If the guy wanted the baby

A woman's body is never the same again after a pregnancy, in many different ways. If you can't list them all, you should look it up in a medical book before you have sex again. Or ask a doctor. You can't make good decisions without the facts.

Correct. There is NO birth control method that is 100% perfect, except abstinence. I'm not one of those pro-abstinence people, I'm just telling the truth. If you fuck, you take some risks. You can also get herpes when you use condoms.

 

I think you guys are selfish and only thinking about yourselves.
You wouldn't be thinking about the kid YOU MADE by having sex.

That is murder and thats what you would be doing...
If you dont want the risk of getting pregnant then dont have sex.

 

Fuck the kid.

 

You're going WAY too deep with this though. Its a very very small chance that youll get pregnant with a condom or pill. and How many times have you heard a person getting herpes from a condom? Yeah..

All Im saying is that the woman SHOULD discuss having the kid or not with the father, not immediately getting the abortion and the woman SHOULD be open minded about having the kid for the father if he really wants it, afterall, its HIS kid too

 

Father can get someone else pregnant if he really wants the kid.

Hell, I think that there's less of a chance of the father wanting the kid than a condom breaking anyways.

 

bitch don't be sassin, you hear meh?

 

brave you're talking about the ignorant asshole fathers that dont care if he got a woman knocked up, such as yourself. we heard your opinion, you dont like it, MOVE ON from this thread.

 

bitch don't be sassin, you hear meh?

 

i'm spreading my ways you feel me

 

i always told my -exes if you get pregnant with my kid---have it i'll take care of it--but once i found a receipt with D/C procedure listed-abortion--so we broke up--fucking killed our kid---this is a sublect that has no happy ending -------pro-life ---pro choice-----its fucking neverending

 

my ex told me he would kick me in the stomach, that was comforting

 

hahaha bitch i do what i want.

 

lol^^^^ so i guess he doesnt want to be a dad---lol

 

get on your knees daddyo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fkPg-5RWz8U

 

It doesn't matter what you have heard, or what Karen_J has heard. The facts are out there, if you care. One fact is that you can get herpes from a guy's balls. The condom doesn't have to break.

I've never seen one of those debates change anybody's mind. People just get angry...for nothing.

 

It may be extremely unfair, but this is why women have always been known as the gatekeepers, women since the beginning of humanity have known that if they have sex, they might get pregnant. Fair? no. Reality? Yes. Honestly unless you were using protection and it failed I don't think an abortion should happen, especially when the father is willing to take the baby.

Then there's the flip side, if 2 people want a baby but they separate during custody hearings for single custody the mom wins over 90% of the time. Really? The mom is better then 90% of the time? I wonder how many kids had fucked up childhoods because of "oh, well she's a mother, the child would obviously be better with her"

 

I really don't see what you people have against abortion.

Hell, if I was a woman I'd have one just for the experience.

 

I may be a cold-hearted ****... but I wouldn't immediately agree to going through a pregnancy just for the father. I would definitely tell him and talk about it and really think about it... but I wouldn't just automatically not get an abortion.

It is still a woman's body, not the man's. And why are you giving sole blame on the unintended pregnancy to the woman? It seemed that someone pretty much said she spread her legs so she deserves it... what about the guy?

 

Women get pregnant, men don't, it's a harsh reality. Both parties are aware of this when sex commences. Men also know they can't do shit if protection fails and the woman want's the baby, and as the court system works will be forced to pay tons in child support and most likely won't get custody if they break up.

 

Also, if I wanted to keep the baby and the man did not want to... would he then have the right to make me get an abortion?

If the man has the right to make me have the baby, then I guess he should have the right to make the decision for me to have an abortion.