I REALLY need to lose my best friend...

So yins wouldn't feel bad if you had to lose your best friend since 7th grade? I know she does a lot of shit to me, a lot of negative shit... but I just had so many good times with her and it's gonna be hard to lose her.

 

I've lost good friends, and sometimes it's been my fault.... but I understand now the logic behind all of it...

Sometimes you gotta cut your losses.

 

Well, I mean....it's really up to you, of course, but she keeps fuckin up and making your life harder and harder. Imagine how often something like this is gonna happen if she's your roommate. lol You're life will be hell, unless she stops getting drunk like that.

 

Ive been trying for a long time to cut out negative shit in my life... she's one of the ones that I just can't cut right away.. Ugh I'm sure I'll figure something out

 

I'm gonna have a talk with her, I think.
Her boyfriend already did.. she said he bitcher her out hardcore. I hope that changes something a little bit for her, because if she keeps this up he won't wanna stay around long either. He always bitches at her for drinking too much and getting drunk like that, too.

 

By no means do I live life.... correctly, or without consequence...

But I know negativity breeds negativity.

May be selfish, but who else has your best interest in mind but you? Certainly not this friend of yours...

 

I'm sorry to tell you, but if she's as bad off as you make her sound, then it's gonna take a lot more shit happening before she realizes she has to do something to fix her problems.

Knowledge

 

wont they tow your car if it sits there much longer?

 

So I guess the bottom line is: Get her outta my life haha.
I'm going to a concert tomorrow with her and a bunch of friends.. I swear if he makes an ass of herself again.. that is it.

 

I hope not.. it's kinda on this back road, so not many people will see it or anything. I'm thinking about putting some kinda sign on the car saying I lost the key and I"ll be getting it soon or something haha.

 

yeah....right

 

Shut up! Haha
Nah, I'm really getting sick of it, though. I am gonna say something to her tomorrow if she can't handle her liquor again.

 

For someone I hold in high esteem to leave a post like, "Knowledge" really has an effect on my heart.

Thanks, B, but like I said... I don't know shit. I just try.

S, I hope you figure out what's best for you and your friend.

 

Thanks, sweetheart! It means a lot to have people to back me up.

 

What are friends for?

 

NOT ruining a good time. Haha

 

I'm not saying you should get her out of your life, but she needs something to make her realize that she's fuckin up not just her life, but the lives of those she supposedly cares about.

 

True, the most important being me (best friend) and her boyfriend. Everyone else thinks what she does is just hilarious and everything. But that's because she doesn't do fucked up shit to them. Me and her boyfriend have been through SOO much shit trying to get her to not act like an ass when she's drunk.

Countless times she's gone to parties where her boyfriend was at (wasted, of course) trying to fight a bunch of girls for no reason and her own boyfriend had to actually kick her out. I've also had to stop her from fighting girls many times. It's not something I like to get into.

 

So is she actually a straight-up alcoholic?

 

Needless waste is needless.