I REALLY need to lose my best friend...

Nah, I don't think so.. it's just when she drinks, she drinks A LOT and doesn't know when to stop or how to act when she is drunk. I drank just as much as her yesterday and I was pretty wasted, but definitely not acting like how she was.

 

Gahhh! That fucking sucks Sara!

I have a friend similar to that though, it's really hard when you're really close to someone and have been friends for a while to give them a good kick in the ass

 

head-butt that mofugga:tongue:

 

I wish I had the balls to beat her ass haha

 

I say slip that bitch some roofies then take incriminating pictures of her (example: wearing a KKK outfit, molesting a retarded person... you get the idea) and post that shit all over the internet

 

hahahah that'd be great.. but I'd have some baaad karma coming my way.

 

Nah, I would just refer to it as karmatic rebalancing

 

hahahha You're awesome.

 

You need to be up front no beating around the bush no misunderstandings tell her flat out, if she dose it again tell her I am done with all your bullshit never again we are done hanging out, and stick to it

 

Yeah, if she knows she may lose her best friend because of it, she may clean up her act.

 

If she is your friend she will shape up, if not then your friendship must not be that imported

 

Ya Jen, you're right.. if she doesn't wanna try to shape up and keep me as a friend then It will make it that much easier to stop hanging out with her as much.

 

I hope it works out for you

 

film her acting like a jackass then show it to her

 

all relationships should be reciprocal. if your boyfriend for 10 years or whatever treated you like that, would you stay? so you have invested time in this friendship... so what? you don't negate the time by stopping the abuse. shes not sorry, shes fucked up. tell her that if shes drunk, you are leaving, no matter the situation. fuck the concert, im outta here. arrive at a party to find her inebriated, and "sorry, i don't think i want to stay." force the 'friends that think its hilarious' to pick up where you left off, and soon noone will offer her a drink. it might be tough at first because you share friends, but you are in an abusive friendship, and thats not ok.
and she can't 'oh well i'll pay for it' and have that make up for it. you can't throw money at a relationship problem and magically fix it. good luck sweetie, whichever way you decide (you could just shit in her pillowcase of course)
and remember, "breakin up is hard to do-ooo"

 

You always give such great advice. Thank you

 

any time dear. i do try to help where i can.

 

You are an enabler... so is her boyfriend for that matter.

All you are doing by continually taking her back as a friend is insulating her from the consequences of her own actions. The biggest favor you can do for her is to ensure that she doesn't get away with these stunts. She knows that "sorry" is a cure-all because it has proven effective in the past...

If you MUST continue hanging out with this individual then do so on the STRICT condition that she never drink before or during the times you spend together.