I'm with a 14 year old

14 will get you 20. And you will probably get it sooner or later.

 

Does this define you as a pedophile? You should check out the pedophile thread....

 

Yeah. It doesn't seem like such a big gap. When he's 20. But he is 14.

The older you get the wider gaps you can have in age, because they matter less and less. Its all about maturity. He MAY seem mature for his age, hell, he may be 6 ft tall with a bushy, carpet-chest. He could be running his own business for crying out loud, but at 14 years of age, no boy is ever mature enough to enter the adult playing field of love and sex.
He doesn't know better. You should. Even though its to late right now, you sould wait untill he is of adult age to have sexual relations again. If you truelly love eachother 4 years of no sex should be nothing.

And for those of you who have actually been in a thread with me, you know i rarely ever speak out this strongly against somthing.

 

No, it's not wrong! Keep fuckin' him, I'm sure he loves it! No joke.

 

well duh, you're 16

 

men do it all the time so what's the difference now? go for it girl ... wish you'd been around when i was twelve

 

I think that's awesome! I was the opposite..

 

i think this si wrong

 

I dont think its really wrong , if u both are ok with it .
im 19 and i would get with a say 15... MAYBE
Now it is against the law , and sociably unaceptable thats the only reason i dont... there are some younger ppl who look like they could us a good poke...
Ur a sexual deviant like me. Its ok , just dont get cought and go to jail.

 

You know what you are doing is wrong. You are an adult and you need to start acting like one. If you can not control yourself then I suggest you turn yourself into the police and get some court ordered mental help.

 

WELL. idk about you, but, i prefer to have sex with people MY age, or maybe A LITTLE older................. but idk maybe i should go out and have sex with a 14 yr old......... JK....................

 

If you are on the same level emotionally with a 14 year old, you have some issues you need to address. A CHILD is NOT at an emotional maturity level to make the kind of decisions you are forcing him to make. Just because a childs body may LOOK mature, it does not mean that they are at that level intellectually OR emotionally.
Figure out why you can't realate to people within your own age group and leave the children alone.

 

to me it would feel like i'm dating a child. and sleeping with a child. the question is: do you think it's wrong? are you in love with this boy, or are you just desperate?

 

don't feed the trolls . . .

 

If I was 14 years old and getting some from a 20 year old woman, I certainly wouldn't be complaining. Just my $0.02.

 

im 14 and would love to have a 20 yr old girl freind, good on ya !!!

 

Wow I've got no complaints. I wish I had a 20 yr old at the age of 12, but to be quite honest with you at that age women were nothing to me. I was like "ewwwww girls!!! I'm not sitting sitting next to her... she's a girl!"

I didn't think women went for younger boys. If you were a male and you said this I would quite honestly feel sick to the stomach.

 

I am have desided to take the stand and say that that is illegal, and was then.

1. He is/was to young to have had sex.

2. You being older than 16 and he being younger than 16 falls under the very odd catogory of 'consenting rape' an odd and almost irrelivant term, yet it is the legally used Court term.

In the United Kingdom you would as a woman be given a sexual restriction order or even a minor prison sentance. Had you been a man and he a girl, you would have been punished more, because we have a chauvenistic society.

 

I wish.

Stop worrying.

 

hes lucky LOL