I don't know what to do with my breasts.

I personally don't have that problem, but my sister is a 34H. Talk about a strange combination. The only place she can really find a good bra is at S&M shops. And, like everyone before me said, I would talk to a doctor (maybe a breast specialis...I'm sure they exist) and exhaust ALL other resources before getting the reduction.

 

Good for you! Dating the shy polite guys.

As you must have been young, I imagine the teacher incident as this weird errosion of a barrier, more tellingly than if a boy did the same thing. If the teacher had any decency he felt bad about not heading off the reflex in time.

On this general subject I recall a lady at a job I once had who cheerfully told me how happy she was when she got a double masectomy. I found that kind of creepy, and also sad. That she felt glad to have herself mutilated. On that cheery note... lol!

 

He didn't. He was a perv and oggled all the girls (some of them liked it). When I was in high school teachers weren't as paranoid about checking out students as they are now (and with good reason.) It didn't freak me out, but I did request a transfer out of his class.

 

Hey! I just came back here in order to stipulate "unless he was openly staring or something." lol! That sucks. I'm wondering what that little thing is "Sugar and spice and nothing nice." Looks kind of gothy?

 

Goth....me....:lol:

I look horrible with black hair

 

Well what the devil was it?! =] Had no luck googling, and now our sensors indicate no trace of the anomoly. I also see that you're overseeing your dark realm. Which could of course simply refer to the institution. Um, of marriage! Heh! Heh! Woops!

I have no issue with goths although there is some heated discussion about them going on here lately. Thanks to my big mouth and a link that I made to the hipforums thread, there is also a discussion about hippies on a goth site.

You could PM me as to what the thing was if you want to avoid being flamed at the stake. Or I'll just let shut up and let it go.

We can focus on these cultural differences and hate one another, but in the end I think that what really matters is an appreciation for breasts, without behaving like a dork about them. =]

 

Why would I be flamed? For a blinky that I thought was cute....seems rather absurd don't you think. I switched it to my tranquil waterfall....for no other reason that it was time for a change. It has been dull and dreary where I live so I wanted something more cheerful. Wait until you see my Spring blinkies

What exactly is a hippie? Ask 20 different people and get 20 different answers. Same with Goth.....although I can see where the two may not mesh very well. In high school we had cliques....the preppies hated the stoners....who hated the goat ropers...who hated the heshers....it goes on and on. I was D.) None of the above which made for an interesting four years I do not define myself with a singular label, because I am much more than that, as are most people.

I tend to associate with a variety of people from all walks of life and doing so teaches me tolerance and understanding of the diverse world in which we all live in. One of my favorite professors was a hippie. I thought he was incredibly brilliant, but often disagreed with his political views. It led to some very interesting debates. However even with his political views he was one of the most inspirational people that I have had the pleasure to meet.

Breasts are funny aren't they. They have to be the most oggled part of the female form, but why? Is it because they symbolize life? (As in breastfeeding) Or is it simply because they are right in front for all the world to see? Personally I appreciate the whole form....great breasts are nice, but do they fit with the rest of the body? I like human forms to be size proportionate for men and women. Eh, that's just me though.

 

Hey. Really must go soon, BUT, good that you realize the cliques are not that big a deal. I have had individuality foisted upon me for too long and too intensely to ever lose sight of it.

People could flame simply because they tend toward weenie-ishness. =] Not that it really matters. Just blithering a bit.

Yeah, breasts. I was working, driving a cab today, and found myself contemplating what you said about how you were flattered by the guys who made an effort not to stare at your breasts. I found that interesting. Like breasts just put themselves out there, as it were. lol! Kind of an announcement of femininity, and the fact that a guy will pointedly NOT stare at them is an indication that he notices them and is making the kind of comical effort not to seem so. So that becomes flattering because he is polite but also obviously DOES notice them. If I was a high school teacher, far more than ordinary trying to be polite situations, because they're kids, I would probably have to gouge my eyes out. I'd be all looking at the ceiling and the floor and whatnot. lol! Walking into walls and such.

Yeah. Breasts are sexual and they are motherhood and nurturing. And now I sound completely obsessed going on so, but, as you mentioned in another discussion, the whole really matters. I apply that to the general obsession over things like weight and height and physical stats, which can be so dehumanizing. There are women of all colors and many shapes and sizes who are beautiful in the way it all comes together, and we haven't even touched on personality.

Must be on my way. Later. =]

 

hey thanks for the exercises!! i'll defiantly try them out next time i go to the gym =]

 

You're welcome! :^)

 

girls, girls. love your breasts they're awesome. i'm a 36DDD myself and wouldn't give it them up for the world. (i actually prayed when i was little everyday for big boobs - thanks god) women pay good money to have what nature already gave you. they're an asset for a woman. stand tall, don't slouch, and your back won't hurt. i will send my husband over the slap you if you consider reducing them .... they're something to be admired not hated.

i understand all the things you're saying about clothes fitting and bathing suits ... it's nonesense.

 

i was 34 c in 8th grade, then i went to d, and now im a 32dd (i discovered 34 was to big for my ribcage). If you like your boobs, or if they dont cause pain, embrace them, but if you have back problems, maybe do something about it. I personally am very glad to be a 32 dd, but it is impossible to find my bra size. A good bra might fix everything, you can order them specially. Do what ever makes you happy.