I don't wunna be gay!

Haha yes sometimes in my dreams I am so horny I just screw everyone...These dreams don't nessisarily mean you are gay they are just dreams. And you finding gay sex appealing is just part of curioustiy. Even if you were gay it's not really a big deal and being gay isn't something you can help.

 

Are you addressing both me and AwesomePawsome , i can't remember saying i had a 'gay crisis' or anything :&

Even in my dreams i have limits , but i know what you mean. Many a morning i have awoken with a hu..... gee whiz i am gonna stop with that ..wrong time wrong place..:& :X

 

I know you aren't gay matthew sorry for the confussion sir....

 

No problem..and no need for the Sir.. your lordship will do. (j/k)

 

Look kid dont get too dependant on what the rest of the world thinks as right and wrong. If you are gay dont be a afraid, thats stupid and it also makes you weak. Sexual orientation has nothing to do with who and what you are. Take me for example im bi currently surving 5 years in the United States Marine Corps, I just got back from a 8 month tour in Iraq, and yes i had to fight there. And if any of those scrawny conservative pansy bastards wanna try and question my honor i could snap their necks with barely any effort. So be who you wanna be and stop worrying about what other people are gonna think about it, be your own man. Works for me.
And i agree with you chicks are hot so that would make you bi if anything.

 

I use it around here only in an ironic sense. Sometimes if some goes on a heterosexist rant I'll post "fag" as a single word response especially if their arguement includes some variation of "You only want gay marriage because you're gay" or "You guys are sick" or some other ad hom.

 

I call things gay to show they suck. I dont know why, I don't mean to label gays as bad or anything I just say things that way. So sorry!

Dude, I think about stuff like that all the time. Sometimes I dream it and sometimes i dont but I'm really turned on by the thought of having sex with another chick most of the time I think it! Its quite scary too, cause I have a boyfriend and our sex life isnt great and I always get scared I'm gay. Dammit I did have words of advice but just realised im in nearly the same situation as you lol.. Well, for one, when I was 12 I always used to picture 'what if' situations in my head, and they got pretty sick, things I would NEVER do sexually, with people I would never do them with. Even nowadays, 5 years on, I wonder what would happen if, say, my boss came onto me or something. Thinking up random stuff is natural, if you want it to become a reality then that's fine too, just make sure you don't hurt anyone in the process (or yourself).

Anyway, unless you're 100% sure of your sexuality, which some gays and straights are (someone I know knew she was definitely bi since she was like 3), then don't try to work out what you like till you start to get out of your teens, its the best advice I've been given. If you try to label yourself as anything, all you're doing is mentally restricting your choices, and may regret it later. But also remember experimenting with ideas is natural too, and you're a long way from gay yet

 

Don't worry about it; it's more likely that puberty is giving you lots of feelings that you haven't felt before. My best friend, for example, was always curious about his sexuality around that age; he'd constantly act sexually interested in me, and we did have an experience (experimentation with oral sex), but afterwards, he payed less and less attention to guys and focused more on girls. Personally, I'm bi, and I recognize him as a full heterosexual.

I guess what I'm trying to say is: don't worry about your sexual orientation now, you're too young to be able to pinpoint it as hormones tend to mess with your emotions. Worry about it later; even though you shouldn't worry about it at all as it's stupid to worry about not fitting into society's view of what is correct.

 

Personally, I enjoy the thought of this "gay sex" concept, as it sounds quite pleasant.

 

well thats fair enough. just go find a bloke that wants to do gay sex with you and tell us all about how you feel/felt.

Concept and actualy physicaly doing it are two diffrent things imho .. the concept of 3 eager woman all wanting to have wild sex with me seems quite pleasant , but i don't actualy think i would like it .. i am more a one person man..but hell the concept sounds great. do you know what i mean ?.

 

don't worry about defining yourself. you're young, just be yourself and let time answer your questions. (most people, whether they admit it or not have some bi thoughts or tendencies.)

 

hey, when i first got into an all girls school i was really scared of being bi and i was afriad of it. but i realized that i was only afriad of it because i didnt understand it. and as i couldnt just stop staring at girls asses and their lvoely faces i realized- why force myself to stop doing this if it's not a pain to do it? why am i gonig to be sad about it? why should i force myself to be something i shuoldnt have to be?

just understand what your dream was about... i dont think you should be saying you don't want to be gay. you are 12 years old (i know i know, im 15). understand why you are having those thoughts.. you can't run away from your mind. and if you think you are gay but dont want to e- in the end, who are you running away from? no one but yourself.

just reember that there is noting wrog with being who you are. why be someone else when you can be yourself?

 

I may have very well just fallen in love with you due to that response!