I was Caught Masturbating? What to do?

man im proud of you. i can finnally go to sleep now haha but the ending was a bit fucked up. Why the fuck was her friend angry at you wth

 

Thought this myself. There is the 'age difference'. Maybe the "friend" is the woman's daughter and she's pissed because he's fondling her mom?

 

Those damn cockblockers!

 

Find out a little more about her. Who were her friends? Is the guy up north someone special? If you answer these questions to your satisfaction, she is primed and ready for your next move .... going all the way.

 

Oh this is perfect! Come up with some bullshit apology (for getting angry at her friend at her party, not for making your move when you did, that was just some bad luck) and get over there to finish what you started. You should be proud for now, but keep to main objective in your sights. Victory is at hand!

Awesomeness. Enjoy it, and remember the details man, we need 'em.

 

Monday; I woke up with a terrible hangover, was sick hackin' up the devil juice till about noon. I wasn't fully funtional till around 3p. I went over into the kitchen to look her way and her friend and guy friend were still there! They were out on the balcony smoking a cigarette. I stood there and spied on them thinking to myself why would her friend be so pissed at me? An hour or so passed, I kept spying in that direction and could only see her friends in the kitchen and walking around, I couldn't see my beaute (probably sick lick me). I just wanted to go over there and demand answers, but I wanted to wait till her friends were gone (I'm pissed that I reacted all upset and I must have been loud pushing away at her friend)...
...So I spent most of the day in my kitchen looking there way trying to get a glimpse of her but to no avail. The whole time I kept analyzing the situation and wondering why her friend was pissed at me; I have concluded that there could only be two reasons: 1-When my gorgeous friend left for a couple days to visit her old friend up North, it must have been a serious thing and her other friend must know about it and felt that I was just there trying to take advantage of a drunk. She was there to protect her friend from some horndog... or ...
2-My gorgeous friend told her friend (the one who was yelling at me) about what she witnessed the other night (me stroking it) and how I was into her physically. Maybe by knowing this, her friend thinks of me as some perverted freak and always had an attitude towards me.

These are the only two reasons I can think of. What do you think?

 

I think number 1 sounds like the case.

 

I like you.


John,

I'm glad you moved forward. Sorry to hear about the assholes that ruined it. My thoughts are that they just got paranoid, and assumed that you were trying to take advantage of the woman.

You've probably already thought of this, but maybe you haven't. If I were you, I'd think about things and then go over to her house when she's alone and, in a really relaxed, laid-back manner, just casually "apologize" for the altercation with the friends, but end by saying something like "I did mean what I said about you being very beautiful. I hope that the incident with the friends didn't get in the way of things."

I don't know. That's just what I'd do, but I tend to make bad decisions. It sounds like you've got the situation under control. Let us know what you end up doing. This is my favorite thread on the forums!

~A

 

Thanks

Well said. :hurray:

 

i wouldnt mind fucking you bride of libertine.........ur so hot

 

Any updates?
I'm gettin' anxious to find-out what's going to happen next.

 

Thanks for the compliment Jack

 

He better have been screwing her brains out for the past 2 days.

Or dude from out of town came for a visit...

 

It'd be much more exciting if it were the first

 

Here's the deal; I've been watching out my window everyday trying to get the next chance to see her so I can go talk to her, but I haven't seen her. I went up to her place and knocked on the door the other day and there was no answer. The next day I noticed that there were a couple bags of luggage just out her front door. Before going up there, I was suspicious. So (being obssessed in all) I continued to look out my window whenever I had the chance, then I noticed there was a man in her kitchen! I couldn't make out who it was. I started having these terrible thoughts and became frustrated. Still, I would gaze out my window her way (after work, before work, whenever I had the chance), but I would not see her. So yesterday, I'm coming home from the gym and I run into this guy walking her dog! I remember her dog Penny the doxen. The guy was kind enough to start some chit chat bullshit and then I introduced myself, and he did as well. He said he was from Boston and that he was an old boyfriend of Victoria's (my gorgeous friend). He was a strapping lad, maybe 40-50 in age with some gray tone to his hair, a nice guy, good looking. So I pried some more and bull shit with him, it turns out that she was visiting him up in Newport where he moved to and now he is down here for a few days visiting her. He had also mentioned that he owns a boat at the harbor and he is looking forward to meeting nice people and finding out more of SoCal. He said he spends a lot of time at the beach and he meets a lot of nice women (bastard!)...
...So this is where it stands, I'm like what the fuck? I'm kinda thinking that this dude came down to stay with her to get a piece of her fine ass and then he's off. But why all of a sudden is this guy back in her picture? I'm guessing because he now has moved back to SoCal from Boston that he wanted to try and rekindle days with Victoria (I mean who wouldn't?). Or maybe they both just wanted some hot love action and then they will be on their own separate way? Either way, it's fucked! She's probably embarassed because of the situation that occurred with me the other day at the party. I really don't know what I'm going to do the next time I see her. I don't want to be too pushy and blow it. What should I do?

