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Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by erzebet1961, Jan 13, 2007.

  1. Hello.. I'm Sierra, 27, from North Carolina. I've been bi since college, so almost ten years. .
     
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  2. Liam O’riley

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    Hello I’m Liam I’ve recently come out to my family and friends and I’m feeling great add up my new Twitter @LiamOriley4 or my insta @orileyl911
     
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  3. BottomBiGuy

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    Hi everyone! I'm Mike from North Florida. I love women for sure but love to be a submissive bottom when I get the chance to be with a guy. Married, so it doesn't happen nearly as often as I would like
     
  4. Poplo.

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    Ok i'm a old guy 62 my wife is 48. I started playing with my self when I was 9 or 10 as I got older it never stopped! I met my wife when she was in high
    school and married her right after she graduated! Although married I kept playing with my self until my wife caught me in a unlock bathroom door! She
    went along with it and asked me if I ever had a man the answer was no! At times inset of fucking my wife I would go in the bathroom and play with my
    self and cum of course and she knew! It and went on even after having two kids! Feeling guilty I told my wife she could have a lover if she wanted to and
    at first she said no but eventually she did! At first it was one night stands until she took on a lover! They fucked as often as they wanted I didn't mind! It
    wasn't until I finally got to see them fuck that I had my first suck ecperience when my wife asked me to join them and ended up sucking the guy! Needless to say I loved it! Since then my wife has had many lovers as well as me! Not much of a writer but hope you get the idea!
     
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  5. J H

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    I am bi-curious. I've never been with a guy or did I ever have any urge to be naked with another guy until recently. Recently meaning the last few months. I jokingly said to a friend that I was going home and getting naked and said that he was welcome to come over. He quickly asked if my wife would be home or gone. I told him that she was home because I didn't know if I wanted to get naked with him or not. He since has messaged me and we have talked a little about what might happen. I told him that I would not want anything put in my butt and that I was undecided about sucking. He was quick to agree that he wouldn't do anything without my consent. I am extremely nervous about it, but at the same time, I get hard thinking about bending him over and fucking him while giving him a reach around. Can't decide what to do.
     
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  6. Poplo.

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    Well it seems to me your more then bi-curious and your ready to take the plunge! Why not just meet him just to talk and let what happens happen!!!
    Since you both have talked about doing some thing bi your both ready just nervous about it! Have him go to your home and meet at the door naked!
    It's natural to be nervous but that soon will go away! Once he see's you naked any thing might happen! I'm excited for you!
     
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  7. Mfmca42

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    Hi, I’m a married bi curious forty year old with some experience with men (oral only, so far). I have no preference for top or bottom. I’d happily be either, but don’t have enough experience either way to get out of the “curious” category.
    My wife knows about my curiosity with men and we’ve even had a MFM bi threesome in the past. It’s been so long since we’ve really discussed it that I’m not even sure where she stands on it.
    In any case, I guess I’m here because if I can’t actually go have these experiences right now I’d like to meet people who are like me, or who are getting more bi action then I am so I can live vicariously through them, lol.
    I also love to chat and share pics and stuff so please feel free to reach out. :)
     
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  8. Yury Severcev

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  9. Paulievcvc

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    I used to be straight, a long time ago. In my teens I was probably 99% or so, with the very rare bi fantasy popping its head in the door to say hello.

    In my mid 20s, back in the mid nineties, I got myself a computer, a modem, and access to chat rooms. I received the occasional invite from guys which led to dirty chat, masturbation, and the inevitable cum. Yuck, disgusting, I did not just do that. Shut down computer.

    Occasional gay fantasies over the years while masturbating. Cum. Disgust.

    Married my wife in 2001. 5 years into our marriage she tells me she enjoys masturbating while imagining a woman going down on her. Mind blowing sex ensues. Six months later I finally pluck up the courage to tell her my little secret. More mind blowing sex.

    This was a turning point in my life. I immediately stopped feeling disgusted with myself after a gay fantasy. I allowed myself to think about men more often. One day I decided to start masturbating to a man, right off the bat. Very liberating! I started to do this more often. I came to the realization at one point that I thought about men more than women. My wife loved it and so did I. She doesn't even fantasize about me with other women anymore. She is too turned on thinking about me with men. I started to think less and less about women. For quite a few years now it has been exclusively men. Nothing better than openly masturbating to gay erotica or porn, with your wife beside you (masturbating to lesbian porn).

    I have gone to a Jack-off club in Seattle and met with a guy in a hotel here in Chicago. All with my wife's support and encouragement. She loves how gay I've become and even though we have regular awesome sex, she knows that will stop at some point. I told her (and keep telling her) several years ago to find a lover but she is shy about it. She knows I want a gay lover but we will still stay married. Just easier to have an open marriage.

    The funny thing is I still think women are hot. I love looking at a beautiful woman and checking out her breasts and ass. I have NO interest in pussy though. I very rarely touch, lick, or fuck my wife's. Strictly by request only. Thankfully, for both of us, she loves it in the ass. The thought of anal never occurred to me before I met her. She introduced me to it! I have yet to fuck a guy in the ass but cannot wait (and be on the receiving end).

    I am thankful that once I opened up to my wife I never felt conflicted or worried about my sexuality. Didn't bother me when I realized I was most likely bi and don't care that I am pretty much gay. I enjoyed my time having sex with women but I think that was just foreplay and now it is time for the main event. I am hard and horny and ready to have sex with men now. I am particularly lucky to have a wife who is holding my cock and ready to guide me in.
     
  10. BiGuySW

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    Hi, I'm a 69-year-old man who has been bisexual all of his adult life, so that goes back a long way. I have had several long-term relationships with women, including a 22-year marriage and a current 15-year relationship, but all of my sexual encounters with men have been short-term runs based on safe-sex practices. Sex with men has enhanced my long-term relationships with women, and I remain very sexually active with my current girlfriend. I think the best lovers are not totally male or totally female, but instead embrace both their masculine and feminine characteristics.

    After having several encounters with men who are more affectionate than the norm, I have become interested in having a longer-term relationship with another bisexual man. I think something more exclusive with one man would allow for a deeper connection, just like it does in my relationships with women, but my experience has been that many bi men are mainly interested in fleeting hook-ups for various reasons. One possible explanation is that men tend to be much more conditioned to shun same-sex sensuality than women are.

    My closest friends tend to be women, but I continue to seek out those rare men who are not afraid to get close to another man.
     
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  11. RisingBi

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    Hi all my fellow bisexual, bicurious, and gay readers and posters--men and women!

    I'm a single, never married, 57 year old bisexual man. Other than experimenting and playing around sexually with my best male friend from 8-13 years of age, I was totally straight in my feelings, interests, and desires until I hit 30 years of age. I fell in love with my first girl at eight years of age, and had lots of crushes on girls from then on and into university, asking many of them out, but always being rejected (except I did have one date and a single kiss goodbye at 16). I fell in love and lost my virginity with a woman at 27, without really even dating her (she was just in our group of friends that we went out dancing with). Finally! But when she broke up with me at 30, I had a rough time, not unlike, well, everyone else in the world that got their heart broken!

    But unlike most people perhaps, my mind within a couple months turned to fantasies about guys, perhaps as a distraction from the pain, perhaps from an underlying bisexuality that was always there unconsciously. There was a growing amount of gay porn, and eventually intense gay lust that drove me out to all kinds of gay sex venues for anonymous sex with men. There was, and still is, such an abundance of these places to have anonymous sex with guys (porn theaters, bookstore video arcades, jerk off clubs, cruising parks, bathhouses, back rooms of gay bars, gay sex clubs, gay nudist clubs, and even a gay orgy club--all that I frequented), that it really dominated my life for a couple decades. I still dated women, because I was really attracted to them and wanted to get married someday, have children, a house with a white picket fence, a great job, etc. But most of the dates were only one date, a few second dates, and only a couple third dates, and then rejection. Out of all that straight dating, the only "sex" was just a single good night kiss with one woman, on our first and only date. But I wanted sex and love with a woman so much. I clearly just did not have the karma for it. Every disappointment with a woman always intensified the gay porn until it drove me out again looking for more sex with guys.

    The problem I was having with all this gay sex was that in my fantasies and porn watching, my desires were out of this world, and I just loved everything about man to man sex, and even fantasized about having a boyfriend or husband. But whenever I got naked with another real guy, I lost that passionate desire. But I always still performed the sex act. And it was always only oral. I never had any anal feelings when I was with a real guy, despite loving it all in my fantasies and porn. But at home the gay desire always came rushing back, driving me out again eventually for sex with men to fulfil those desires. But there were a few exceptions, just a handful, where I had a lot of passionate desire for the guy that I was naked with. So I kept going out looking to repeat those kinds of encounters. But mostly I was always disappointed. So I considered myself bi-confused for those two decades.

    But in 2013 I saw this really cute twink in a bathhouse that I was super attracted to, especially his ass. OMG, did he ever have a cute ass, and a delicious body. I went so crazy rimming his ass for over an hour, with passion like I had never had with another human being, and I finally lost my gay virginity as a top with him when I fucked him hard in his ass with a condom.

    That encounter changed my life. I WAS BISEXUAL! I was definitely bisexual, loving having sex with another man. I felt so free accepting my bisexuality, and determined to stop hiding it behind anonymous sex with men. I started getting together with real guys through hook-up sites, having sex with them in each other's homes, getting to know them a little bit, even going on dinner dates, and even seeing this one guy who I really liked a bunch of times. I still didn't have romantic feelings for any man like I had in my fantasies, but the sexual passion was definitely there.

