I think my boyfriend is gay...

annie, he's using you because of his 'sticky situation'. if he doenst want to fuck you, then his dick is either broken, or he's getting it somewhere else. i think he's a smart guy who has played the right strings on your heart. if thats not the case then the 'sticky situation' is causing him so much anxiety that he can't get it up, in which case its going to drive you two apart and destroy him from the inside. you might want to encourage him to face up, be a man, and deal with the consequences of his actions. it would mean losing him, at least for a bit, but it sounds to me like you've already lost him in one regard or another.
you and i, we're very sexual beings, i'd imagine so is your bf in many regards, however i believe the root of this problem lies elsewhere.
sorry babe =/....but you can do better than that anyways...look at you! you're a fox!

 

how you doin'?

 

ooops wrong thread I meant to post a math joke heh

 

that would not work with someone who has only sex with them twice a month, twicw a day .......oh yeh.

 

This is gonna sound really one sided but you should dump him and go out with me, I'd treat you right

 

listen to the first 15 words brokenwingz said, then replace the rest with dangermoose.

 

Kick that bitch to the curb, yes he is a bitch, any man that wont have sex w/ his woman at least once a week and has the chance to everyday is a bitch, or gay, or both

 

After checking out your pictures, I'd have to say that there's definitly something wrong. I wouldn't be able to lay next to you naked and not be all over you every day. I think if he were getting it somewhere else, you'd know about it from other signs. So unless you have other reasons to suspect cheating, I'd count it out. The fact that he's said that he didn't want to base the relationship on sex is, I think, telling. I think this guy has a rather puritanical view of sex. It probably makes him guilty to some degree. And that you're very sexual probably turns out to be a turnoff to him. I don't think talking about your past exploits will help in this situation, only make it worse. Lynsey might be right, and if you don't initiate it he may start to become more comfortable and take care of your needs more. But it may just be the case that your additudes towards sex and sex drives are simply incompatable.

 

There's a math joke thread? Where? I wanna see?

 

Is he on any meds? some medications can mess with a person's sex drive

 

You guys crack me up sometimes.

Not today though.

Use is such an ugly world, if home life is shit, a lot of people just spend as much time as they can with their friends. When people have bad experiences with rejection - by a parent or whatever - they become terrified of isolation. The guy obviously (to me, anyway) just wants to be with her, as a friend, but is afraid that she will leave him if he doesn't do something to keep her from doing so. This isn't nice, but it's at least understandable. Calling it using is a bit harsh.

 

i call it as i see it. i've had numerous conversations with annie, so i have more insight into the situation than whats posted on this thread. it is harsh, and i wish i could think of better terms to place it in, but i can't.

 

I'm gonna have to agree with dangermoose on his one, from what i heard this guy is bad news, you could get in some serious trouble for someone that wont even please you.

 

I spoke to her too. I don't think he actually wants to go out with her, he just wants a friend who won't leave him and probably asked her out without knowing what he was doing. IMO, natch.

 

Hey, quit knocking on those who enjoy sex as an activity and not "the very centre of our being." I'm a dude, I love sex - but dammit, I feel like I've had so much more fun if I've just cruised around town, gone to a few cafes and bars and whoever I'm with has made me fucking smile!
There's nothing wrong with having a low sex drive, just like there's nothing wrong with having a high one.

Have you considered that, rather than being gay, he's more attracted to your mind than your body, and you need to turn him on by being psychologically attractive, instead of throwing yourself about and thinking 'what's his problem, it's not like I'm a dog?'

Give the man a chance!

 

try all that and have sex with the girl then you will have a really BIG fucking smile on your face.

thats the point of this thread, his low sex drive. so there is a problem with it.

ok sorry I cannot stop laughing at that..........

 

whispers, I'm amazed. You're even more of a jerk than I am.

 

But isn't sex a mental thing as well as physical? if your into someone mentally isn't it important to express it phsyically?

 

It sounds like he's not appreciating just what a lucky bastard he is. It's not okay when a man forces sex on a woman, but since you're a woman, it's okay to force onto him. If he doesn't give it, then take it. You deserve it.

 

Then come stick your feet in my mouth!

If sex non-stop is what you want, and your doofus boyfriend can't/won't give it to you, I'll suck your toes, lick your clit, fuck your pussy/ass/mouth whatever you want!!!! Who says you should have to go without? Instead, we'll go all night!!

Some of us want as much sex as you do, and also aren't currently getting any. There needs to be a better match-up system.

-Jeffrey