I'm always the one that gets dumped but when I reject girls I tell them to go find a happy person that they will enjoy being with. It works well.
I believe you. Let's hope she gets AIDS and gets hit by a bus and dies a slow death bleeding on the pavement while the pedestrians refuse to help and point and laugh. :cheers2:
NO! she doesn't die there, she survives, to be crippled, totally, can't speak, can't move, just alive inside a useless shell, and an orderly will fall in love with her (a fat, disgusting orderly who oozes some odd fluid that smells terrible, and leaves everything he touches smoking slightly) and make love to her husk, while she can only look on in horror as her body, and her sanity waste away....
you need to try harder with your wishs of evil unto others, if you're going to do it, 1. do it right 2. since you're being a bad person anyway, why do it halfassed?
Well, as long as she deserved it... Myself, I've actually only had to "break up" with a girl once. It's just that anytime I get close to a girl (usually always takes time, although there was one girl in particular that I grew very close to very quickly) we usually end up drifting apart somehow. Eventually it just gets to the point that we don't view ourselves as in a relationship (that type of one at least). It's interesting actually, I've only ever asked two girls out and one of those two was the only one I've ever actually literally "broken up with". The other girl I ended up moving for a short while to Guadalajara, Mexico and like I said, we just sort of drifted apart. It's not that I didn't truly love her....still sort of do...in fact sometimes I imagine the two of us meeting again later in life. All the other girls, including the most recent girl who I really liked I just seemed to let go of.....(god I guess I just fuck things up by not worrying how the "relationship" is going.) I've always had a hard time at showing emotion towards loved ones, which is weird too because usually I have no problem displaying them in other situations. I've never really been hurt that bad by anyone either, it just takes a lot for me to open up to someone, and then when I actually do for some reason we slowly drift apart. So, while I have only broken up with a girl once, I've "drifted apart" so to say from many. You guys speak of these "break ups" like they are always bad, but at least there is a conclusion, with me it's always just some fucking never ending story. For example, could any of you see yourselves getting back together with those who you've broken up with in the past? I could see myself getting back together with all the girls I've ever loved, other than the one that I actually did "break up" with and I don't think I ever really loved her.
hahaha...I can only hope that my ex (the one I went to Mexico for) reads this. I have no way of contacting her, and I still love her. Maybe fate does exist......
hmmm ill just say the longer a relationship is. the harder it gets so if you KNOW it's not gonna work break it off asap so it doesnt get harder. i dont really know HOW to break off long long long term shit. cause you still care and blah blah. now petty relationships... which, no offense, but yeah a few months to a year or two... i guess just be honest, know it'll be hard but realizing you are helping BOTH ppl. cause if it dont work, it dont work. but yeah dont carry it out for YEARS cause it's VERY hard to break off then cause you DO love them... gets wayyy too complicated.
Hey thank you Trish I'm sorry I deleted your last post but I'm trying to hide stuff from a certain person.. he wouldn't like it. We can P.M though!
I don't know, babe. He's my friend too, you know? I don't want to pick sides. And Trish is right, you're gorgeous in that pic.
i've never been broken up w/.. i'm always the one doing it lol.. i made my last girl friend cry.. goodtimes
penny ill get back to your pm when i wake up cause im gonna crash soon and i forgot you wrote back to me but yeah i hope you take some of what i wrote in the other and internalized it. HUGS