i wish i could have a harem of men relationships do suck, thats why i'm NEVER in one plus i love men too much to be in a relationship this one man thing is going to be hard
i have had experiences with some asshole men in my time, but i would have to say over all, that they are really just simplistic, and women often don't get that because we are very analitical and we read too far into situations at times.
it won't be hard if you guys are chill and don't start making all sorts of plans and if he's not posessive or wanna change anything about you or anything like that.. and if you have great sex.. then.. could work out!............and last good luck *hugs* (though I think it's a little scary how he wants to be exclusive after just 1 date lol)
It's funny how a lot of things being said about men here, I've said about women...pro and con. To quote someone on this forum, such is life's rich tapestry.
It's great when two people volunteer to be exclusively devoted to each other, but the idea of possession by marriage contract is evil. Nobody owns anybody, even some stupid piece of paper says so.
I used to believe firmly that men were generally possessed of simpler desires than women. I used to think, what is so wrong with men just wanting to have sex? Until I met men who wouldn't have sex with women because the latter initiated towards them and that's slutty and this and that. That's when I realized I'm no standard for manhood. These days I believe firmly in nothing at all.
no one man is ever the same as another, men just share the same ongoing similarities as far as ways of handling situations, and how they can co-exist with others without picking eachother apart. Just because there are two guys and one is a complete tool, and the other is an asshole, doesn't mean that the third man with either be a tool or an asshole!
I love men too. It's so much easier for me to be friends with a guy than it is for me to be friends with a girl.