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Hey, lurked on the site for a while,lots of common threads,lots for me to process. 62, married 40 years same woman with medical issues so sexless marriage, loyal. Had a female friend before marriage and we could talk about anything, lots of phone sex. we talked and I got over some hangups, she was bi so she gave me the strength to have an open mind (watching gay porn I like muscular clean shaven men) and try new things ( I can take an 8.5 dildo up my ass and love it) and I really miss talking to her. I jerk off almost daily, but I do have some hangups because I've found gay men to be deceptive and a little shallow , I'll explain...first was a guy in a cab who picked me up and we talked until he dropped me off (I was 19 and naive) gave me a note and lurked outside my apartment, he wanted to come in and give me a blowjob, scared me to death. Other negatives followed, maybe elaborate later. I have had an encounter with a guy. We were watching porn and we stripped, he reached over and grabbed my cock, started sucking. I didn't freak out so I reached for his, rolled into a 69 and sucked me until I came, don't remember if he swallowed, just said there was a lot of cum. I sucked him for a while and finally he jerked himself off....he wanted to fuck me after but I said no then, but to this day I think about fucking him, or being fucked by him. I've also had phone sex with his wife (before they got married) so my fantasy would be a 3 way with them....I could say more but that's a good start I guess.....

 

I should also say I'm looking for someone to talk to , male or female and that will talk about anything, most gay men won't talk about sex with or about women.Maybe this is the place...

 

Hello I’ve just joined and am still looking around. I’d like to find some people to chat to at some point so thought I’d post here. I’m married but have always felt attracted to both men and women and I’m always looking for a bit more excitement in my life.

 

One newbie to another, welcome....

 

I think this is the place for you, I am very bi curious and I find a lot folks to talk to here

 

Hello! Mid 50s Bi Verse/Top MWM in MInnesota here. Actively Bi for 40 years

 

Welcome to the forum this is the right place to find someone to chat with you. I’m bisexual and I have found someone that I chat with and we chat about everything. And I think you will find a few people that would love to chat with you .

 

Hi. I am 59, Bi MWM. I would love to talk to other bi men around my age. It's difficult having such strong desires to be with a man and also having a wife, one who wouldn't understand those desires. I'd also like to see if there are other men out there whose desires to be with a man have increased as we get older.

 

welcome to the forum. you'll find out that there are tons of guys whose desires to be with another man have increased as they've gotten older. you're not alone

 

That’s true I will be 56 on the 22nd of this month and I love to be with other men and theirs a lot of guy’s on here that feel like use .

 

Feel free to message me anytime

 

Hi all! New to this site but seems like a pretty fun cool open place to be!

 

Hi !, and welcome to HF !!!

 

Like your profile and welcome to HF....

 

Welcome! I’m also new to this site. 45 mwm and enjoy/think of sexually being with other men daily. I am happily married but have always had urges that are persistent. You are definitely not alone, please reach out anytime, I’d love to talk, it can definitely be confusing and a challenge.

 

You sound like me, welcome to HF !!

 

Thanks!! Great to be in a place I don’t feel alone!!

 

A lot of us are having the same urges and desires, that's why we're here

 

you are definitely not alone. being on forums like this helped me tremendously with coming to terms with my sexuality. i know it'll do the same for you

 

Hi I'm Scott I love being a bottom to men and lady's that like to peg. I.am loving a sissy kink and interested in being cucked x
Hope to meet fun peeps here x