Im a total homophobe

Research? That would be irrelevant.

Forget about us, its the girls you have to convince.

They wont think you'll want to kiss and cuddle a guy, take long romantic walks on the beach with a guy, but they do think you are all obsessed with your own cocks and fiddle with each others, especially in the horny teenage years....and well half the time they are right.

It aint to hard to work out the math, gay guys the real thing, thats only about 2%, 1 in 50 guys, around one guy in every school form. One guy in a high school form with 49 other ultra horny teenage males. Kissing, up the bum stuff you'll be able to convince the girls no, hanjobs/blowjobs - Good luck

When it comes to matters of sex, with the opposite sex, they dont really trust any words that come out of your mouth.

Now you might get some girls quoting this, saying what a load of rubbish. If so Remember back to when there is a gay guy around, the girls get all clucky, give you that grow up look if you get a bit shirty. But when there isnt one around and you do something sissy they are at you with the "What are you a fag?"

 

There is a huge difference between being a homophobe (literally, fear of homosexuals) and disliking them.

 

I which is considered worse.

 

Can't someone just hate gays without being called one!

 

Reminds me of this shirt I saw at www.tshirthell.com
(it's not sold there anymore I googled this pic):



- Dale

 

lol, totally.

 

Thankyou, fuck, everyone going on like "ohh cant you respect gays for what they are, your a gay coz you hate gays",. its all bullshit

This is a confession forum, there you go, my confession, i dont fucking like gays

 

You seem a little irritated by the insinuation.

Even though it is only somebody's opinion rather than fact. right?

 

If I made a thread that said "I hate black people and am the grand wizard of the KKK" Nobody would be like "your secretly black".

hahahah.

 

If they were saying that to you, would you be getting angry or would you laugh?

The only reason you would get angry would be if there was some truth to it.

 

Yet your signature has a picture of Lars Ulrich in it.

 

I've considered that homophobia can simply result from a defensive mindset against the negativity associated with homosexuality when you learn of it, say, 3rd/4th grade. Kids are particularly impressive upon the person you're to become at such a time, and learning that homosexuality is quite bad can lead to defensive measures even if you aren't homosexual. Just my guess, but I'd love to hear some feedback, being a psych major.

 

Thats fucking stupid, you would get angry, because you obviously being the grand wizard of the KKK, HATE black people, not because part of you is black?

 

I'm going to go amateur psychologist on this for a minute: You are right BrotherMat.

You would be angry that someone would imply that you are secretly that thing that you hate, whether it is for instance someone who is black, gay, mentally handicapped, fat, foreign, lazy etc. Pick your hatred.

Now answer these questions to yourself, because only you can speak for you.

Why is it that you don't like someone who is one of these things?

It could be that you were taught as a child that being gay* (any phobia group*) is wrong and trusting in you parents' values you saw the sense in this observation, you may have learned it from your friends, in school, at church or made this decision completely on your own from a personal experience.

But at some point you decided this is what you felt is a good observation, like: People who steal are evil or kids who kick puppies are mean.

So now when you see someone you think looks gay or is acting or talking gay you associate this behavior as something that is wrong.

This is not bad in and of itself, you have the right to like or not like anything you see. You don't have to like caramel syrup on your ice cream if you don't want it, or may prefer your beer hot to cold.

The problem is you get angry about gay people. The reason you get angry is because they are doing something that you don't want to see. They are not fitting your view of how people should be.

You are disappointed in their behavior and mad that they don't conform to your opinions. You may even wish that they didn't exist because you distrust them so much that you don't think they can ever be accepted by you even if they change.

What you have to do is consider why am I mad at gays?

Is this just one of many things that get me angry?

Is my anger at gays accepted by 95%* of humanity (*arbitrary number signifying mass acceptance)?

If you are happy being angry and some people are, then you can either continue on your mission of discontent or move to a location that is full of gays, voice your opinion to more people, both straight and gay, start a movement and try to abolish gayness.

or

If it bothers you to be angry then you can try to understand your anger as something that you created for yourself. Learn that there are things in this world that you don't like but shouldn't make you loss control of your happiness. Or you can move to a place where there are fewer gays. (I think they are everywhere, now. )

Remember my statement of: People who steal are evil or kids who kick puppies are mean.

This is an observation. If not given any more information it would be pretty normal to assume these two examples to be true. But.

If I told you that a young woman being held as an indentured servant to pay her families bills, stole a piece of fruit from the fields to give to her starving baby would she be considered evil to you?

Or a child with uncontrollable outbursts from a mental disability who can't help his behavior of kicking at everything; who really needs love and understanding to make his life bearable, would you be able to do this for him if he was your son? Would he be considered mean?

Knowing more about a situation that bothers you will give you a better chance of coming to terms with your views. Working on your anger at things that you don't completely understand will cause you less stress over those things.

I hope this helps in some way. If it makes you feel better, I'm not gay and don't have any friends who are openly gay. I'm not comfortable with it either but it doesn't make me angry at all. I'm not comfortable with eating sea urchins either but I don't get angry when I see them at the sushi bar.

I'm also not comfortable with loud hip hop music in the car next to me when in traffic but I keep my composure when it's being forced on me. It is part of being surrounded by different people with different backgrounds, having the convenience of being in a populated area has it's moments of discomfort, don't get angry at something you can't control. Accept that this is going to happen and learn to deal with the moment.

:cheers2: - Dale, coping daily with sea urchinaphobia

 

Well if you were in the KKK you'd probably blow their head off with a sawed off shotgun and then laugh......

 

Are all gays the same personality-wise? Maybe if you gave a gay half a chance, you'd find you love a gay.

 

Hey Mat, are you a fan of Judas Priest by any chance?

What about the red hot chili peppers?

 

a good way to go "amateur psychologist" is to ask question and create conclusions based on the premises that the answers to your questions provided.

Having said that, very fun post, enjoyed it.

 

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