I just realized something...

I think your indifferent assholish outer shell is a consequence of some hurtful experience in the past...

I dont think you were always that way. ... theres something about you that tells me you could care too much... and you are denying yourself that... (which I totally understand..)

It's a good thing if it serves you well (protects you...) ... its a bad thing if it keeps you from being who you could really be...

But if your happy as you are, then by all means... continue! ....

 

Don't worry. You're not alone.

 

No, no, no!!! *raps jester across knuckles with ruler* you're trying way to hard. no truelly arrogant asshole would ever expend that much energy on any single insult.

It undermines the whole "and anyway you're beneath my notice" undertone that comprises the very bedrock of arrogant assholism.

you have the raw talent but you need to perfect your technique.


Remember; true arrogance should appear effortlesss.

 

True. I think you have the image of being an asshole... I do believe you're arrogant ... but no you're not that self centred ..... I see how obsessed you get with others in the forum.

Men mostly.:H

 

and its scary when he does it.

 

Can we all rap him, just for old times sake?

 

Much better.

 

Yeah buts attached to someone else. I hope he is taking care of it.

 

My butt's going to austrailia actually.

 

*Hands jester his diploma and wipes a tear*

 

There's a Good Person Inside of You...

This is All for Show...

But I've Seen the Man Inside of You...If Only Briefly...

 

Oh Sure...

You Know How that Turns me On...

 

arrogance is generally a form of intelligence, even if its a narrow one
most people are self-centered because its our life and everything effects us
even if we focus on others it all still comes down to living your own life
and asshole is subjective
and whether or not these things are good/bad, is again subjective
sometimes you have good things to say and other times you're just talking out of your ass
but you're hot so that makes up for everything

 

I think it's a bad thing. I used to be one too until I realized I was that way because I was insecure and didn't want anyone to know the real me. Now that I am myself things are a lot easier. I get along with most, don't get angry at everything and am comftrable in my own skin. To change it took changing what I was insecure about; my slobishness, my weight and accepting things I was insecure about but cannot change; my clumsiness, ditziness...I could go on and on lol.
I may appear less confident now but it's not low self-esteem it's recognizing my flaws and being more tolerable of others. We can't live our lives in arrogance, intolerance and anger if we want to have a happy life. Why waste your time on road rage, putting up an arrogant front and denying yourself the right to be you.
I think you are a good and non-arrogant person you just have to let him out.
(((hugs)))

 

well then even though I personally think it is bad because arrogance led me to be a very unhappy person and it was a front and I am now much happier being real and admitting my utter and complete incompetence at life lol perhaps since you are happy with your percieved arrogance there is no need to change it? It sounds like you are happy with who you are and if you REALLY are happy with yourself why ask for other's aopinions? ...unless you just want attention (like everyone does)

 

You're missing a 'key concept' yourself - why not change it?


Hopefully this Thread's second page will have more redeeming values...

 

we've all been telling you this for a long time now..

you're also hard-headed and your ego could use a down sizing

 

Neither- just because....

If it's a reflection of the real you then why alter that for the sake of a bunch of unseen folks online. Anyone who doesn't like it is perfectly free to go elsewhere. If it's an act then I'm duly amused, jester. Tell some jokes while I relax with a cold beer.

Is this thread a result of more scientific curiosity on your part? Somehow I doubt you really give a flying fuck if someone thinks it's a bad thing.

 

I like to call it an abundance of self confidence.

 

wow that is really a defensive answer for such a simply made statement. why?