I want a dumb girl

eh, I'm not all worked over it... I figured 'easy enough to assume, since you don't know me'. that's why the attempt at humor (stuck too many berries up my nose) came off as snarky.... those that know me would have known that was a joke (or a sad attempt at one. lol)

as for 'why accept a nut removal?'

sometimes it's subtle, and you don't notice til one day you wake up and go 'wtf', and other times, it's just not wanting to give up on something you 'know' to be a lost cause, and basically doing it to yourself.

other times, it's because you know the person, you care about them, and you know they're 'usually' or 'used to be' better than that, and you tell yourself it's just situational, and it'll pass. only it usually never does.

it's not usually a sudden process.... it's more a 'one disagreement at a time' sort of thing... a hundred thousand tiny pissant arguments that aren't really worth fighting over, and you say 'fuckit, I don't really care', and before you know it, you're a eunuch (more or less) and she's bitching a fit that you're not 'emotionally engaged' with the constant, unending, unceasing 'the world is ending right now' drama.

apparently, it's a flaw to be easygoing... at least around the females I've dated.

 

yeah, it does. I've often joked about being gay, but for the fact that I know what a lot of males are really like.....well, that, and not liking any dick except my own.

but it's part of why, while I might have male friends, there's very few I'll trust enough to introduce whoever I'm seeing to.

 

LOL even I failed that question... XD

 

Once, I heard someone say that they wanted a girl so dumb that she couldn't find her way back after she left the driveway.

I guess you want one that's a tad smarter.

 

stupid to any one of us is someone less intelligent than ourselves

i am not stupid

but einstein might think i am.

thus you wanting a stupid girl means you want to be the intelligent asshole

not the donkey boy

so the justification kind of disappears.

just look for someone on the same wavelength as yourself

someone you connect with

not a 'dumb girl' you want to bang.

 

yeah, my phrasing wasn't done well. on page two, it's been established I don't really want 'dumb' so much as 'uncomplicated, not pretentious, and not trying to constantly win everything by being the smartest person in the room'.

but your point is made.

 

I feel like this is more than fair. As long as you still respect her, it's all good. If you are intellectually stimulated in other ways, then you don't need it from her. It's stupid to expect one person to have absolutely everything you need. That's what you have friends and books and other life experiences for. Just don't lord it over her. She probably would have strengths in other areas, possibly where you are not so strong. It takes all kinds to make the world go round.

 

go for a chick that's about the same intelligence as you are. i think the qualities you are referring to in the OP are not so much related to intellect, but to other things.

 

Necrothread, but....

Typical girl answer. Dont think OP cares about intellectual stimulation, only concerned about stimulation in his pants

 

PS:

In the interest of equality, no one cares a out smart guys either

You aint going to want to hang out with the guy that codes apps for you phone or does your taxes.

No ones really going to care about smart girls either

Before someone comes along and tries to make it a sexist thing

 

I don't think it's a woman with lacking intelligence that you want. I think it's a woman that when put into a fight doesn't use coping mechanisms, such as vindictiveness, manipulation, etc. Not that I think anyone is dumb. I think everyone is intelligent, in different ways. But, if dumb women exist I'm sure that when fighting they would do something equally as destructive to you or themselves. So, I think it's about finding a woman that not only rides the same wavelengths as you when things are going positively, but also when things are going negatively. Someone that is the same intelligence as you. I'm assuming you are of average intelligence. So, someone that isn't under that intelligence, but not over. And someone that has similar coping mechanisms as you when put in situations, such as a lover's spat.

 

lucky for you...

 

If that's all then that's fine too. Like a "typical girl" I guess I was under the impression he meant in a partner, not just a sex toy. And silly me, I assumed he was a complex human being with a variety of needs to satisfy rather than exclusively those in his pants. I will go back to the kitchen now. Thank you for speaking to me, sir.

 

Firefly, I wish i did not run out of likes for the day......I want to give you one for what you just said.
i think it is impoirtant how someone makes you feel...period.....do you make me hate myself? OK, then I need to go find someone else who makes me feel positively about myself......
I have had enough put downs for a life time....and although, it does not make them true.....it wears on a person.....especially if the put downs started at birth.

 

be genuinely interested in someone, love yourself as a person and make the other person feel great about themselves and the same will come in scores reciprocally.

how one treats others is often reflective of the way a person feels about themself.