i wish i was a man

My guess is that Eastern European women have to be edgy, ready for action. It comes from living in that Soviet bloc, and then under organized crime. You have to watch yourself and have some inner toughness.

but still, you're sexy as hell.

and your fashion photos kick some serious ass

by the way, who's the dude? Pacino?

 

yeah it is Pacino.
and i was born just when the communism was out of my country so i am a child of the new order!
but still...you are right in a way...just not in the right way, but you are right iggy:

 

Well,,for you,,I'd be wrong. Very wrong,,haha.

cya,,gotta go now

 

Oh, being a man isnt' necessarily easier than being a woman either. it is in a lot of ways, sure. But consider this:

If you're a woman the only requirement for being able to get a date is to have a vagina. You don't have to do any work. You don't have to do anything. Some guy will eventually come along and do all that for you. You can be the most socially incapable unintelligent shallow slutty person that ever walked the earth - as long as you spend time in public some dude will make sure you aren't dateless. This works even for "ugly" girls, seems they just have to wait a little longer perhaps. Sad that this factors heavily into guys' choices in women, but at the same time we are programmed this way, and you would be a fool to claim that physical attraction is not at all important to a relationship besides.

If you're a guy, on the other hand, you can be honest, attractive, sincere, intelligent, and so on and so forth, but if you have social problems and/or a lack of self confidence women won't touch you with a ten foot pole. The real discouraging thing is that even women who have these same social problems, perhaps even to a worse degree, wouldn't consider being with the type of guy I just described, that is a guy with the same problems. I guess because, like I said, some confident socially suave guy will eventually come "sweep her off of her feet" or whatever so she doesn't have to settle for anything less than their ideal generic romantic fantasy. The funny thing is that super confident guy who is good at maneuvering his way through social situations is going to be much better at hiding his real personality in the beginning. I see countless women allowing themselves to fall into this situation. They go for the guy who is an immediate turn on and ignore the ones who are perhaps not as impressive in the beginning - identical to the way men often go for women with attractive bodies before they go for women with attractive personalities. Then they are taken advantage of. The really sick thing is some girls will keep going back to these guys who, say, refuse to date them because they're afraid of what others will think, but have no problem having sex with them regularly - but then disappearing and cutting off all contact for a few weeks while they find "hotter" women to fuck.

I suspect this is why you keep ending up with men who hurt you. They come on to you strong, confident, some knight in shining armor or some shit, a generic love fantasy, an immediate turn on that gets your emotions rolling. You don't stop to think this guy could be full of shit until he's burned you. You don't want to think about it. You want the fantasy to be true, but it rarely if ever will be.

I don't mean to say all confident men are secretly douchebags or anything like that. Just saying you have to stay smart and skeptical. If it screeches like a vulture and descends upon you like a vulture. . .

 

this completely depends on the kind of man you end up being...

i never understood how women can keep saying this, then they get sick every couple weeks, need a week in bed to recover, and cry when they stub a toe.

 

I think it has to do with the fact that women have to push babies out of their vaginas and men don't. The assumption which (not so logically) follows is that women must be able to tolerate more pain if they can do that. Unfortunately we have no way to test whether a man can endure the same amount of pain involved in giving birth as women do for obvious reasons. I don't think there's any scientific basis for the idea that women have higher pain tolerances though. I could be wrong. Feel free to prove me wrong.

As for men getting sick twice as often. . . that is silly and pretty much the opposite of what I've observed. If there IS any truth to that is probably because women are much more likely to wash their hands then men.

 

that's pretty much my theory.

massive kidney stone test?

 

I love being a guy. I just feel like i have the most potential out of the human race because of my male dominance.

 

You don't want to be a man. It's hard work...

If it was easy, all kinds of women would do it...

 

Nothing is hard work if you do what you love doing.

 

being a small furry creature that can survive without being noticed, small enough to slip through fences, or under them, so that nothing stands in its way of the gratification of exploring, to me sound, in many ways even easier and more attractive.

of course there'd still always be things to have to hid from, and others to chaise and try and catch. if you could only eat other living creatures that sounds too much like work and too little time to meditate and daydream, but if i could be some kind of cat or fox sized omnivour. that would be pretty cool.

of course just having my own fur to keep warm, and living on some other world where people don't try to be crewel and selfish, but as still creative, that would be best of all.

i still don't think the human form, male or female, is all that it could be in the way of attractive. oh some are, sort of, at certain ages, but even that could be improved upon. on some other worlds somewhere likely is.

 

As we get older it is less and less so.

 

Being a man isn't really easy! Sure we don't have to worry much about bras, shoes, lipsticks and so on, but we have to be stronger, take decisions, be more willing ...
and i definitely dont like girls who focus on their shoes, skirts and so on..

 

No, being a man is really easy and we're the envy of most women because we never really have to grow-up :2thumbsup:

Hotwater

 

Quoted For Truth...:2thumbsup:



Cheers Glen.

 

I wonder if three years later, Crayola still wants to be a man

 

I can’t even imagine what I’d do on a hot, humid, sticky day if I couldn’t take my shirt off

Hotwater

 

I am really sick of people who make stupid blanket statements like "men have it easier," which I think is bullshit. So now let me make a blanket statement and say men have it much harder. The thing is most men in this society are just moron composites of some macho idiot they saw on TV or in a magazine. If you're a thinking person who is different, life is hard regardless of which sex you are. But overall, men who are really men (not wannabe macho animals) have it a lot worse. Aside from appearances and such, the expectations for men are much higher. I am so sick of the bullshit that says women have it harder. I don't believe that to be true. For one, introverted women fare much better than introverted men, because in this society the man is expected to be the initiator of relationships, etc.

The problem with some of you is that the only men you know are idiots.

Blah.

I really hate taking sides on issues, and I actually take back what I said above because it varies from person to person. To lump all men and all women into the same boat is stupid. Some men have it harder than some women, and some women have it harder than some men. Some men and some women suffer equally.... for whatever reason.

 

Why does every girl think that if they were transformed into a man that they'd have a giant dick?

It's weird as fuck.

EDIT: Pressed Rat, I totally agree.

 

I feel I need to elaborate more, but I am just too sleep deprived at the moment.