No, I have to take stuff like this to heart. There were some really strong and really brave women who fought for equal opertunity, advocated orgasmic equality, and wanted the world to realize they weren't second class citizens. Why the fuck do we still have people that think it's wrong for girls to have sex? I guess if it's your own moral code, that's fine- But to tell another woman she's a ho for having premarital sex is just dumb. This isn't a church social... This is an online forum in the year 2007. A girl like the tragically misguided one who posted all this is just SO unappealing, Don't get me wrong, she has a very beautiful and hot picture... But there is nothing sexy about having to wait untill marriage to have sex with a woman with whom you find out you are sexually incompatible... Did she ever think that maybe girls have to test out different guys, just to learn? That a girl might want to see if she enjoys a partners sex? Or does she expect him to wait 5-10 years, marry her and then give him missionary position for the rest of his life? This chick is SO getting herself in a position to be cheated on. Remember girls, SELF DENIAL has absolutely nothing to do with strength OR morality. What matters is that you're not a selfish lover or a bad person. If you believe in a god, I'm still sure your premarital affairs will pail in comparrison to your other, more decent deeds when you are judged.
Do you know how much bullshit is spewing out your mouth? She's 16, And i'm 15. At these kind of ages, our beliefs and morals change every year. You make it seem like she has just wished death on you. Get over it, its her opinion. What you gonna do?
Zankarland, absolutely nothing I said was confusing OR hard to understand if you read all of it. Saying you don't understand someone's logic only makes your opinion look inferior. UNDERSTANDING a person's logic and disagreeing is the way to argue... If you pull your classic line of "This is not an argument", than what the fuck do you want out of me for responding, a medal? And to EazyE, I personally believe that anyone who is trying to oppress female sexuality is "spewing bullshit." I obviously won't "DO" anything. Everyone has a right to their opinion, just as everyone has the right to bash the opinions of others, and bashing beliefs you feel to be immoral is every person's moral obligation. If I see a female attacked for her exploration of sexuality, I believe it my duty to defend her and her ideology. Pointless acts of self denial because of tradition or the "sanctity" of a girl's vagina are stupid. Most of these dogmas about female sexuality spawn from a time before contraceptives, female voting and the miniskirt. Again, it is my moral and intellectual duty to support progress. For anyone who says I'm "taking shit too seriously", you obviously don't agree with me that this is one of the most important topics of the 20th and 21st centuries.
I used to think I was a slut because I liked to jerk off with burlap. But then I realized, a lot of people like burlap, and use Post-Apocalyptic Auto-Erotic Burlap Fun Technique (PAAEBFT) PAAEBFT (pronounced paaebft) is a common technique in the US. The Chinese are catching on, but they have to do it on the sly, as the government there is very threatened by popular new movements. A lot of pastors in this country use it, like my parents.
OMG i DO TOO ! & i HAVE SEX A LOT TOO ! DON'T WORRY ABOUT iT ! iF SOMEONE HAS A PROBLEM, TELL THEM NOT TO BE JEALOUS BECUZ A.) [iF THEY ARE A BOY] THEY CAN'T HAVE SEX WiTH YOU AND B.) [iF THEY'RE A GiRL] THEiR BOYFRiEND WANTS THEM iN BED! <3 BEVERLEY
I never called her a slut because she was engaging in premarital sex. That would be awfully hypocritical of me. I'm saying she's a slut because she's spread like cream cheese for any guy that's given her the time of day. I have little respect for anybody that's promiscuous. They don't respect themselves, why should I?
Oh, I see where you're coming from. Sorry for that misunderstanding. I do however believe in a woman's right to be promiscuous if she is open and honest with her partner. Again, sorry about all that mess back there.
There you go getting all worked up again. I wasn't arguing with you. And don't talk to me about logic, as your logic is based on false premises. False premises being assumptions from an inexperienced youth that doesn't realize that he is doing nothing more than typing anything and everything that comes to mind, and doesn't even put enough thought into what he is saying to make sense out of it. Ok. Now this COULD be an argument, but it wasn't before. And by the way, To give you the benefit of the doubt, I reread your post that I originally responded to. And it still makes absolutely no sense. But that's just my opinion. Maybe you really are trying to say something with substance, I'm just not seeing it. I'm sorry if that offends you.
And if you are, just have fun with it - and stop saying yes to proposals! Nothing wrong with being as slut, being slutty, or slutting around. First idea is to be true to yourself, and be true to who you choose to be! BUT! protect yourself, or have a GREAT insurance plan.
guys, guys, guys, all learn to play nice!! we will all get on better that way!! trust anti lizzie, she knows
Who cares? The point is you like sex. I've had about fifteen partners, so what? There's a difference between having sex because you like it and sleeping around to feel like you're worth something. If a girl slept with fifteen guys because she wanted them to like her, that's bad. If a girl sleeps with fifteen guys because she loves sex, I don't see the problem.
Hey crayola ur right ur totally right... so what's the point if we newd that u do sex... no one cares either to flirt with you .... i'm not being rude or smth but that's the real point and also toolmaggot is totally right...bye
It means that it's a risk. And people have different comfort-levels with risk. I'm sure as hell not going to sacrifice the diversity of my sex-life to be utterly safe. I use a condom and have as many partners as I wish. That is the level of risk I'm comfortable with, and anything else would seem to me trememdously imporverishing of my life experience.