Excuse me? Who are you? Are you really "MySecrets" wife? If that is the case, then you would be privy to more of the facts here than any of us, which is what I believe was one of my points that DarkSugar was making assumptions and value judgments on very little factual information. If her guess was spot on, then good for her "intuition." Don't know where thje "tough" came into that. I am usually quite sensitive to most human problems and try to understand underlying causes, but admittedly I do have cojones.
