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Hello, I'm Indigo. I'm a panromantic pansexual-flux from Nashville Tennessee. I couldn't find any forums for pan folx like myself, so her

 

Sup everyone. Im also married. My story is much like many ive read so far. Im kind of bi, it cums and goes. I love my wife, but sometimes i want to suck a dick. Other times i want to put on pretty/ slutty things. It would also be nice to have my dick sucked once in awhile.

Its nice to find others going through the same thing.

 

Just found this site recently, and very glad I did..I am 40 Bi DL and like every guy here, much like my profile name I have these urges that call to me..Which is an appropriate term because at their peak its just like a phone that wont stop ringing..Eventually you MUST answer it! I used to deny these cravings, but as we know they do not care, and unlike ppl, we cant ignore them and hope they'll go away..They dont!..I..used to think maybr these meant maybe I was gay but found my love for women and hetero sex never left..I used to listen stupidly to what others said, "You cant be bi" "Youre gay or youre not" etc...Well after self love and enlightenment journey Ive realized it may not be for everyone but I am truly bi..I consider myself more of a sexual being...I prefer women from an overall perspective, but cannot deny my lust for cock..I think it started being well endowed myself I became curious about other hung males and it went from there..I am an avid gay porn watcher because it helps with the cravings..Im sure Ive been desensitized as well from porn and Ive watch women suck cock since dirty magazine days lol..Eventually you get curious to see what thats all about..This site has motivated me to take another step and find a DL partner to safely explore with and take this journey I love the gf and that wont change but I cannot ignore the occasional urges for male intimacy..Dont plan on coming out..YET...Im so glad to find this site being DL I cannot really express my desires but here I see I am in no way alone and there are so many of us that are dealing with the same..So its a good place to vent with anyone who understands we are powerless over the urges and learning to embrace then instead

 

I'm 48, and have been in a relationship going on 8 years, supposed to be married sometime this year. What she doesn't know is, that I've been bicurious for a while, and I can't tell her. I've got somewhat of an exhibitionist fetish, and I've had dreams about receiving anal sex and giving oral sex to men for years, but being in the Bible Belt, I've never done anything about it.

 

OK, dumb question, whats DL? Down Low? Diaper Lover?

Otherwise you could be my twin.

 

Hello All,

I'm a 41 bisexual male. Glad to meet you all. In an open relationship with good support. Thankful for that. Drop me a message if you want to chat. Good conversations are always fun.

 

Hey all. Just like many of you, I’m a bi guy in a straight marriage. Before getting married, I played with a few guys here and there through high school.

I met a girl, fell in love and married her. I never had the need to come out to anyone. Now it’s been 10 years and I don’t feel complete because there is no one I can talk about my feelings. My wife and close friends would never understand. Hopefully, I find likeminded, non judgmental guys here.

 

Hey, everyone!

So I'm a bisexual male and I honestly LOVE it! There is something so erotic to me about being bi. My issue is that I don't have anyone to discuss my feelings with. I'm hoping to change that here! ;-)

 

Welcome Ryan. Also bi and love it. Nothing better than sucking a nice hard cock.

 

Welcome Ryan. Being bisexual is great and I agree is erotic. Drop me a message if you want to chat.

 

I hope one day you can be open to her.. She's lucky and doesn't know

 

I'm Kyleigh a woman that's secretly interested in bi men. Married to a straight man but my ex was bi and changed my sexual desires I guess. I'm glad I found this page.

 

hello
Im Geof from Palestine, I'm bisexual and looking for a matching couple/female who would like to enslave me, currently i stay in Dubai.

I like to be extremely humiliated by an alpha big dicked studd preferably with presence of his/mine gf.
it's all started accidentally when my roommate had me doing all house chores, found myself turned on being orderded to do low leveled stuff
secretly worked on showing him full obedience. later he discovered my intentions and felt a little deceived.
now he left the country, until he is back I need to try stuff like this.

