the us is not a fucking christian state wtf im not even going to fucking argue with that but not only is that the most retarded shit i have ever heard in my life
Whooooaaaa, there, lose ya damn mind why don't ya? Just making an observation there. Maybe it was an exaggeration, but you have to admit, it's mostly Christian ideals that are running the country... Jesus, I didn't say it SHOULD be. Calm yer ass. If anything about my post was retarded, it was the fact that I didn't see over 100 replies to this thread and thought I was the only one who responded. Don't know where my head was, but I stand by my other comment. Sorry if you disagree, but not sorry I said it.
True that the US isn't entierly christians.. But statistics wise in the US christians are the top religion.
christian argument aside, i think you are just fine doing what you are doing. As soon as you have a bad experience, or get an STD (heaven forbid...and i'm not saying you will, just incast), make sure you get the hec out of the business and take care of yourself. you go girl! don't let anyone get you down...i have never been a prostitute, but i know they make some pretty nice cash. and power to ya for being outright about it, and dealing with people's intolerant responses
i used to watch this show where there were "hookers", but they were legal and picked their clients...they were called Romantic Companions. I think that's what it should be called...it sounds like fuckbuddies, and in essence that's what prostitution is, but a lot of the time not visited by the same customer over and over again like a "fuck buddy" would
I'd love to hear more about how you came to be a prostitute. You mentioned living in a van for awhile? I've done that too, it was great.
@ Moro You are only 19, you may think you have seen much and know a lot about this world.. But in my opinion... I think you should change tracks while you still can... Your physical appearance is a depreciating asset and is a primary factor that determines your earning , while you may be able to maintain it for another decade or so from then onwards its going to be downhill... And nobody's gonna look at you when you are all wrinkled and middle aged. If your boyfriend is ok with you being a whore then I think there is something definitely wrong with him.... He is just using you for sex.. you are just a bus stop for him until his next ride comes along... I think you should... Stop wasting all that potential in you ? And do something... For a start you should spend sometime thinking how you got to where you are and where you think you are going to end up in the coming years ? No seriously when you were growing up in your early teens didn't you ever want to be or do something What happened to all those dreams ? What about college ? You should be in college now.. Studying and acquiring skills that will provide a decent and sustainable living. ___________________________________________________ And all this forum members encouraging this girl are just plain sick... I wonder if your daughters or sisters were whores if you would give her the same advice ?
WoW ! I just read in the previous page that you are having a baby ? Now thats fucked up ! You can't take care of yourself .... Why would you want to have a baby now !
Wow, have you read any of her posts? She is as safe as she can possibly be about this short of not doing it. Every job has risks. Even working in a cubicle can give you a fat ass and heart disease, carpal tunnel, and lung cancer from breathing in copy toner. And how do you figure she can't take care of herself? I think it's pretty clear that she chose this line of work... it was not forced on her. Bottom line, it is her body and she is free to do as she pleases with it. The fact that the government even tries to regulate what a girl does with her own cooch is ridiculous... All that said, I couldn't do it myself, just because of my PERSONAL feelings about sex. But that is all they are: PERSONAL feelings. As in, I don't expect the world to share them, and I don't disrespect people that don't. You say that there must be something wrong with her boyfriend if he doesn't have a problem with her having sex with other men... do you feel the same way about open relationships? Are they all sluts too? Or is it just the fact that Moro gets paid for it that bothers you? And as for the sister comment... I understand that you were trying to make it personal for us... trying to get our emotions into it as a way to get us on your side, but in this case, you failed. I would expect MY sister not to be a moron about it. If she chose this line of work, I could only hope that she would be as safety-oriented as Moro. Naturally, I would worry. Of course. That's what you do with family: you worry about them, you want to protect them, but at the end of the day, their lives are not yours and you do not own them. They do not owe you their lifestyle just because you grew up in the same house. I would much rather accept her and have her in my life than disown her and not have her at all. THAT'S family.
PS: College is a joke. I wouldn't blame anyone who decided to buck the system that has decided that you need a piece of paper to prove your self-worth.
Thanks Firefly, you're an awsome chick! Ok, lets get this straight half a hippie - First off, I worked with a woman in her late 40s who wasn't much of a looker and she made decent money. Age and looks don't change much. Ha, your comment about my boyfriend only wanting me for sex is laughable. My FIANCE and I are very happy together and he is smart enough to understand that my work as a prostitute was simply business. There is no emotional attachment between me and my clients, therefore no reason for him to be concerned. I ws simpy providing a service. I would be very surprised if he thought of me as a 'bus stop' as we've been together nearly two years, live together and plan to marry eventually. What happened to my dreams you ask? Nothing. My dream is to be a writer and i have dozens of books filled with my writing. I've had several poems published and am working on a novel at the moment. My dreams haven't been affected. And lastly, fuck you you fucking **** you don't know me and have no right to question my ability to raise a child. (Sorry for the aggro everyone, I've just quit smoking. Gotta look out for bubs health)
i would give no one advice about a job field, unless it was something unethical like wanting to hurt oneself or others. prostituion is not unethical. i've known both females and males who put themselves through college while working in the sex industry. people who are sex workers are just that... people. half a hippie you have not seen shit in life! and i'm not saying that to be cruel either. i worked almost 5 years in an emergency room and i have seen sick shit you would not belive; and i mean that. i have told people what i've seen and had to deal with. alot of them have told me: "no way could that be real!" i've been called names like: "your one sick motherfucker!" i work almost 17 years as a psychotherapist, untill i burnout big time from all the stress of what i saw and had to deal with. as for college. i've got 3 college degrees ( AA. in philosophy, BA. in liberal studies, and a MA. in liberal studies.) i needed the master degree because i wanted to go into the minstry and clinical psychology. 80% of all job don't require a college degree. and it is pure 100% bullshit that you need a degree to get a good job. i know one hell of alot of high school and college drop outs who are rich as fuck. as for looks. i'm 51 years old (middle age?) i don't have much hair left on the dome of my head, my brownish-red hair is starting to go white, and i have some wrinkles. guess what though? people think i'm quite handsom. i've even have had people in their teens and twenties who find me attractive. not everyone who is "old" is also "ugly as fuck" either. half a hippie please think before you open your mouth!
Well if she is careful, takes on enough clients she can rake in 90K in one year, invests it carefully and do okay. If she sticks to higher end clients and has the looks and personality she can rake in 300K in one year.
I think it's beautiful and natural and other prostitutes should look up to her as an example of what to do, be smart, be safe and enjoy yourself. If I ever bought a prostitute I would certainly want her to be as responsible as this young lady.
I just wanted to say that I'm glad you're being safe. I've done that type of work before but it was something I did for a short while and couldn't do it any longer. I have never had a negative opinion about prostitutes and when I did it myself, I did it because I lost my home and had no job. It was what I did until I found a job. It was very painful for me and I'm still healing but I realize that this is only 1 woman's story and that no 2 will be the exact same. Just know if you ever want to stop that you can. It sounds like you are being safe and smart about it though, and good luck with the babe!
i take back judging you. im sorry for harsh comments, the decumentary thing is true, i still have uncertain feelings towards prostitutes, well more the types who stand around corners - fucking 10 guys before cleaning up even. i have no problem in amsterdam,since it is controlled its safer, plus the atmosphere is far less shady. as i said allready, it is your body, you donot need anyone to tell yo what you do with it. if youre still working i wish you the best.