internet love

Discussion in 'True Love' started by la Principessa, Aug 15, 2009.

  1. la Principessa

    la Principessa Member since '08

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    Aww, I know the feeling. This happened to me with a long-distance relationship too. He went back to his ex and I basically lost my will to live. But trust me, it gets better.
     
  2. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    Been there, done that. Let time heal your emotional wounds man. It took me three years, but I'm ready for a new relationship now. As a matter of fact, I've fallen in love with someone over the summer, though, she has a boyfriend and I wouldn't dare get in the way of their relationship. But I'm happy now. And I know you'll be alright, if not tomorrow, then with some time.

    Life is full of adventures, and you've just fallen into a, and I repeat, A pit. There will be many more, but always remember there are just as many mountaintops where you could look around and enjoy the views, inhale the refreshing air, and feel revitalized, excited, and at peace, all at the same time. The process of getting from the bottom of a pit to the top of a mountain could be a real drag, but this is what life is about. To fully enjoy life, we must also experience the negative aspects of it as well. That's what make us truly appreciate life.

    In the meantime, cry it out.
     
  3. revvdup

    revvdup Member

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    sorry to hear random..

    things could be worse. i hope you get over it. it'll take some time since you were betrayed.
     
  4. randomguy16

    randomguy16 Member

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    well, she actually got back with me two days ago.. I just stayed around her, and she got sick of that guy she was with.. he treated her bad.. she realized how much I really love her, and went back with me. She also promised that this won't happen again, she never wants to leave me now.. :)

    Basically, this has brought her and I even closer.. I love this girl. :')
     
  5. Curlygirl

    Curlygirl Member

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    I met my boyfriend on the net. We were virtual friends for 2-3 years, then we met and became real friends for another 2-3 years and now we are a couple for almost 2 years. Don“t know if it will last but i love him and we are doing great. Any kind of relation can succeed or fail, how you met your partner is of no significance.
     
  6. 73N5H1

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    I met my wife on Myspace... She visited from Taiwan and not long after, we got married. I'd say it can work out fine if it doesn't remain "internet love" Long distance relationships never work for long... but if you take it off of the net and into the real world, then yeah, no different from meeting someone any other way.
     
  7. nldn

    nldn Senior Member

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    I have known of people who have met via online dating agencies. A couple I know are getting married next year.
     
  8. godzila

    godzila Member

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    Yes that is possible and i have seen various cases that lead to the final destination. There are various sites like shaadi.com, simplymarry.com and many more that give rise to relationship status.
     
  9. RomanticGoddess

    RomanticGoddess Guest

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    Personally, I tried dating sites but gave up. When I actually stopped looking he turned up right under my nose. He was a member of a forum I used to post on and always liked reading his silly posts. Found him thru some friends on Facebook and added him. We've been emotionally involved with each other online since February 2011. It's crazy how much we are alike and also the very opposite which attracts us to each other. we have like the same tastes in music and things like that. Both of us have a lot of online friends and people seem to like us in the same way. Our horoscopes even point to reasons why it would work. We are very deep with each other and also very sexual. We have shared each other's fantasies and even things more personal. I have seen him in tears over video chat. Sad that he couldn't be with me at the time. The list goes on and on. Every day we become even closer. And more attracted to each other. We are both finding out parts of our real selves too. Nothing he says or does makes me slightly uncomfortable or wonder about him. I really believe that we will feel the same once we meet in person. He's really not that far away in all reality..not like he's overseas. We have even discovered that he is the more submissive one and me the dominant one. He continues to pleasantly suprise me. All I have to say that my opinion is yes, this can be real. But I need 100% proof first. I'm so close to believing he is my soul mate though. I don't know what else to say about it other than I am honestly expecting good things when we meet in person.
     
  10. desireu2

    desireu2 Member

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    I have been through a couple Internet relationships including mutual on-line masturbation & photo/video exchanges ... the best two with a woman my age whose husband had a limp dick and another with a lesbian young lady who was very curious about my penis. Both ended nicely because both were distant ... the woman my age too religious to keep it going & the young lesbian lady moved in with her partner after I encouraged her to.
     
  11. _Bob_

    _Bob_ Una Tana Bibi

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    I met my wife on the internet. Not only that, we fell in love on the internet (before we actually met.) We've already got 3 kids-sure, it can happen, and it does.
     
  12. desireu2

    desireu2 Member

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    Met my wife before the Internet was invented
     
  13. la Principessa

    la Principessa Member since '08

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    That's fantastic :2thumbsup: Congrats.
     
  14. goodvibes83

    goodvibes83 Senior Member

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    i met my boyfriend online (on this site to be exact ;) ) we just moved in together 3 weeks ago, and it's the best living environment ever- unconditional love.

    sure people can use the internet to create alter-egos, but in someways it allows you to really get to know a person.

    In all of my past relationships i've had some sort of insecurity or just fear of abandonment....this is the first relationship that I am not concerned with at all; it's fucking stellar. He has already told me I'm the person he wants to marry, and I USED to get freaked out by marriage, but for him I'll get married...anyway

    it can be real, i ASSure you ;)
     
  15. FreshDacre

    FreshDacre Senior Member

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    Yeah i believe it works but it can be risky because so many people are way too fucked in this world, but yeah, if it works, then it works why wouldn't it?
     
  16. scratcho

    scratcho Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    I communicated with a nice lady for a while. She asked me to her place and---uh--I guess he was nice enough. He kept his moms basement pretty clean. That's always a plus,I suppose.
     
  17. la Principessa

    la Principessa Member since '08

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    I realized I never posted my success story in my own thread. lol I know I mentioned it somewhere else on here, but I met my boyfriend a little while after my ex broke my heart. After proposing to me, I suspected him of cheating, I had a friend do some internet spying and found out he was looking for girls on okcupid.com so I signed up, sold his ring, told him to fuck off, and about a week later I knew he wasn't right for me and was done mourning my dead end relationship and I filled out the profile.

    I didn't message anyone first, but I answered messages that I got so long as the guy didn't sound like a moron or was illiterate. After a while, I got a message from this cute, geeky, shy guy. I could tell he actually read my profile and thought about what he wrote before he wrote it. His message was a few paragraphs, and over the next few days we wrote messages back and forth. There were a few other potentials that got weeded out, because this guy just stood out the most :)

    He gave me his number and we started texting and talking on the phone. We had so much in common it was amazing. After a month or so we met up and have been inseparable ever since.

    Our anniversary is in less than two months <3 and we still talk for hours every day.
     
  18. crankyelbow

    crankyelbow Makes Music

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    Where there is life there is love.
     
  19. FritzDaKatx2

    FritzDaKatx2 Vinegar Taster

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    FINALLY, a good fucking laugh for my day! :2thumbsup:
     
  20. oceanspray

    oceanspray Guest

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    eventually you want to meet, unless it is strictly controlled where both parties agree to keeping it online cyber. This i think is very hard and nearly impossible.
     

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