I think all Bi and Gay people have felt like you do at one time.....I went through a hard patch as I was getting older...first I was VERRY butch...a total jock in school , dressed and acted like all the guys around me...then , I discovered that all gay chicks werent butch , and it was ok to be a girl....THEN , I went through the BUT I WANT TO HAVE KIDS thing..... Its ALL ok.....none of it makes you a bad person...it just makes you WISER !
lol im gay and im very masculine and Im a person more inclined to be on bottem too so just cuz ur bi doesnt mean your feminine and plus even if your stright you could be feminine.
you know, the day you stop addressing who you are and what you want to be is the day you've stopped growing. the fact that you even question whether or not you're a good person pretty much says to me that you're trying to be a good person. that's typically all that matters to most people.