I'm in love with my sisters boyfriend!!!!

Love is a powerful word, whether it exists or not. It's not cool to just throw that word around..

 

Good point man, NEVER use the word love to someone unless you really mean it.

 

she's gonna torment herself over this guy until she's done. she won't be able to help it. hormones, safe infatuations, budding sexuality. nothing to be done for it. don't mock it, for fuck's sake, we were all young and stupidly infatuated once. maybe she'll get involved with him and fuck up one of the most important relationships of her life (with her sister). maybe she won't.

 

absolutley right, you just like him more than you like other people. you are attracted to him. even married couples arent always in love. even the ones who have 4 kids arent always in love. no 7 grade, 8 grade, 9 grade, or 10 grade kid could be in love. possibly junier and senier year, but still not very likely

 

I'm not going to but i just wish people could see my sister for who she realy is but they all denine the truth about her. Shes mean and evil and hates me and yells at me if i just say the smallest thing to her but noone under stands that shes the evilest person ever. She hates me and i try to make things good and when im so close she beats me or yells at me and makes me feel like im a little nothing and has no point in life and shes killing me from the inside out.

 

That's a very generalized statement for someone only 15. I actually fell in love the first time in 10th grade at the age of 16. I didn't fall in love again until after I graduated high school, but it's one of those things...love can happen pretty young and when it does, you just know. You don't think, you know.

Don't crush the girl's dreams, you guys are mean! She'll learn it on her own, no need to harass her. Puppy love's sweet.

Anyway, to the original poster, let your sister and her guy be. You never know what may come of it and you willl definitely find someone else along the road. Trust me, we've all been there, done that. There's different extents of love, and you're probably in what people call puppy love. Every time you fall in love, I guarantee, it will be different from the first.

 

you guys all sound like a bunch of snotty assholes. i agree with KC so much on this.
People think they know so much about love just because of some random hook ups, and mishaps they've had in their lifetimes....love is just what you make of it. Love is what love wants to be. Love doesn't know age, gender or time frame. Shake that hollier than though attitude and get over yourselves....FUCK!

 

Accualy im 13

 

This is a teenage soap opera!

 

Nah, this is a joke

 

teenagers never get along with their sisters...

 

Feelings are real, and you are old enough to have them.

The advice you are getting here is good advice, and coming from people who have been there and done that. So if you really want advice, take what you have here, and enjoy the friendship and don't try to date the guy.

But maybe what we are trying to say is that relationships are so much more difficult than they appear on television and we don't always live happily ever after. But that is the beauty of love, we get second chances.

If you were looking for permission, then just do what you want, because there is no recourse with us if you make a mistake. You will have to live with that choice for the rest of your life. We know that your relationship with your sister will most likely outlast the one with her (your) boyfriend.

Good luck,
James

 

Yeah, have to agree there. That is the way it goes. There are (will be) lots of guys, but you will never be able to replace your sister. Hang in there.