I need sex but I feel bad ... when.

BoredGeorge, youre fucking pathedic man. People gave you some real good advice and all of the sudden you start being a dick. Why dont you go fuck yourself? It would be great if you didnt even get back on these forums.

And mcnugget, your name is pretty cool but I think Ive seen you on some other threads telling teenagers they dont know shit about life. Maybe you dont know shit about life. I think youre one of those people that focused on their own problems only and likes to run around and brag about them on the internet. I know Ive been through my share of "rough spots" for the past year now, and it is probably right up there with any of your problems. So quit talking like your life is over by acting like youve been through hell and want to lay over and die, and get out and live. Youre not dead yet so quit acting like it. Man.

 

Now a 16 year old is giving me advice.

 

What's funny is the average 17 year old has probably had more unpaid-for, real sex experience than the guy that's trying to flame them

 

Im just saying man, you cant just say youth dosent know anything about maturing. Like when she told you probably dont know that much about it if you think condoms are protecting you, she's right man. They are very liable to break. So if you feel that condoms are the way to go, id wear 2 just to be safe. Yea, its cuts off pleasure just a bit, but when you get warts from a busted helmet, they're going to feel very wet, and sore, and look nasty every time a girl or hooker gets ready to play with your weiner. Be careful out there buddy.

 

Don't you have a Nintendo or something ?

 

See? Youre being a dick. You're not getting any girl that you dont pay for. Have fun dying alone.

 

Dude 16 is a horrible time. You have many long awful years ahead of you before life will get better. Don't you worry, life will smack you down soon enough.

 

16 was the best time of my life, i had a sexy girl friend, tons of friends, and went to parties every week end.

Seriously, if you think you're smarter then these teenagers then refute them with wisdom. Even if you are right, telling them that being 16 makes them unwise and messed up and leaving it at that is insulting. Not that i agree.

 

bro, I couldn't possibly disagree more. I very very rarely have to resort to manipulation, and when I do I'd rather just pass on the sex. I get plenty of action by just being my confident, funny, charming self. (not saying I'm some sort of pickup god, but I can get what I want, if I want. and I think this is true for everyone, regardless of social status, gender, etc.)

this is semi-pedantic but I don't think apparent confidence can just be dismissed as skillful manipulation. maybe for a misogynist this is true (are you one? :tongue but for my own sake I sincerely like every girl I am with, and I think they pick up on that.

social skills being another term for confidence, charm, wit? I can tell you that the women who want me do so because of who I am, not because of the sweet words I whisper into their ears.

your experience, you say. fair enough. I have never been to the US and I'm sure in a big city it can be quite different. in my own experience, the things you say are true only if you believe them to be true.

like you, I felt that it was important to be with as many women as possible, and I'd only been with about ten girls by the time I was 22, so I decided to take action and change myself. what started out as a quest to become an accomplished womanizer ended up being an amazing journey of self-realization and change.

by now I no longer feel the "number" is important, and when I meet a girl who has the qualities I'm after (standards have risen quite dramatically over the years) the sex is just a bonus. I like people, and I don't seek to use them for my own ends but rather to have fun and connect with someone.

has all the hard work been worth it for me? hell yes it has. I was absolutely miserable before I made the change, now every day of my life is awesome and people actually like me.

OP, you clearly have issues. nothing wrong with seeing a hooker here and there, but you are only covering your physical needs that way. even a random pickup has some degree of emotional connection.

 

i got no problem with someone visiting hookers, or with hookers themselves, if they're careful and healthy. i imagine that would get expensive, though. but you're paying for

1. sex with a good looking women
2. not having to deal with her issues and other bullshit.

still, in this day and age, not being able to get a decent, normal, attractive woman to at least fuck you once seems like a major problem.

 

Everything you're saying above confirms what I said.

Sex isn't a priority for you. I want a man to come forth who has bedded (different from "could if he wanted to" ), say, two different girls a week on average for a stretch (say, a month or two) without putting special effort into it (money and fame being included in this category).

In my twenties that is what I wanted to do. Like you, these days my priorities have shifted.

But I still don't pretend that I could accomplish the goal of my twenties with my beautiful personality alone.

The day came, in my late twenties when I had sexual relations with 4 different women (one of them rich, another with a great ass but ugly face, two others who were cute) in one week without paying cash (consider that the average american male has 6 women sex partners in a lifetime!!).

Then I realized how much I had to pay in other ways, to accomplish that goal.

 

well, if it helps, I had, hum, seven girls in about a month without buying them a single drink or meal or anything, without insincere compliments and without being specially famous. whenever I want sex I can go out and get it in that same way - being me, talking shit and having fun.

in what other ways do you feel like you have to pay, then? I see where you're coming from, but again, I think the things you say are true only if you believe them to be true.

 

The price I had to pay: I hated the women I fucked.

I hate any woman I have to seduce. I feel undesired when I chase or seduce. I wish attractive women would desire me without any effort in my part (the way I desire them).

You seem to think that is the case with you, and yet I recall a post of yours in which you claim you "love the chase."

I don't see how you can reconcile your claim to effortlessness and chasing at the same time.

For me, chasing is already manipulation.

Another thing you might consider is this: what you call "confidence" = "love of the chase."

 

Whores are the only thing I find interesting.

 

I am almost as old as you.

I am 25.

 

Part of me feels the same way_.

The only women I find interesting are the opposite of prudes.

 

Have you noticed any marked change in your libido yet?

When I was 23 my body started sagging. I noticed I couldn't party as much as I used to.

Last year my libido went --- DROP! :biggrin:

 

I've noticed my muscles have gotten a hell of a lot bigger and I am strong than I used to be. I have more stamina. But I am getting really big and ugly.

I used to be a cute kid now I am becoming a big bastard. Women seem to react to me better than they did when I was young. More sexually anyway.

Hard to compare. When I was young I was super fit so I was a lot faster. Definitely had more energy for physical stuff, these days I CBF exercising.

My Libido is permanently high I just want to root women and I am a horrible perve. People laugh at me in the office when a hot chicky walks past and my head turns instantly at 90 degreee's

If I wasn't just a shit kicker I'd probably get fired for sexual harassment. Bit hard to sexually harass your superior.

 

well hell. you should adore me, then. what's the deal?:toetap05:

 

I do!

Whether you adore me...that's another story. :biggrin: