I am so lonely.

well, for starters you're a whiner. quit crying and get out there. girls wont go out with you if you dont ask them. and if one turns you down, ask her friend next to her.

 

and that... is what makes girls repulsed by a guy. NEVER ask her friend. Her friend will know you asked her first off and then when you ask her she'll be pissed (if she even likes you) about being your second choice and only think your after her friend. The only way to a girls heart is to understand and love them faults and all. Get to know a girl more before you just start asking her and all her friends out. If you get to know them without them seeing you have an interest they won't know your true intentions which should always be established right away! If she goes into getting to know you as a friend thats probably all you'll ever be.

 

Why? I find that unfortunate...

 

LOL - now, there you go.

 

So why'd you make a thread saying you are lonely if you are happy being single? Just curious, nothing more.

 

sometimes people can be both, cant they?

 

Maybe but he was saying he was lonely in the sense that he wanted to meet girls. so than why did he say he was fine the way he was later on?

 

I think he got shy... he was having a vulnerble moment?

 

I'm lonely and single......but I know why

most men are so afraid of my kids and my inability to be passive that they don't bother to get to know me

 

I'm at my loneliest when I'm on a date with someone I already realized I'm not going to click with.

I think most human misery comes from thinking about what you don't have instead of being grateful for what you've got.

 

NEVER! MUAHAHAHAHA*evil laugh*
ok... really, I will.

 

Hey, I understand.....boys don't like me..it's been years since i've dated anyone for real....

 

I use times of loneliness for personal growth and deep thinking. It beats the shit out of drama and heartbreak, at least.

 

This site isn't comparable to reality, since the majority of females on here are good looking, sweet, non-judgemental, and appear to have deeply layered personalities. Just keep in mind that a huge number of women out there will, in some way, make your life a living hell. Loneliness can sound blissful when you are knee deep in debt, or suicidal because your girlfriend cheated on you. Once you put things into perspective, and learn to be totally content on your own, you will have no problem waiting for the perfect girl and connection to come along.

 

okay, i'll stop

 

sup ?

 

a couple of days ago, i watched this video about soulmates that was based on edgar cayce's work...anyways, they talked about using times when you feel lonely to reflect in on yourself and to do inner work that needs to be done in order to attract the right person to yourself. in order to bring a fulfilling perfect relationship to ourselves, we have to *be* the qualities that we want to find in another person... so the lonely times give us breathing space to find out what those qualities are, and to develop them.

ps... http://www.tarot-etcetera.com/soulmates.html

 

Yeah, that

 

@ Lotus B.: what kind of girls are you looking for? What are your claims on her? Has she to be beautiful, a great figure? Or is the charakter more important to you, or that she really loves you?

I felt, most men are wanting the *manikins* and don`t even look in the heart of a girl. So perhaps you just ask out that cursorily beautiful girls, and not the shyer one that doesn`t catch your eyes on first look, but that would really give you her heart?

Btw: feel the same like you, sometimes! It`s so sad to see, how you get disliked, just because you don`t accord to the ideal.

 

if you were happy, you wouldn`t have asked your first questions....

don`t lie at yourself.