I cheated, my confession

quote: Now, because of people like you, I have to deal with all his insecurity issues and it sucks.

Its not because of "people like her," your boyfriend is just a chump...you can't blame someone else for your involvment with him....

I agree with goldmund here

 

Absolutely, seamonster. Cheating is wrong. Blowing your hub's bud while he sleeps next to you is wrong. But grinding this poor guilt ridden person down even further is just as bad. She made a mistake, she has to live with it.

Do yourself, your husband, and your future together a favor. Talk to someone (a professional) about this. But I wouldn't run home and confess. Not being a christian, and therefore not catholic, I don't get this overpowering need to confess my sins to those whom I have wronged. All you do is hurt more people when you do that. Better to learn to live with yourself and not do it again.

Unless of course your goal was to hurt your hubby, in which case you should dump his ass and go suck all the cock you want.

 

Ha ha ha, you are an idiot, and she is a cheating slut. (changed since someone so eloquently pointed out she was not paid).

If you don't want to be judged for cheating on someone, don't cheat on someone. Goldmund I don't care how you were raised. I was raised to believe cheating is just wrong, no matter how you slice it.

And yes, she IS a bad person for what she did. In fact, she's a cheating slut.

I bid you good day.

-Litos

 

First of all, PheonixCocker, make sure you are replying to a quote that was meant for you, before you go around calling the one who posted it an idiot. Here this one WAS for you:

 

Until you have had someone to cheat on you that you cared about so much, you will never know how bad it hurts. It is the worst thing in the world. He deserves much better than this girl.

You people that take up for her, just wait till it happens to you. It is one of the worst things anyone could do.

 

I agree with everything they said and felt like quoting that message. It doesn't matter to me which one was quoted. You come across as defending her. And she is still a cheating slut.

I don't really care what you think about me. You aren't going to change my viewpoint, and if it makes you sick, well have fun being sick, I'm not changing.

-Litos

P.S. You are still an idiot. Only more asinine than ever.

 

Very well put. Noticed your age and assuming that the person that cheated on you (again assuming that happened) was around your age as well. Cheating whores/sluts/assholes/pricks just seem to be getting younger and younger lately. As are the ones who think its "sickening" that people are vehemently against cheating :roll:

-Litos

 

Lol. You're a fuckin' badass dude.

 

Maybe it has to do with size

 

Exactly, I have my opinion and don't care really. She posted on a public forum so get ready for whatever backlash there may be.

Its only the internet, sheesh.

-Litos

 

I am not vehemetly against cheating, I am vehemetly against judging people who already know they are wrong. What is the point? Why kick them when their down? Doesn't sound "honorable" to me.

 

"Do the crime you do the time."

I have my opinion and I've put it out there. I'm not judging at all, merely stating facts that have already occurred.

She cheated. CHECK
Cheaters are slutty. CHECK

i.e. Cheating Slut

-Litos

Why bother?

 

penthouse forum was never this much fun....

 

as a fantasy it's cool. if it happened, she's a cheating bitch.

 

penthouse is better than this, she didnt give any details

 

Ehh its something to do between classes.

-Litos

 

yeah, but in penthouse you don't get all the great commentary!!

 

I have no defense for what I did. I can say it happened at that moment in time. never again, never before. I don't blame anyone but myself. It was not meant to be erotica, that is why there are no details, it is only to get the guilt off of me somehow. I am afraid to confess to my husband. I love him and can't beleive I actually did this. I feel ashamed of it when I think of it but when I am aroused, I am turned on by it. I know I need counceling but do not want to end my marriage and that is what would happen. I love my husband and would not want him hurt. I should have thought of that before but it happened so fast, I was so turned on that night being in the situation I was in. I have never put myself in a situation where that would happen again and never will. Thanks for some understanding.
katie

 

GOLDMUND - You're trying to say I'm not very mature?- Oh! You're so fucking insightful. I havn't seen much of the world?- You don't fucking know me. You know nothing about me, and if you did, you'd know exactly how wrong you are. I never said she was a bad person. Bad person, no, a fucking cheating slut and bad wife yes.
I grew up watching my stepdad bring fucking stripper's and hookers back to my mum's house everytime she went on vacation and to this day I see the pain in her eyes everytime he says he's "going overnite to his parents house." I've had numerous friends cry their eyes out on my shoulder's because of cheating whores like her... and my own godamn boyfriend has the hardest time trusting any girl because of the sluts he dated and what they did to him. Onew of my friends even got herpes because of a cheatin girlfriend.
I've seen lots of the world, and I've seen alot of the damage that people like her have caused, alright? And on top of all that, she never said that she expressed any guilt. She just wanted to tell someone.
Here's some advice, next time you feel the urge to "tell someone" about your sexual escapades, tell your husband cause he's honestly the only person who deserves to know.

Phoenixcocker - you're awesome

 

I'm sure that most people have been cheated on, sometime in their life. I've been cheated on by my ex-husband numerous of times. His actions, gave him away. He never admitted to me that he cheated, but at the end, I found out the entire scoop.

Both of my sisters cheated on their husbands, but never told them. When my sisters cheated on their husbands, they wanted to involve me by bringing their lover to my house. How do you think I felt? I didn't want to be a part of their infidelities. I could only give them my opinion, that it was WRONG! But did they listen, NO. It was hard watching them cheat on their husbands, but it was not my place to tell their husbands.

My youngest sister never told her husband, but her actions did, they are now divorced and her ex-husband has the kids.

My oldest sister, never told her husband. Her husband died a couple of years ago. Now she is single and feels extremely lonely and can't find someone to love her the way her husband did. And, she feels bad that she never told her husband about her infidelities.

It was a tragedy how things worked out, but things will always come to the light, one way or another. I truely believe that, once a cheater, always a cheater!