I want sex without feelings in a relationship

well, you at least better wear them all day and find an artistic spot to put them.
ehhhh

 

i'll use them to cover my black eye:rofl:

 

hmmmmmm

:svengo: --- not even sure what that is all about but i likes.
(she was so defeated she died or she faked a death or um... so open for interpretation)

 

it was in reference to the adam and eve a picture- thread.....lol

 

oh. i um...tend to stay away from the insanity over there. dont wanna cut it on you fucking jesus n all. just not polite.

 

ahhhh come on now, there's always room for one more

 

hmmm i prefer to video tape this and make lots of money and during camera breaks hmmm... someone's gotta go. hrrrmmm.

 

these conversations would be priceless if they were face to face -real life...could you imagine all the forum'rs discussing this shit?! it would get outta control....someone should arrange a hip forums -face to face weekend

 

I am utterly confused as to what this thread is about...


Is this a serious question or is there a mini-fight going around...

Hmm, I will go ahead and just open my brain and pour my opinions out on this topic and put it in the most simplist form I can....

Each person is an individual, no one is built mentally and emotionally the same...If people in a relationship choose to have it open and set boundaries than that's beautiful cause it works for them and makes them happy... And others who don't who aren't open and are with the one person than that is beautiful too... Learning about people and their lives should not be a "I am right, you are wrong" or vice-versa debate.. After all, the way we live our life is right for us...not anybody else...

So I guess I don't understand why we are fighting or bickering over one's relationship when it is theirs and only theirs to begin with... Why not take it in and say, you know, that's interesting and sit around and talk about it if a question is posed... When two people can come together in a relationship of any sorts and have a bond going the way they want, it's wonderful, open or not.. It's what works for them and they are happy whether a relationship is open or not...

Now let's all hold hands damnit!!!! Please I just bled through my tampon and I am so grateful I wore a black dress...but there are flies flying around me...

 

blaze.. they kinda happen or try to happen but people are so spread out.. it's hard to get a good mix. would be great though.

shroom.. it was mostly a joke although i was serious about what ground rules were suggested. because the drama is over ill just say look for a locked thread... and leave it at that. it was rather ridiculous. just talk about saying one thing and having three people you never talk to and didnt even read their posts jump all over you. it's all good though. lol. i guess it's an emotional topic for some. personally if i would get so emotional about a relationship topic i would not post it in rt.
and believe me it's not about maybe judging a relationship being open or not.. it was about a thread asking "can there be a sexual relationship without feelings?" or something like that so i reply to THAT... and i say I think RULES are a tad bit dumb but the way to do it is to have unspoken rules and blah blah. people got upset. it's quite entertaining really but it was actually a huge misunderstanding.

as for me... i do not want an open relationship. ive had one but i suppose im now just kinda done with the need to experiment. the funny thing is i thought the other thread was just about like can you sleep with friends and not have them get too emotional... was only AFTER i posted and weird couples (weird cause i never saw them) were freaking out on me for judging them.. it's like whoaaa... settle down now. get it? lol.

anyways give your tampon to ganja. you know he'll eat it.

 

Hahahaha, omg, I'm sorry, I laughed at that last sentence about giving my tampon to ganja... :cheers2: touche!

I see, gotcha'....

 

I want a relationship....

 

well it's his favorite snack. and i think he likes yours a lot. and who can blame him. they are very tasty.

 

Sex without feelings is really hard.. that's what I wanted for about a year, but two main problems occured:

1. the sex sucked cause no one really cared about pleasing the other only getting off really and there was not much respect

2. someone ended up falling in love or getting posessive and that wasn't me

Also please, if you have sex with someone who isn't your bf, please use a condom.. cause there's no guarantee they're not gonna fuck other people! And if there's no feelings, they don't have to necessarily respect you and tell you the truth.. so.. maybe they'll just lie to you.

 

good thing i noticed you edited this

btw, i NEVER pm'ed you, i have no clue what you're talking about... i think you may have me confused with someone else, but w/e.

 

haha

 

yeah, that was a big deciding factor in whether or not dean and i had sex with other people. worry about catching something, cuz we're both clean.

 

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