I`m still a virgin..

Yeah, it feels shameful; but it also feels good at the same time. I don`t know how to feel..... I feel the longer I wait, the less likely it`ll be to lose it. I don`t know. \:

 

There is definitely something wrong with our society when a 17 year old can feel a sense of shame over being a virgin... sexual freedom and liberation certainly didn't come without a cost, that's for sure.

I don't agree that the longer you wait, the less likely it is you'll lose it. If you're female, and don't look like the creature from the black lagoon, you shouldn't have too much trouble losing your virginity if that's what you really want to do. Though if you insist that your partner must be a virgin as well, then the longer you wait, it will become less and less likely you will find a virgin partner. Unless you wouldn't mind being with someone much younger than yourself.

And I feel a bit like that... I'm not quite sure how I feel about still being a virgin. Although I'm sure my age does play a role in how I feel about it. But I don't see it as being a good or a bad thing... it just is what it is.

 

I waited until I was 24. Being a guy, I think this is probably doubly embarrassing, but I kinda felt that I'd wait until it was right. To be honest, the girl ended up hurting me in all sorts of ways and looking back, I wish I'd have just gotten it out of the way. As it is, I feel kinda small in the World of sex...no confidence at all. Everybody has to choose their own path. I, personally, would not advise waiting because I think it's hyped up more than it should be, but I may have just had a bad experience. I wish you the best.

 

They don`t have to be a virgin, I`m not picky about if they`ve had sex or not. :daisy:

 

Thanks man. I`m sorry you feel that way & had that experience. That`s what I`m afraid of.. losing my virginity & losing the person too. It`d probably be the hardest thing ever & the worst feeling. Don`t be too down about it. I`m sure you`re amazing & you will find someone who will make you feel special, naturally.

 

Misty water colored memorieeeeeess, of the way we were!!!!!!!!


Sorry I couldn't resist it! Hahahaha!!!!

 

In that case, your chances won't diminish as you get older. And 17 is way, way, too young to be worrying about being too old to lose your virginity. lol

If I ever did lose my virginity, it would have to be with someone I loved, and who felt the same way for me. But that's just personal preference, everyone has to do what they feel is right for them. There's nothing wrong in waiting for the right person, just as there's nothing wrong with sleeping with someone that you have no deep feelings for. Sex is a very personal thing, and there's no one "right" view on it. Just do what feels right for yourself.

 

There's no 'right' age to lose it at. You shouldn't feel silly, you are still young. Those who lost it at your age probably regret doing so.

 

i doubt that.

i mean, i'm sure there's people who regret it at every age, but not all or even a majority.

 

You'l know when the time is right But big props to you hon for making it this far heheheeh i just turned 23 and im still a virgin lol not because i wait for marriage or i must be really ugly or something hahahaha just busy and i guess waiting for something different. good luck

 

I'm a sex addict!

nah jus jokin it's really not that great, i lost mine at a party in some back bedroom, but i suppose it'd be better if it was with somebody i loved, but *shrug*