    Then I met my second girlfriend, had a couple dates with her, started having sex, and fell in love. But it was a very tumultuous 3-year relationship, with many break-ups. During every break I was back to the gay porn and fantasies, though I didn't hook up with any guy. But the gay porn began to become a problem. I was addicted. It started happening even when we were back together. We're now broken up I hope for good (I did the breaking up just before Christmas). But I haven't gotten back to gay porn, or any porn.

    But I have come to this forum, I guess to indulge in my gay fantasies, read about others' experiences, talk about my experiences, talk about what I like about cock and ass, talk about my fantasies and hopes, and discuss sexuality and figure myself out, and maybe help others as well. I have quite a bit of shame about the gay porn, which my girlfriend knew about, and shame about how I have hurt her with that, and even talking online to other guys--really sort of cheating on her. I'm a little confused again about my sexuality. The porn for the last 27 years has been 99% gay; I always turn to gay fantasies whenever I'm hurt by a woman; with women, I've just had sex with my two girlfriends (and one prostitute); with men, I've had oral sex with over 100 men (but most was not pleasurable for me, as I've said), rimmed three guys' assholes (very pleasurable), and fucked one guy in the ass (life-altering). But I definitely loved having sex with my last girlfriend very much. But even throughout that relationship I couldn't stop the gay fantasies. I know sometime in the coming weeks or months I probably will go back to trying sex again with men, and looking for a stronger connection with another guy. I fantasize about having a fuck buddy. I also fantasize about bottoming for a guy for the first time. That's a very strong desire within me. It just has to be the right guy.

    Oh yes, just one more thing. I write too much: I'm very verbose. Thanks for listening (reading), if you made it this far! (Also, FYI: You may recognize this description of me because I have been a member for a few months under a different pseudonym, one that I'm trying to get away from.)

    Love,
    Jack
     
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  12. Theodora

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    Hey everyone, I really need to talk about it
    I have only dated guys this far but a couple weeks ago I was drunk at a party and my best friend (a girl) kissed me. It happened more than one time that night but as I said I was drunk and I cant really remember how that felt. Since that day I have thoughts that I may be bisexual as the thought of kissing or doing other stuff with a girl doesn't bother me I mean it feels good but it is just a thought and I believe that I should try again (sober this time) so I can understand if I really am bi. If anyone could give me some advice and tell me if it seems that I an bi according to what I said in their opinion and personal experience I would really appreciate that. Thank you for your time❤
    * I would also like to meet other people from here
     
  13. Hayloft

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    Hello. I don't know of it means I'm bi, but I sometimes have really hot fantasies about being with another woman.

    I absolutely love sex with a man. I've never been with a woman, but thinking about it during sex with a man makes it so much more exciting for me than it already is.

    I don't know how to experiment with these fantasies or even if I should. Any comments are welcome.
     
  14. Theodora

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    If those fantasies are exciting for you I believe you should experiment with them. I don't know how you could that because I want to experiment to but I am still figuring it out. So just be open to what comes and when you have a chance have a go and you might enjoy it
     
  15. Bicaptain My Captain

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    Theo, you already have an invitation to experiment from your best friend. Try again when the two of you are sober and see where it goes.
     
  16. Bottoms Up

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    Hey there everybody I’m Kevin from Massachusetts. I’m 45 years old and happily married to my wife who is my best friend. I have just recently come out to some family and friends that I am bisexual. My wife has knows since day 1. Well, day 2 actually.
    I have known I was interested in guys sexually on some level for a long time, but that was a very confusing, embarrassing and scary thing to admit as a kid. So I didn’t for a long time.
    There were a few brief chance encounters I had with a few of my friends in my youth but really just a little touching and caressing. Enough to know that I wanted to have some actual experiences with guys. I got some toys and had fun that way for a long time. I was always so scared that people would find out and that seemed like it would be the end of the world and I felt like I couldn’t let that happen. I squashed these feelings way down there. I remember deciding to keep this a secret.
    Feelings have a way of not staying squashed way down however. Over the years I have slowly grown more comfortable with the idea of people knowing, which led me to coming out earlier this year to a select group. Now I’m here telling you folks. I had thought to myself yesterday that I don’t have any likeminded guys to talk to about this stuff. So I searched “bisexual forums” and there you were. Read through a few threads and it seems like I found the right place.

    Thanks for having me!
    Happy New Year!
     
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  17. Theodora

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    The problem is that I don't know if my best friend would like to try that sober.
     
  18. Bicaptain My Captain

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    Next time you see her, put your hand on her face and look in her eyes. If she pulls back or looks surprised, forget it and let her make the next move if she wants. If her eyes look inviting or curious, kiss her.
     
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  19. Theodora

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    I'll try it ,thank you I really appreciate that.
     
  20. Ashley909890999

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    Hi

    Im bi guy from London

    Married but can play with whomever with wives permission

    I enjoy mature men

    Only really done oral and kissing
     
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