im a virgin but

Tell her to fuck off then. Seriously don't stick your dick into something that you think is dirty. It would fucking suck to have sex for the first time and end up with a STD.

 

I dont like it either. But its mostly cause the guys are always talking about her like she was just another lay. And its with every girl. Any female thats done it with 3 or more people are probably talked about like that. It really does bite down on you though...

 

keep in mind, most women clean them things but also keep in mind not all do

 

I am going to do my best not to be an ass because you are here seeking advice, but Dude, what are you like ten years old? If you are not mature enough to understand that women and men often times have multiple sex partners in their life then you are not mature enough to have sex. Wait for the one you feel is right, that relationship most likely will not last, but you will most likely reached a higher state of maturity. Peace

 

i mean thank you guys for your advice but im coming to a conclusion that sex is a small part in life(but still abit important) thats at least how i see it ...i STILL not sure in how im being immature about sex?? i had three oppurtunity in the past to jump in to three diff. females pants but didnt were as a IMMATURE guy would of been like " yeh bro high FIVE i nailed her" were as i passed on it and wanted somthing meaningful... i think as some else adviced to find sumone to truely love and do it with them. second how will it not last?? if i wait til marriage lets say? i mean isnt it swallow and immature marrying sumone cuz of there physical appearance and how good there in bed? that only last a few yrs! then you get old.........

 

yeh i firgured lol

 

Sex is a big part about life.

 

old ppl fuck ?

 

You calling me old? I'm 21

 

so you're a romantic. big deal. don't fuck her. don't worry about the ones who don't respect you because you're a virgin.

for example, i wouldn't deal with a virgin. anyone holding on to their first time puts too much weight into the issue for my taste. thus, we'd have nothing to do with each other. that's not a bad thing. find the one who values it as much as you do. simple.

 

There are many things wrong with this statement.



It doesn't bother me that a girl has had other guys, people have their pasts, and I have mine.


There is nothing you can do to change the past.


Deal with it.

 

I just wanted to say that it should not bother you

once you loose your virginity the novelty of having one partner kind of wears off for a while...

Just ask her if she was safe and if your really worried ask her to get an std test!
Put in a straight way though
I doubt there is any residue left from other lovers. Also I know your probably afraid of being thought of as less than adequate but in the thick of it remember this
If she cares for you inexperience means nothing. If she doesnt oh well you finally tagged it brother!!!

 

no! lol....... death rules btw! did u see SA in ontario??

 

Gosh, you're so smart.

 

Dude what are you worrying about your virginity for? I am almost 23 and I have had sex with 2 partners. My girlfriend when I was 14, and a friend when I was 20. I passed many females along the way, because the thought of letting somebody I just met go to work on my body is unusual. I walked out a few one night stands because it didn't feel right. You need to form a serious relationship with yourself before you drag anyone else along on the road that is your life. Why do you think most relationships fail? Because people are selfish. They think of love, but in a selfish way...

 

i dnt think im selfish and i think this thread has gone in a WAY different direction LOL

 

Welcome to the internet.

 

My question is this, are they all still dirty vaginas after you lose your virginity? Or it just the first time with a girl who isn't a virgin that makes it a dirty vagina? I mean, come on! If you want to feel "pure and clean" find a virgin, and then marry her so you never have to stick your dick somewhere scary.

I wonder if in 5 years when you meet a female that is a virgin if you will think she is being unreasonable when she says "but you have had other partners".

 

i've taken 3 guys virginities... and do ya know what... they ALL sucked. but i didn't care. because it meant something to me. and well i enjoyed the opportunity to help them grow sexually. if a girl is that bitchy that she won't sleep with you cuz yer a virgin. then kick her skanky ass to the curb

 

eden... as always. you make a fantastic point. <3