I have no life...

We shud be friends b/c i have no life too. I just loan around town all day and get high.

 

seriously, I'll be real with you. You very well may be miserable for the next year or two. I remember when I was your age, I was so pissed and so lonely because I couldn't find hardly ANYONE like me. I hated being alone so I hung out with assholes, which eventually made me feel worse.

In time, some of your friends are going to grow up and you'll be amazed at who stays your friend and who becomes one. It's nuts when people start to grow up.

Until then, you've always got hipforums to come to to find people who think like you! yay!!

 

Sucks worse for me... my friends are really cool but i dont really see them because of my illness...

 

if you dont mind me asking, what type of illness prevents you from seeing awesome friends?

 

Anxiety disorder... it's very depressing, i never enjoy being out and about... i want to but i cant all i can do is think about being home. it is a very consuming problem...

 

so chill with them at your house? maybe smoke some bud to calm your nerves? try a different medication?

and headymoechick i know what you mean, my friends in VA and ont he forums are so great, its jsut a little lonely here in texas cuz of the area im in. but im moving to VA sometime in june-august and ill be going back to my same school and living near all my friends

 

"so chill with them at your house? maybe smoke some bud to calm your nerves? try a different medication?"

i do chill with them at my house and does make me happy but there is more to life that i am (somewhat needlessly) missing out on...

bud is great but it doesnt calm my nerves... it is the reason i am where i am ...
as far as medication goes "you can't sedate all the things you hate" it is a mental problem not a chemical balance problem... but i did try Xanax for a while but it proved unuseful eventually...

 

wow dude, that seriously sucks. if its a mental problem then it should be pretty easily overcome, are you shy? success with the ladies(men if you roll that way)? maybe lackin confidence?

 

"wow dude, that seriously sucks. if its a mental problem then it should be pretty easily overcome, are you shy? success with the ladies(men if you roll that way)? maybe lackin confidence?"

yeah i can be shy but generally talking to people isn't my problem it's kind of like clostrophobia (fear of small spaces) but instead of fearing walls i fear people...
i've had my success with the ladies, less then some more then alot... so not too bad.

how old are you jointman? and how long you been smoking? because a couple years back i went out all the time and partied alot but it does catch up to you...

 

im 16. im not really the party type of guy either. my thing is to hang with 4 or 5 close friends and jsut chill or get a couple girls over and chill. i been smokin cigs and weed a couple years. im quitting the cigs next month for sure this time(when my dad gets back from iraq). i rarely get the chance to smoke bud anymore and even when i did i never really went overboard with it. well thats good that your gettin some ladies! thats always a good thing. as for the fear of people...hmm thats quite perplexing. i can definetley see how that could be hard on a person. Maybe what you could try is developing more deep relationships with people.

 

it's good quit the the cigs they are nothing but poison and not even the fun type
im glad to see you dont smoke bud all the time... do it but remember to have breaks and you will be fine...

"as for the fear of people...hmm thats quite perplexing. i can definetley see how that could be hard on a person. Maybe what you could try is developing more deep relationships with people." - JM69

it's not about people personaly or being scared of connecting i just can't stand physically being around people sometimes. i am getting better but it is complicated.

 

well good luck with it, im sure youll be able to overcome it!

to everybody, i know my problems are quite miniscule i jsut like to bitch

 

I'm not going to prom.

/such a no life loser.

 

Go to school, get an education (a good one), and become a famous drug researcher. Then you can make a whole lotta people here proud.

 

Proms are overrated. Don't feel bad.

 

just cause you're not going to the lame ass waste of money prom doesnt make you a loser...I didnt go to mine, Id rather have shaved my legs and i just did that...

 

^ Listen to ms & lsds. Proms are overrated. I went to mine, but I wish I'd shaved my legs instead. And I'm a guy. That's how lame it was.

 

i think anyone who has the time to sit on a message board has no life!

so.. we all really have no life.

 

I got life

I got life, mother
I got laughs, sister
I got freedom, brother
I got good times, man
I got crazy ways, daughter
I got million-dollar charm, cousin
I got headaches and toothaches
And bad times too
Like you
I got my hair
I got my head
I got my brains
I got my ears
I got my eyes
I got my nose
I got my mouth
I got my teeth
I got my tongue
I got my chin
I got my neck
I got my tits
I got my heart
I got my soul
I got my back
I got my ass
I got my arms
I got my hands
I got my fingers
Got my legs
I got my feet
I got my toes
I got my liver
Got my blood
I got my guts (I got my guts)
I got my muscles (muscles)
I got life (life)
Life (life)
Life (life)
LIFE!

(hair)

 

haha jay man why dont you take up a hobby. have a hobby and a job and when you quit smoking, start exersice or something go to jogs, to clear your lungs out quicker.

of course id not be fucked for that but it works for lots of people!

i still love to walk places. arent there places you can walk to?

i guessif you had weed it owuld be better though