I want to tell my wife I'm bi

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by sockfetish, Jun 8, 2014.

  1. Steveh

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    She accepted it, said she knew and encouraged me not to stop
     
  2. DaveTheBiGuy

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    Coming out to a spouse can be especially difficult, especially if your spouse is straight. Coming out to my wife has been a "slippery slope" for sure... And my wife ISN'T even straight herself. She's also bisexual.
    There's times when she really seems interested in my bisexuality and turned on by it, and then there's times when she makes comments suggesting that she thinks I'm "more gay than straight." There is no "gay" or "straight" with me, I'm bisexual. Just like she is. I know for a fact that she's had sex with more women than men, but I would never say she's a "lesbian."
    She knows I'm a total bottom, and sexually submissive with men... And I really sometimes think that causes her to look at me differently, as if I'm "less manly or masculine" simply because I'm a total bottom with men.
     
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    Same thing here, she said she always suspected. Was not happy about me confirming, but has accepted it.
     
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  4. Steveh

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    Mine accepted it easily after she caught me doing a few things anyway
     
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    Lucky guy! My xw told me many times I should suck a cock and have a guy cum in my mouth to "see what it's like ". I didn't trust her mouth so I didn't tell her about my teen years...but i longed for her to set it up for me to suck cock for her...never happened...but looking forward to the day I get to do it again..and maybe have his w or gf watch...
     
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