I'm horrible with the ladies

I've had the same girlfriend for almost 4 years. I'm sort of "out of the loop" on the getting girls thing now lol.

Were past the point in our relationship when we need to constantly tell each other how good we look. My girlfriend knows she's hot as fuck and she knows that I know she is hot as fuck.

So it all works out.

 

Just go.

And most importantly, try not to lament it. Just have some fun talking with some people.

It's the only way to get over social anxiety. And I'm from a family of agoraphobics, I'm not just talking.

 

A confident man does not attempt conversation... he livens it, carries it, initiates it... even ends it but never attempts it.

Don't sweat it man, I was in your boat at your age. The problem is your self confidence and people can smell that like a wolf smells blood.

 

Yes-yes... and don't go expecting to meet women. It'll just happen if you're in the right frame of mind.

 

Carpe Babe Joey.

Seize the babe.

 

That's not true. Women are insatiable monsters when it comes to complements on how they look. They just want more. MORE!

 

Confidence is key

 

Basic rule of thumb, if you make eye contact with a girl then you should approach right away. If you don't it'll seem like you were afraid and make shit weird if you try to talk to her later, that is, unless she's super into you in which it doesn't matter when you approach.

 

Ah yes, 12 is the prime time to settle down.

 

ask them if they just had their hair cut... they like that


otherwise just get a bag of weed ... woman are nothing but trouble

 

And you can likely still get laid with the promise of a bowl!

 

DAMN.

That sounds like a good one.

 

that works too ..nothing like a fat bag ..it's like trapping critters


but like stinkfoot says... it happens more often when your not busy looking

 

Offer them a plastic bowl if they go out with you

 

I'll take it!

 

Lmao. I accidently stole that from you Kinky.

 

I'm in the same boat as the Op. Cept I really just can't be bothered with bullshit small chat and pickup lines. lol. It just seems to fake for me. I know it's just breaking the ice and all that but it ain't me. Once a conversation is going or I like what the chick is into, doing, looking at, or talking about I'm good. Just not gonna go start a conversation with random chicks with the hopes of getting my rocks off you know. Anyways, now who's rambling. Ummmm......who ever said lets just go gay.....I don't wanna go gay with you, but I'd love to go shopping together!

 

a simple "you look nice" will do...well i just go and compliment plenty of women all the time when its a genuine compliment. i stop women in the street to tell them how graceful they look or how elegant their hair is styled. i tell girls at work they are glowing, or that i think their nails are vibrant. sometimes i even tell them i like their personalities, rarely. dont be too nice.

be mysterious and funny, unavailable and cocky, aggressive and physical... and think before you speak.

i guess it all really comes down to confidence and being comfortable around women.

 

dude some of those words you used....you kinda sound gay man. But here's the good news, there's someone on here who I think might be lookin for a guy like you

 

hahaha, i'm glad you said that... i seem to attract gay men just as often as i attract women. however using my approach i have the option of picking from some very beautiful women. my all around good vibes and consistent awesomeness(note the arrogance) allow me a certain lifestyle. i maintain the facade of a player, but i'm very exclusive.