 

well... (I don't mean this unkindly at all)
You're spending a lot of time thinking about this and spying on her (using the term loosely). I have friends who would already have found-out the whole scoop.

Clearly, you don't want to go over there when he's there and get into an awkward situation. If I were you, I'd call her and find out when the guy leaves. Then, make a move fast. My hunch is that she's looking for someone to have sex with. In her mind, you mustn't be interested, because you didn't respond to her very blatant flirting and hinting so she's figured you're just a good friend.

also, I know from experience that I take things too seriously. If I like some girl and think she likes me, it'll ruin my day to even see her talk to another guy, because my mind goes wild with thoughts that she likes someone else. What it comes down to is if I had made a move and ignored surrounding people, I'd be the one shackin' up with said girl.

IMO, when you think you're too pushy or worry about being too pushy you're not. People who are actually too aggressive are unaware of it.

Just my opinion.

Good luck, and try to ignore the negative thoughts that are in your mind.

~A

 

I'd lay back and let her make the next move if she's going to. It seems like she's hiding from you, or else you would've seen her by now. Maybe she was just drunk and regrets that night? Maybe her friends talked her out of messing with you?

 

dude i was in the same situation as you. but in my case i turned out empty handed in the end. i lost the one girl i turly loved to some dumb fucking guy who i know doesnt threat her the way she sopose to be threated. in your postion is all about making the right moves. if you dont play your cards right consider everything that you strived for gone! in a flash! believe me you dont want to turn out like me. all heart broken and stuff. it sucks

 

So Saturday, I run into both of them, going for a walk; I asked what their plans were for the day, they were going to some live entertainment bar/restaurant later. They invited me to go so I figured what the hell (this may be my last chance!). I invited a couple friends and we were off...
...Later that night we arrived at the place around 9p or so. The drinks began and everyone started to loosen up, we stood at a bar (like an island in a kitchen there were seats around so you could speak with someone directly in front of you) I stood next to Victoria and chatted away trying to keep her attention and away from her Bostonian friend. I had mentioned that I missed her the last few days and also that I was sorry for causing her friends to get rowdy with me. She said that it was not my fault and she appologized to me. It was kindof tough to chat with her because the music had just started playing and it was real loud. Her Bostonian friend started chatting with other people next to him so it gave me more time with Victoria...
...Later around 11p or so, the music's playin' drinks are flowing, I'm buzzin' and some girl comes up to me and says that her friend wants to talk. So I go over to the other bar and her friend is Nice Lookin! She's an artist in town and was wondering if I had been chatting with my girlfriend. I told her that my goal by the end of the night was to make her just that. She said that she wanted to dance, so I did. We were out on the dance floor making moves and swingin' for a while. Afterwards, Victoria gets on the dance floor and makes her moves my way and proceeds to push her ass into me. So there I am sandwiched by these two beauties and in the end I left the floor with Victoria. We ended up going into a corner of the place where it was more quiet. I proceeded to tell her how I was falling for her and that I missed her a great deal. She thought that I was sweet and gave me a long kiss. She whispered in my ear that she was going to make it up to me for all the chaos she had caused...
...Around 2p the place is closing, we round up our friends and leave back home. When we all got to our place, I told Victoria to spend the night with me and she said that she couldn't because she had a guest (her Bostonian friend). She told me to come back Monday afternoon when he would be gone and we would hang out. So I grabbed her and kissed her and as I was walking up the steps, her Bostonian friend was coming from the car and gave me a thumbs up...
...So now the wait till Monday afternoon, we shall see...

 

So you're falling for her now? I thought you just wanted to shag her?