other? Love is a pleasure, maybe some girls are really slutty, but who ares about them? All people has own life way and gave them a free choice. U should respet womans needs, and never, NEVER call them sluts. For me it's nothing wrong when somebody make love after 5 min ( for sex we need man as well) beause it's just for fun. All unanticipated effect would be smoebody problem not Yours.

 

any respectful person would admit to their partner how many sexual partners they've had, and any respectful and reasonable person would accept that as the past. casual sex and meaningful sex are two different things, and there should be room for both.

 

Yes. I think the new generation, MY generation, is taking sexual liberation to a whole new level. And I think I do, too. I won't say that I'm a whore or a slut, because I don't think that I am [because I think being a slut is different from being sexually involved with a large # of people... you can be one and not the other]. However, I do think that the girls around me in my age group have women's sexual liberation confused with the porn you see on www.wetchicks.net or whatever. I don't even know if that's a web site, but I'm making a point. I think young girls who haven't learned an adequate amount about women's lib and the 60's movements aimed at freeing our actions are confused about sex and how meaningful it should be. Women were protesting the stigma they felt about having sex they wanted, not just about having sex. I think girls don't understand that nowadays and think that they will get lots of male attention if they get drunk and flash their breasts and kiss their girlfriends- and they do! It's not like they're doing that in closed doors with hushed voices. They're having it videotaped and sold for a 1-month $1.99 subscription.

I think the whole "If you want it, be safe, and be happy" thing is alright and okay and a great message for other people, and is the way that you should engage in all of your sex acts. But even reflecting on ones that I've had, sometimes my "Ahh, just had to get laid" moments were not my finest ones. Sometimes I have [and other girls] have taken our "right to have sex" and blurred it with "to have sex" and have not really recognized that there are hookups we really didn't want but justified nonetheless with the whole "sexual freedom" thing. I don't think that's right. I think you shouldn't feel bad about having sex with someone you love, sex that you both want, safe and good sex, sex with someone you have affection for. But even then, I don't think you should feel good about having unnecessary questionable sex, and I personally don't feel good about those encounters, even in myself.

So yes, I do think the younger generation has sex issues, and could rightly be called "slutty", but I think it stems from confusion, not some willy-nilly mass-mayhem guilt-free orgy.


And P.S. That thing about wearing wristbands to designate your favorite sexual encounters, etc... honestly, we are slutty a lot of the time but even nowadays that's pushing it. Even with the friends that I have and the people I know and my more experience in this issue, that's still pushing it. Where I live [and in most relatively normal cultures] that is still too slutty.

And P.S.S.... You've gotten called some bad names here for making this point and others say "Don't judge" but they're looking down on you for just a regular questionable observation like any other. Is that the smell of hypocrisy?

 

we're not any sluttier, we are just experimental.

 

well, MistysFrosted, he was calling females whores, and a lot of us didn't particularly appreciate that. i agree with most of what you said... ppl nowadays have sex issues because of confusion over what sex should and could be. i think your post has been the most FACTUAL in this thread. (almost) you may have answered his questions, anyway. many girls feel guilty about unnecessary, non-meaningful experiences, i have, and i've resolved not to have them anymore, but that's my own personal choice because i simply don't enjoy casual sex. (not that i've had all that much to begin with)

that doesn't mean other people can't and that casual sex is wrong. it's up to the individual. but they might enjoy themselves more if they had it with someone they cared about who cared for them back.

please don't call all of us hypocrites. the guy specifically insulted women. (btw, i know lots about the 60s and the feminist movements [which started way before the 60s, ya know]. and i'm not a feminist, i'm an equalist)

P.S: i clicked on your link out of curiosity, and it is, indeed, a website, but i don't think it's a porn site. :tongue: Peace.

 

well in my opinion the younger generation have more experience having sex then most adults. which is pretty crazy in my opinion. personally im not into sex yet and im 16 and im not ready for it so im a good one of the generation and my GirlFriend isnt either so not all wemon and men are whores and players in this generation. but i do agree about 90% of this new youth generation are sluts and whores, players and cheaters. not to mention all those guys who have those rageing horomoans are all anxtious to have sex like its a NOW NOW NOW thing with them. mostly in the so called "Gangsta" clique.... also u cant blame just the guys for this.... if the girls dressed more appropriatly then maybe we wouldnt have so many whores and players.
and yes zeppelina ur right no one has the right to judge the other UNLESS they can judge themselves just as i have well thanx for the 10 mins of thinking guys

 

It is interesting that each generation thinks they invented recreational sex and drugs. I have as to meet a single 20 year old who has done anything I didn't do before they were born. I am fairly certain there are a great many 65 year olds would say the same about me. I also find it interesting that each generation, when it gets into it late 30's and later, seems to think what they did was okay, but what the younger generation is currently do, is somehow wrong.

 

grow up! "also u cant blame just the guys for this.... if the girls dressed more appropriatly then maybe we wouldnt have so many whores and players" this is bullshit. so blame the chicks cause the guys can't control themselves.

 

It's Ok to set limits,to say no to recreational sex.
Reprogram yourself. Do not worship other people's opinions.
Allow others to learn to love and accept you. Don't be used - Be yourself - Be happy.

 

its ok to say no to recreational sex but is also ok to say yes.
its ok to do what you feel like doing
sex is fun, sometimes there can be love involve and other times is just lust and the sharing of an experience more than a feeling.
neither are wrong or right as long as you feel good about doing what your doing then everything is great. just you know wear a condom.

 

alot of girls need the attention because of lack of love from their fathers, parents, etc. They look for it in a quick screw with a guy, and obviously dont find it long term. Its sad, but its life.

 

that might be true.

 

Better question...
Does it matter?
Following that I would like to direct those who vote yea to the following
Freedom of choice

 

well said aeshura.

 

i agree aeshura!!!

 

mabee where you live

media influence ?
myth ?
lie ?
whishfullthinking ?
freer desiers ?
environmental hormon mess ?



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