I'm fucking my husband's best friend

Hey, thanks Samson, you really made me think. I wasn't expecting that when I originally posted. Thank you.

 

nobody perfect but the fact that your happy about it makes you a hoe.

 

That pretty much says it all...

 

Gosh, I can't believe how much people would actually roll with this shit and hate on a stranger so badly. I have been cheated on too but I do understand there are some circumstances that I have no way of knowing. Why is it always the teenies who are so quick to jump down someone's throat first? Leave her alone. Or 'thinkingbaseball', if you're enjoying the lousy comments, flame on!

Absolutely ridiculous the way some have reacted here.

 

how can you be proud of yourself? you know that's how people catch sexually transmitted diseases. if you're not careful that's what will happen to you and sooner or later you are going to slip up and your hubby wil catch on to what you're doing. and it's very hypocritical that you'd never leave your husband, but if you found out he was fucking around on you that you'd leave him. pull your head out of your ass.

 

Blah blah blah.

 

I don't agree with the person who started this thread..but I wouldn't wish aids on anyone. Have you ever watched anyone die of aids?

 

i don't wish any stds on to anyone. it's just disgusting that anyone would be proud of such behavior and dishonesty. if she's unhappy she should tell her husband that she's unhappy and leave him if these problems can't be fixed.

 

from what i understand, she has tried to talk to him about it and has still been left unfulfilled....

i'll tell ya, if i had a wonderful best friend, life partner, one who i clicked with in every way, i wouldn't want to leave them either......but if they weren't making me cum even after the talking, begging, tears and coping with feelings of low self esteem that i was having as a result of this (9 years and counting!), i would happily hop into bed with someone who could fulfill these needs, and be completely aware that it was sex and nothing more....it's stupid to leave a marriage over these sorts of sexual issues, nothing is ever that cut and dried

and yes, i would have every right to enjoy it!....just not sure i'd post it on a forum though, hehe ......ultimately, i would try to convince my guy that it's time to experiment with a more "open" relationship

ah, but to each his own!....it's truly the motive that creates karma, and it's all going to work out as it was meant to anyway

those who are quick to judge, may find themselves in a similar situation one day - clarity can be a beautiful thing

 

I didnt mean it should be put aside. I mean that LOVE is strong enough to handle these things. Two people in true love WOULD BE ABLE TO satisfy eachother sexually and have that important sexual relationship you talk about. Because theyd communicate. Theyd work at it. Theyd understand...

And i say again, if this marriage ISNT about true love then it should end. End of

 

WELL SAID CRAYOLA!! Ive been meaning to say the same thing for aq while now. Yes, there are always those cynics etc who say "wake up, the worlds cruel, this is real life, get your head out of the clouds" etc blah...

For those, listen to crayola!

 

Yeah the std wisher was out of line. But as haid said, if you want better sex and cant work it through, then leave your partner before finding a substitute

 

its women like thinkingofbasebal that make me not able to love anymore....

 

and AIDs is only a stone's throw away, love...
just remember that when your life's a wreck, there's nobody for you to fuck with and you're sitting on top of a list of STDs.
nice move, how much longer will you be loving this??
until the game becomes a shame.

 

oh by the way.. you never know what your husband may already know, just because he doesn't let on..

 

I agree with drumminmama, when a strange new guest with only 10 posts create's a thread like this, one wonders if it's just BS. Why the anonymity? Was the thread created only for the arousal effect?

Anyway, you're an adulterous woman, be careful people can end up dead in a situation like yours.





Bustramp

 

^Hahahaha. Are you threatening to stone her? Pretty creepy, dude.

DrumminM - If she doesn't tell her "husband", nor does her husband let her know when he cheats, who's hurting?

Waaaay too many assumptions and holier than thou people here.

 

Well, at least you have a hobby.

Personally, I would never cheat on my husband, orgasms or not. I think that cheating on someone - especially someone you're married to - is the worst thing one can do, it's so deceitful.

Karma has a fun way of coming 'round and kicking you in the teeth, so be careful.

 

Gee I was afraid somebody would misinterpit that statement! What I meant was jealous lover/passion crime. Boyfriend kills husband, husband kills boyfriend, husband kills wife, wife kills husband or boyfriend, wife kills self, boyfriend kills self, husband kills self. In no way was it a threat! How dumb. You just don't like that I called her an adulterous woman.



Bustramp