I'm done breaking up nice

You are right.

The problem is that what is initially attractive to women is precisely what needs to be broken down in order to foster further intimacy.

The idea of men as finished products...

Edit: But I've never been walked on by a woman.

 

Now you're just generalizing. I don't want to change a man. I may say that I don't like some things...but hey I know people don't like many things about me.

 

does it really matter at that point?

girl: "let's just be friends"

me: "fuck you dirty skank-ass bitch!"



actually, i can see where that would have been fun...

 

TRUST me.

It makes ALL the difference.

It's more important than pussy. For sure.

Edit: I've been walked on by women exactly twice. But I sure made up for it by giving them a big piece of my mind.

 

I've generalized also, and am sorry, I generally, however, do mean women of the sort I like, and would like to spend time around. (contrarlywise, the women I do not want to spend time around usually have similar shit wrong with them, are "nice girls" and end up getting used because their insecurities cause similar behavior manifested in different actions)

it's basically the reason nice girls get fucked up by bad guys and nice guys get used by bad girls.

it's easier to use someone insecure who needs to be needed.

 

so where do i go to find one of these insecure nice girls? i'm not above using someone...

 

I know at least three.

 

are any of them planning a trip up north anytime soon?

 

I don't think so. Sorry.

 

I like to be ruthless. If I want someone out of my life, I cut them out like cancer.

Burn the bridges and piss them off so bad they will never talk to me again.

Perhaps I am cold hearted but I am no ones bitch.

I used to try to be nice but it would always come back to haunt me.

Fuck that.

 

I'm happier now that I get this, but it's still fucking hard to transition from being a self loathing "nice guy" into a self confident nice guy.

 

also, it gives them the closure of hating you. Which may sound shitty, but it's helpful sometimes.

 

so does that mean i get to be rude to them at least? :biggrin:

 

No they're doormats. I have to be careful of what I say around them. *sigh*

 

well this thread's getting me nowhere...

 

The other day I was cooking and a "good egg" turned out to be twins.

I bet women hate that. Or maybe they love it. Who cares? iggy:

 

I have no idea what you mean by good egg or twins in this context.

 

I was being purposely allusional and gibbering.

 

You can be rude to me and I will pretend to be insecure.

 

fuckin ho! get yo nasty ass over here and put ma dick up in yo mouth!