I highly doubt it is all down to sex, I mean, doesn't everybody want a good shag like, all the time? Really happy, will want a shag Really sad, will shag Talking too much? Yes, will probably want a shag! Pretty sure if the guy does listen on that very rare occasion, he should just sprout something truly brilliant, something she can marvel over for long periods of time
In my experience, it's nigh impossible to have relationships with people without friends and hobbies. But I'm not a relationship kind of guy, either. So, maybe, that explains it...
I have one ex that talked about dishwashers for about 3 hours on the phone with me one night. I'm not kidding. Dishwashers! Of all fucking things....then my recent ex liked to talk about cleaning her basement. I can handle small talk in small amounts, but I like having good conversations of substance.
Every girl reading this is probably going to roll her eyes. No use doing it ten times a day if you are only going to last 3 minutes each time. Anyway, they are just the same as guys, they just hide it better. Not getting enough, guys get agro, girls cackle, whether its chickens, chimps or humans its like the Golden rule of nature or something
LMAO! I'm pretty good at making it sound like I'm interested in a conversation I don't give a shit about too. Those phrases are like my gold mine lmao
Maybe I missed something in the original post, but did the OP tell his girlfriend that she tends to ramble on incessantly, and he could do with some more silent time? (I'm not saying that's how it should be said, just paraphrasing to save time). I don't consider her "Intolerant and self centered" if she has never been informed that her behavior is a problem for her boyfriend. Maybe she genuinely thinks that he enjoys listening to her. In which case, she should be told that he's not enjoying the rambling and the repetition of the same stories over and over. If she continues the same behavior after being told that it's a problem, THEN we can bring out the insulting names. Just my 2 cents.
I believe shes just conversioning. Thats how she communicates or she needs more friends. She feels comfortable with you talking about all this stuff too. I believe if she has more friends, she'll calm down with you If she doesnt, then sadly shes not your communicating type and you need to move on or get help
Every woman on the Planet who is attracted to you will do this.. An attracted woman checks in this way did she capture your heart or not.. and believe me: they are very, very serious when checking.