 

Hello Kyleigh

would like to chat with you

 

Hi

 

Hi, I'm a 57 year old married guy and I've gotten very bi curious over the last few years. My wife enjoys being with a woman now and then and she's told me that if I want m2m sex, she's fine with it, just play safe. She wants to watch another guy and me go at it, says THAT would be hot as hell lol !!

 

I can totally understand where you're coming from. I too am married to a great woman, yet I've always been bisexual. I've never hidden the fact that I'm bi with my wife, as she's also bisexual. During the first few years of marriage, we both encouraged and supported each other to explore and act on the needs/desires that we can't provide for each other, as long as we were both open and honest.
Initially, my wife seemed really excited and interested in hearing about my past "gay experiences" with other men, and I was just as interested in hearing about her "lesbian experiences" with other women. She even proposed the idea of WATCHING me have gay sex, because she thinks that 2 guys having sex is just as awesome as 2 women having sex together. I never took her up on that offer, as she seemed a bit too excited to watch me with another guy, almost as if to test wether or not I might actually be gay. Truth be told, I can honestly say I enjoy sex (making love) with another man just as much as I do with a woman, and I'd rather keep the "gay sex" separate from my "straight", married sex life. It doesn't really help that I'm not really "out" to anyone other than my wife, I come from a pretty homophobic family, and that I'm NOT (never have been) the type to just sleep with anyone. A LOT of bisexual guys would be/are happy to just have a "meaningless" sex buddy to get their rocks off, but the idea of simply being another guy's "cum dump" has never been appealing to me. I need to have a connection with someone before sex is even an option. This applies to both women and men.
My wife is the same way. She's had a couple long-term lesbian relationships prior to meeting me, and a few shorter term lesbian relationships since we've been married. Like myself, her same-sex relationships are much more than just about sex. She's actually had more lesbian experiences than she has had "straight relationships. I've had the pleasure to be involved in a couple 3somes with my wife (one was multiple times, the other only happened once), but I never screwed the other chicks. The problem I'd have if my wife and I were to have a 3some with another guy is that I'd want to take the other guy's cock as much as my wife would want both of our cocks. That in itself probably wouldn't be a "problem" per say... But like I said before, there needs to be a connection, and I wouldn't have sex with ANYONE I'm not willing to kiss, make out, and cuddle with. I'm a bit weary that my wife would look at me "differently" if she were to see me kissing and making out with another man.
Because of my own insecurities, I've resorted to watching a LOT of porn to meet my own bisexual needs/desires... Almost exclusively gay bareback, transsexual, and MMF 3some porn, though I do make exceptions for specific types of fetish porn.
As I get older, I also find myself checking out other men just as much (if not more) as women when I'm in public... And my wife has definitely taken notice of this as well, as she'll often make snide remarks such as ; "you like what you see", "could you make it anymore obvious", "I can tell by that look on your face and the tent your pitching in your pants that you'd obviously like to taste and take that cock", "you wanns wipe that drool from the corner of your mouth", "I think you love cock as much as I do", "you sure you're not gay ?"...

The biggest insecurity I have regarding my bisexuality is that I'm a Sub BOTTOM with men (I've never had the desire to top another guy), and that I worry my wife would look at and treat me as "less manly" if she really knew the truth... That I need/crave/desire another SPECIAL guy's cock in my mouth and ass nearly as much as I want her to be with her.

The life of a bisexual man can be truly lonely at times, especially now as I'm getting older, and find myself having more gay thoughts, fantasies and needing"/desiring cock more than I ever had before. I'm not really sure how to move forward, but I'm sure I'll figure something out

 

sup all. just been tiptoeing around the idea of maybe doing some bi (mm) stuff...
a bit about me, 44 yrs male in texas on the east side of houston.

 

My wife and I are new to this, but she says watching me and another guy is hotter than any fantasy she has ever had.

 

Yeah I have to admit that watching two guys go at it usually makes my cock hard. I've yet to act on that urge but you never know.....