im rarely angry when ending a relationship, usually im sad.... thus feel no need to scream obscenities at them. there are a couple exes who, if th situation was appropriate, id probably rant at them about their inadequacies but at the time of break up, i wasnt particularly angry *shrug*
only once have i not been the one initiating the break up but ive dated a few jerks in my time... i just get bored/annoyed with em and break it off
In the past, i had pretty good breakups,. just " well, your a really great guy, and I am very fortunate to know you, and to be in your life, but i just dont really feel like were supposed to be connected romantically at this time, I believe the universe brought us together for a reason, but to be friends." worked for me.
ok then, "damn, bitch, get your fat ass out of my house, So i dont have to smell your nasty stank anymore."
I'm sad about it though. Whatever happened to my Frenchie? I told her, how can you break up with me if I'm the prize?
My ex-fiance cheated on me, and broke-up with me 2 days later.. after trying to get me to break-up with him by telling me all sorts of lies.. or truth.. but things he had hidden from me.. but I told him we could get through it, so then he broke-up with me. Why didn't he just tell me he cheated on me with the ugly **** who called herself my best friend? I'd have ditched them both right away.
As far as how I break-up.. I just tell the person.. "I've been thinking about us and blah blah blah........... I'm done". But it depends on who and why, too... if it's bad, it could be an impulsive "I'm done" without explanation or trying to remain friends.
I've only broken up with one person ever and it started off as, "I think we should take a break." One week later, the break turned into, "We're making each other miserable, who the hell are we kidding?" We're great friends now, actually, he's the only ex I've actually retained a decent friendship with. Everyone else is now just casual acquaintance.