what you did hitting the cat with a shoe was just plain wrong. she is a cat... cats don't understand that shit because, their cats! their brains are not like our brains. cats are not stupid but, you sure acted stupid for hitting the cat. try raising your voice. they will pick up your in a shitty mood and leave you alone for awhile. i yelled at one of my cats today because, she would not shut up. i'm sick right now and i feel like shit; still, after yelling at her i felt like a god damn first class piece of shit for doing it too. poor cat does not know i'm sick and feel bad. all she knows is i'm in a foul mood. at least i had enough sense to know not to hit her! i put all 4 cats into a room away from me; i don't want to subject them to me and my shitty mood right now. even though at times i yell at them for getting on my nerves, i have never, ever, hurt a cat! well, i take that back. a couple of weeks ago, i was washing dishes and, i took a step back and stepped on the poor tabby's tail... he sure let me know about that! that was an accident though, i did not know he was right behind me. prove kittie that your smarter then she is by thinking like a cat. don't show her your dumber then she is; you prove to her you were dumber then she is when you hit her with the shoe!
I know you might've been tired and pissed. But this is just SO wrong. I can't blame the cat if she fucking claws the shit outta you evertime you walk past her. I couldn't say apologise But I could say that you better treat that cat right from now on or she'll never trust you again. How is she supposed to understand why you randomly beat the shit outta her? Start treating that cat right, or you'll be the pussy. eace: L_S
SRSLY first off purp by the pound shut the fuck up your classified as retarded in my book. wait thats offensive to people with mental illness. Your dumber than they. I believe that that statement was made about people who torture or kill animals. OP never said anything about torturing or killing the cat. Second off the guy posted in true confessions if I am not mistaken this is supposed to be a place to confess and recieve guidance. Not for assholes to make remarks about a person you hardly know grow the fuck up. Yea he hurt a cat like you have never hurt an animal.
I tend to agree with your point, though not the personal attack on him... You don't know Purp either, can't really say whether he's an asshole or not, k. Although, Purp does tend to get all personally offended and attack people over things he shouldn't get his panties all twisted up about.
come and seal my fate maria Great album btw... I never said asshole just extremely dumb. Every post I have ever read by him has some kind of stupidity in it. Not saying I am the smartest guy just saying.
ppfff big deal, I smack my cat everyday. That mangey beast is out of his mind, and the farm he comes from dumped the retarded one on us lol :tongue: I should go give them a piece of my mind
You should give your cat away to a good home. You truly have anger problems and should seek help. Like the one poster said a lot of serial killers admit or even brag that they tormented animals before they killed humans. Its brave of you to post this. ( it really is) Obviously you want to get some type of help because if you didn't you would of seen this as not a problem. Please your cat is in heat. How would you like it if every time your horny someone punches you in the nuts? Yah not fun is it? Being horny is natural all living being go threw it. If you cant handle the situation like a normal pet owner then give her away and don't get any more animals and definitely go seek some help.
Or just become a butcher, at least society will accept you and pay you decently for hacking animals up all day
Seriously, he beat his cat once with a shoe and now feels bad about it. Im willing to bet that at least half the poeple I know have smacked a cat or two in their day. It's not a big deal, he realizes he was wrong and admits to it, that is not the sign of a serial killer or the sign of someone who should seek medical attention.
its not just the fact that he hit his cat its the fact that he kept going after her. Most people calm down he just kept going even after he realized it was wrong. I seen that kind of anger in my dad who abused me for years. People shouldn't hurt animals. I don't care who you know its still wrong. Maybe this person isn't going to be a psycho killer but if he is going out with a girl and he lays his hands on her out of anger like he did with the cat then he is going to have more then a few forumers after him. I still stand by what I said I think he should get some help for his anger and give up his cat to a better home.
He said he smacks his cat and throws shit at it - that is tormenting it. Animals don't know any better. For you to come and say that all my posts have some degree of stupidity is hilarious. Why would you even comment about it if it bothered you so much?
Exactly. Funkateer, maybe you think abusive relationships are okay, but there's always someone on the receiving end. Hopefully you'll never have to experience either. To say that we aren't giving him guidance is not true either. We said to seek help for his anger...that would be helping.
Yea, and then he felt bad about it and openly admitted to it. Someone with violent tendencies would not feel guilty for it and most likely would not admit it. And the ones who admit it usually laugh about it and let people know that they plan on doing it again. Sorry you were abused, a lot of people were. Doesnt make a difference in this case in my opinion, I was hit all the time as a kid, doesnt mean I look at this situation any differently.
A lot of people with anger management problems can readily look back and say they have a problem. That isn't where the problem lies - it's in dealing with the emotions as they rise.
EXACTLY! I'm aware of what I did and I am conscious of the steps to take to never have it happen again. The cat and I are chill with each other. I apologized by allowing her in my room freely. She doesn't even flinch in fear whenever I look at her either. We're pretty cool with each other. Anyways. I have some more confessions to release. The reason I tell these confessions in the first place is to see your reactions and hear what ever insight yall have. Also as a form of repentance and self punishment (making myself read these). Also as a way of release. I have already accepted my mistakes, though. Anyways, let me tell you about this dog my family had. It was one of those small dogs, the one that yaps yaps yaps (talks big smack for such a little shit). He would yap so much. When I was taking him out for a walk: yap. Any given moment when he hears a "noise": yap at it. Bark bark bark. I got in to the habit of hitting him. Mostly softly, occasionally, occasionally, hard. I'd whip him with his lease, too, after I had walked him and he had misbehaved (not what you think, just appropriate lashings, like when you beat a child). They are true about dogs, however. They are loyal. He remained friendly to me (though it might have been just to get treats), and we were friends. However, occasionally he hid under a bed or sofa when I entered the room. That is what I gauge my treatment to the cat with. The cat doesn't hide from me so I know I didn't cause much carnal pain when I hit her on that night of anger. Hell, she probably still thought I was playing with her. That would suck, getting hit in the balls. But the cat isn't mine:its a family members'. If it was my choice, I wouldn't have any pets, or if I did I'd get them spaded. And, trust me, I'm no serial killer. I'm no serial killer. I would never do something like that. Anyways, all is well with the dog (poor poodle); he was given to another family after he mauled a boy in the face. And was I said, me and the cat are chill. I heard that cat's brains are always in alpha wave state (or something like that) so lots of psychic phenomena happens with them. Just an interesting tidbit. Also, someone made a good point about whipping children as a way of discipline. Maybe we should have a broader conversation about that.
I wouldn't call what I did torment. More like discipline. Unjustified discipline? Kind of. I agree with this. And sorry you were abused too. I don't plan on doing it again and I don't have no pride in having done it.
You are a laughable person when did I ever make that statement. You actually flamed him not gave him guidance. Wow good way to prove my point there is a degree stupidity to each post...
A cat and a human are two different things... I agree with you saying get help for his anger but to flame him which at this point I dont know if you did or not. (to lazy to go back and reread) helps nothing
I wouldnt say I was abused, as in beat for no reason and beat to the point of bleeding. But I was smacked often and as a teenager got into some physical confrontations with my step father. But it has not made me bitter or desire to repeat that behaviour. Im a father myself, if anything it's made me appreciate the relationship I have with my son even more, and he adores me. I would never beat him out of anger, though if my cat pissed me off, Id definitley give him a smack without hesitation. I wouldnt beat him with a shoe and repeatedly hurt him lol, but a smack here and there aint shit to get all hype abot