Well, I'm no pussy. I like testosterone. I played Aussie Rules football for years. I love the buzz of adrenaline. I just get really bored with groups of guys who are always trying to out-do, out-boast each other. Mine is bigger, I've fucked more, I earn more etc.etc.etc.
That's different. I was referring to the habit of cultivating toy male friends as though they are asexual. I have a friend of mine in that position right now. He's hurt of course, but he put himself in that situation. I told 'em, "Dude, don't let her." The goal is not to impress anyone, but for women to understand that men whom they are not interested in are not asexual play thingies. Anyway, enough of this gender stuff for me!
I always go to my 'I once derailed a train with my penis.' joke when that starts. I dunno. I think a lot of that's from little confidence, which I find annoying. Usually if you're secure in yourself, you don't have to try to out do wach other all the time.
Praxiskepsis, I read your second post on that, and I think it would work with me too. I think you are wise with your actions.
i love (some) men too, but i dont really like talking about htem like theyre puppies... *shrugs* i havent really got many male friends atm to be honest. friends boyfriends and my bf's friends are about it, and im not terribly close to any of em. i used to have a lot more in high school but we all drifted apart save for a select few, who all ended up being female
This girl once told me that depending on the guy, though a stranger, she might not mind if he squeezes her ass in a bar. Wtf? She must of been talking out of her ass.
naw if a chick finds a guy really attractive, generally they dont object ot a little butt squeeze. but, thats dependent on her finding him very attractive... and most girls dont know what the fuck they want so it doesnt really turn out that great
exactly- "depending on the guy..." i try that, and i'll get the police called... or more likely she'll just decide that i'm trying to be her new best friend anyway
Here, I'll play Hyphy. Walk up to the woman. Grab her, and say, "what's shaking crystal." Then when she turns around, look shocked and appologize. Offer to buy her a drink to make up for it. Although keep in mind, I'm almost always against buying stranger drinks. And also, I'm too classy for this.
The curundum lies in the fact that people are usually most attracted to that which they cannot have, and since to initiate a relationship a person must express interest (generally the male), doing so reduces his perceived status.
I would say that women who don't hate men have done a pretty good job at shrugging off a lot of the indoctrination and propaganda that is aimed at them. The media works to portray men as sex-starved malletheads obsessed with sports and getting laid. Because people mimic what they see on TV, many men are in fact that way and it's easy to see why some women hate men. It's easy to hate people when you don't understand that people are largely products of their own indoctrination and the society and media-driven culture they live in. I also just love the double-standards we have when it comes to women criticising men and men criticising women. To single one group of people out for their sex is no better than singling them out for their race, ethnicity or anything else. But I find it rather ironic that sexism aimed at men is tolerated in society, but at women it's not.