i'm cheating on my boyfriend....

Plane and simple.

You are a bad person

 

well ill very upfront about it, i hate bitches like you... and thats what your are... A BITCH... you are evil and manipulative... you dont deserve to have anyone love you for who you are because who you are is fake... you are not real... who would love someone like you or want to love someone like you... i hope you choke on your secret lovers dick and rot in hell

 

ouch sista u got it loud n clear-
you owe it to your man to tell the truth be brave take a deep breath and be honest...
Energy wise he already probally knows something isnt right, u for sure know something aint right!

Im always amazed how people can just be so devious

 

Oh, and you're full of shit about that love thing.

You might have the feeling - but that's just a strong attraction, a strong admiration, a bond even - that's not what love really is.

When you really truly love someone, you want what's best for them - for both of you, sure - but certainly not yourself.

Clearly, that's the only one you are truly devoted to in this situation.


Grow up.


Also, don't listen to the people calling you bad, that's not true - we all have the capacity for glorious virtue and horrible evil - making mistakes is the best way to learn.

 

Wow, that is not cool at all, if it was an open relationship I could understand and it wouldnt be cheating, but what you are doing is wrong. and IF you like keeping big secrets from the man you are with, then you need to reavaluate if you should be in that relationship at all if you can not be honest. and dont hurt the guy any further.

 

+1

 

You're in an open relationship?

 

What can I say that hasn't already been said? Oh, yeah.

 

I do know some people who have successfully moved from cheating to polyamory. It can work. You need to tell your boyfriend all about it, and if he's still willing to be with you on an "open relationship" basis, fine. But I don't know if you want that. How would you feel about your guys being with other gals, falling in love with them, and so on?

 

Yeah, for the record I have no problem with free love. I believe in free love.

And by exercising that freedom, I've chosen to prefer monogamy.

Having sex with multiple people is fine, as long as you are responsible enough to protect yourself and your partners (safe sex)... but when deception comes into the picture..

That's when you become a slut.

 

Wooooord.

 

Not really just allowed to have sex with other women, but he knows about it, and is ok with it. so. the op is seriously fucked up.

 

Moonshine,

Dont listen to them, you are never going to get truthful answers with this type of subject.

Notice how all the replies have an angry tone.

Your boyfriend doesnt get you off, plain and simple, whats a girl supposed to do?, remain frustrated for a decade in the hope he learns how to be a better lover and for what?......notions bestowed on you by others that they dont really follow themselves.

You're "fallin" for you sex buddy? Or is that just positive reinforcement from all the "Oh god!"s

Most guys cheat, and so do most girls, they dont tell anyone else cos of fake little judgements, and they dont tell their partners out of fear of hurting their feelings.

Or more importantly, you are never going to be able to trust the "truth".

How many girls are in a similar situation to you but try cover it up by saying stuff like "Cheating is always wrong" "You're a liar, a bad person for doing that" or even the classic "You're a slut".......10%,20% of them....what if its most of them?

Some of the repliers in this thread that have scalded you for this, how do you know they dont have something on the side themselves, but still go on with the act on the of chance their partners might end up reading this..........you dont know

In the end its just sex, you need it otherwise the frustration is going to end up tearing your relationship with your boyfriend apart, you dont tell him cos you dont want to hurt his feelings, you are a good person for that.

It doesnt matter what anyone else says, there are different rules for girls on this, it doesnt take much for guys to get off, but with some girls what gets them off can be too specific, if its specific enough to include guys that are never boyfriend / hubby material, then whatcha gonna do? And you'll work out eventually its kind of what everyone believes anyway, they just never say it out loud

 

I always liked you. But this post makes you look like a fucking idiot IMO.

If morality and the emotions of the person you claim to love don't mean shit to you... listen to this asshole.

Something tells me this ass kissing justification is gonna be the only post she pays attention to anyway.

 

I gotta agree, CHEATING is wrong period.

 

I have to completely agree here.. you couldn't possibly be in love with your boyfriend (maybe you have loving feelings towards him) and be doing something that would hurt him like that and is the worst thing you can do in a relationship...
not trying to judge but you need to make up your mind and quick.. what you are doing will end up hurting someone in the end..
much luck to you!

 

I wont generalise and say its all of them, but most of them, they dont think like you think they think,................... and you already know this

I know full well it pisses you off, and how much it pisses you off, get angry as much as you want, but in the end you are just fighting the unwinnable fight, it comes down to basic biology in the end


But seriously think about it, you're a dude, doesnt take much for you to get there. With some girls they can only get off with a very specific type of guy, doesnt work when they try it themselves, and that guy isnt the boyfriend - one they started off with having a frienship, common interests, marries the guy and is supposed to go what 10 years without getting off? Because of everyone elses opinions?

You're a guy, since it started being fully functional down there, I bet you havent gone more than a week with unloading your load.

Imagine going ten years without getting off? Not trying cos everyone else says you'd be a horrible person for trying? That shit would totally mess with your head. You'd most probably end up trying to rechannel all that built up energy by verbalising every uninteresting detail about your last shopping trip to everyone you ever encounter many times over, cleaning every surface in your home twice as often as is necessary

Cheating? In 10 / 20 years time, when you encounter married couples where she can talk underwater and the hubby is like a robot, it'll be your duty to fuck her, and fuck her till her head explodes, you'll be saving her hubby from an early death and the interesting thing is half the time it will be under your wifes orders

 

you are a crackhead.


and as for your thing about you happen to have found a guy who gets you off while your with a guy who can't is a fucked up way of justifying cheating. In order to find this golden ticket to orgasm, you'd already have had to act innapropreitly with someone before knowing if they do it for you.


Point is, if you are unhappy sexually in a relationship it is your duty to talk about it. If you were to tell your guy you unsatisfied I guarantee he will do ANYTHING it takes to get you off. guys take alot of pride in their ability to please a woman, if he needs to step his game up SAY SOMETHING, give suggestions, try new things. If he really wants to be with you he will do whatever it takes to make you happy in bed.


o.p. I hope he finds out and dumps you.
I hear they're hiring on redtube.

 

OP's trolling, right?

i'm available for random sex if you're ever in the midwest.

 

I get your point. I recognize the validity of your words. But I still disagree.

You have to draw the line somewhere.