well nobody likes dating assholes forever. that's why women always date an asshole for a while, then dump him because they've found a new asshole to date, then they dump the new asshole because they've started up something with an even newer asshole, and so on.
i was joking, calling nice guys gay. in all honesty though, i don't believe women who say they like nice guys. this is because i know of plenty of nice men who get nowhere, forever stuck in the friend zone and so on just to watch the girl of their dreams complain about bastards, only to ignore what is right in front of their nose and date just another dickhead. i'd say i have been on the wrong side of this predicament even, when i was younger and more naive. i learned, you have to act like an idiot to get a girls attention - and then flip the caring stuff on once in the relationship.
Maybe.. but there is an in between you know. ~A man with a back bone who's capable and sure of himself but isn't a completely obnoxious arrogant tool. Sure nasty men can be exciting sexually because they are confident and domineering and in bed that's perfect. But in relationships it doesn't work out long term well it hasn't for me anyway..
yeah, there is an in between. the nice guys are in the friend zone, the assholes are getting any woman they want, and the guys in between are too capable to get friend zoned but not obnoxious enough to get laid, so they just have no female contact whatsoever.
Really? So are you saying that you think that all attractive women are bitches? What do you base that on? What about ugly ducklings then? You know women who grew up and for whatever reason didn't receive a lot of attention based on their looks and grew into beautiful women.. I know a few of these that on one level understand that statistically men find them attractive but don't base their self worth on it or really even fully believe the hype. Surely that would count as an in between?..
these women are the gold mine :mickey: let us put it this way, you might think i'm being a bit of an ass right now but isn't it a little endearing??
Hahahaha that's cause i don't have any lol. But i'm sure i could find a few that would make your hair curl
I've always had a thing for assholes and for a long time I thought it was because I had residual daddy issues or masochistic tendencies. Now I'm finally dating a nice guy and I'm starting to realize that I like assholes not because I like being mistreated but because I too am an asshole. I'm not affectionate, I hate PDA, I think whispering sweet nothings to each other is cheesy and embarrassing, I don't do well with togetherness, I like to disapear for days at a time and do whatever the hell i want without answering to someone, I can't stop flirting and checking out the guys I work with... i'm a total dickhead when it comes to being in a nice relationship and I think my boyfriend eats it up. Which proves that guys like assholes just as much as girls. ha. If I was a dude my asshole tendencies would be getting me all kinds of pussy.
I'm sure assholes like you, too... ....Alone... ....With a heavy dose of date rape drugs on hand But on a serious note, I used to like assholes. One day, I woke up and started dating nice guys. Well, they are assholes, too. So then I found a happy medium of a guy that is strong and can keep up with me but has the asshole/nice guy balance that doesn't make me think he's too douchey or a sissy. Guess its all about balance
I like assholes too. Little pink assholes on beautiful women. Oh wait ... you are speaking metaphorically. Pardon my cock's intrusion.
yeah its all about the balance. girls liked to be chased yes but they also like the chasin. i dig assholes. i joke around wth them until they get really pissy and bitchy. i guess thats just the asshole in me. i got off on not arguing with this asshole once and loved it. now i get bored of them and want a decent convo with a human. so i transferred over to nice ish guys. never been happier
Women like bad boys. Guys that treat them like shit. Not nice guys who treat them like queens. Alas, my failing.