I like assholes.

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by RainyDayHype, May 27, 2011.

  1. walsh

    walsh Senior Member

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    They go hand in hand
     
  2. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    well nobody likes dating assholes forever. that's why women always date an asshole for a while, then dump him because they've found a new asshole to date, then they dump the new asshole because they've started up something with an even newer asshole, and so on.
     
  3. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    i was joking, calling nice guys gay.

    in all honesty though, i don't believe women who say they like nice guys. this is because i know of plenty of nice men who get nowhere, forever stuck in the friend zone

    and so on

    just to watch the girl of their dreams complain about bastards, only to ignore what is right in front of their nose and date just another dickhead. i'd say i have been on the wrong side of this predicament even, when i was younger and more naive.

    i learned, you have to act like an idiot to get a girls attention - and then flip the caring stuff on once in the relationship.
     
  4. darkhorse1

    darkhorse1 Member

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    Maybe.. but there is an in between you know. ~A man with a back bone who's capable and sure of himself but isn't a completely obnoxious arrogant tool.
    Sure nasty men can be exciting sexually because they are confident and domineering and in bed that's perfect. But in relationships it doesn't work out long term well it hasn't for me anyway..
     
  5. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    there is no in between with pretty girls

    maybe ugly ones though.
     
  6. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    yeah, there is an in between. the nice guys are in the friend zone, the assholes are getting any woman they want, and the guys in between are too capable to get friend zoned but not obnoxious enough to get laid, so they just have no female contact whatsoever.
     
  7. darkhorse1

    darkhorse1 Member

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    Really? So are you saying that you think that all attractive women are bitches?
    What do you base that on?
    What about ugly ducklings then? You know women who grew up and for whatever reason didn't receive a lot of attention based on their looks and grew into beautiful women.. I know a few of these that on one level understand that statistically men find them attractive but don't base their self worth on it or really even fully believe the hype. Surely that would count as an in between?..
     
  8. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    these women are the gold mine :mickey:

    let us put it this way, you might think i'm being a bit of an ass right now

    but isn't it a little endearing??
     
  9. darkhorse1

    darkhorse1 Member

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    Lol no you're being honest and that's endearing :) And your creepy avatar is kind of intriguing.
     
  10. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    ... i don't go making fun of your holiday pictures :frown:
     
  11. darkhorse1

    darkhorse1 Member

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    Hahahaha that's cause i don't have any lol. But i'm sure i could find a few that would make your hair curl :p
     
  12. Meliai

    Meliai Members

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    I've always had a thing for assholes and for a long time I thought it was because I had residual daddy issues or masochistic tendencies.

    Now I'm finally dating a nice guy and I'm starting to realize that I like assholes not because I like being mistreated but because I too am an asshole. I'm not affectionate, I hate PDA, I think whispering sweet nothings to each other is cheesy and embarrassing, I don't do well with togetherness, I like to disapear for days at a time and do whatever the hell i want without answering to someone, I can't stop flirting and checking out the guys I work with...

    i'm a total dickhead when it comes to being in a nice relationship and I think my boyfriend eats it up. Which proves that guys like assholes just as much as girls. ha.

    If I was a dude my asshole tendencies would be getting me all kinds of pussy.
     
  13. lovelyxmalia

    lovelyxmalia Banana Hammock Lifetime Supporter

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    I'm sure assholes like you, too...

    ....Alone...

    ....With a heavy dose of date rape drugs on hand

    But on a serious note, I used to like assholes. One day, I woke up and started dating nice guys. Well, they are assholes, too. So then I found a happy medium of a guy that is strong and can keep up with me but has the asshole/nice guy balance that doesn't make me think he's too douchey or a sissy.

    Guess its all about balance
     
  14. darkhorse1

    darkhorse1 Member

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    I agree lovely :) There is a balance to be had.
     
  15. Libertine

    Libertine Guru of Hedonopia

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    I like assholes too. Little pink assholes on beautiful women. Oh wait ... you are speaking metaphorically. Pardon my cock's intrusion.
     
  16. stacy lulu

    stacy lulu yeeeaah buddy

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    yeah its all about the balance. girls liked to be chased yes but they also like the chasin.

    i dig assholes. i joke around wth them until they get really pissy and bitchy. i guess thats just the asshole in me. i got off on not arguing with this asshole once and loved it. now i get bored of them and want a decent convo with a human. so i transferred over to nice ish guys. never been happier
     
  17. dark suger

    dark suger Dripping With Sin!

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    Girl who doesn't they all tight and warm mmmmm fuck yeah
     
  18. RiffRaff

    RiffRaff Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Women like bad boys. Guys that treat them like shit. Not nice guys who treat them like queens.


    Alas, my failing.
     
  19. stacy lulu

    stacy lulu yeeeaah buddy

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    only ones who dont think they deserve the goodness. you can only put up so much with assholes
     
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