I feel sooo bad

Thank you honey .
Yes, I forgot to mention that point. This child has tried to cancel our last two sessions. If I do not get 80 percent of my medicaid assigned hours, my agency will not reimburse me for mileage for the week (which is usually about 250 a week).
Once I showed up and the client was not even there at her house and because I work only part-time missing that session put me below 80 percent so I did not get paid mileage for that week.
I am a consultant so the laws are different in terms of labor. i am not entitled to mileage nor do I get paid if I don't turn in treatment plans and log notes on time. But the benefits are I make my own schedule, get to have sessions in people's homes, do all my paperwork from home and make enough per session that I do not have to work full-time.

 

It's best to get out of that situation. I'd report the guy. If it's not you he's going to harass it's someone else. He probably doesn't want any men counselors because he knows what he's capable of so he probably thinks they'd be the same idiotic way.



I feel bad for the kids growing up with a sick father like that. Fucking jerk off.

 

He just wants to be your special buddy!

I guess you did make note of your observations when you went to the home although "flirting" is likely something ruled as opinion rather than facts. I am sure you have to state actions and words that make you suggest that he was being a flirt with the minor.

I tread on the side of caution since I knew a guy that had issues with new counselor fresh out of school looking to make a name for herself (not saying this would be you) but it was right after the Eli Creekmore (spelling) case and well she made alot of accusations and pulled his kid because law enforcement was doing what ever they were suggested to do because of the Eli Creekmore case. Long and short he got his kid back (several thousand dollars later) thanks to a judge and the lady was bitched out but still had a job.

 

That's messed up, specially that last part.

I understand you felt uncomfortable, but I would mostly feel sad/frustrated of not being able to help.

 

well, somebody has a tiny dick complex. I say make sure cps is aware that there could be sexual abuse going on. As im sure you know, sexually abused kids dont like to talk about it because of the stigma attached. Id make it my mission to make sure these girls arent being sexually exploited. dont feel bad hon, you did what you had to do for your own sake and well being.