has anyone that transitioned or is transitioning had problems with depression. ihave it all the time but dont want to take meds from side effects and I dont want o see a shrink. then the wife will start asking questions
Depression is a very common side-effect of gender dysphoria. I am not a doctor, and I am not going to diagnose you. But the depression that comes from dysphoria is usually situational, not biochemical. The appropriate treatment in that case is counseling with a qualified therapist, preferably one qualified in treating gender dysphoria. If you are dead-set against both medication and counseling, then there aren't many options left. One that might work is to talk to others in similar situations. I will PM you with some suggestions for trans-specific forums where you can talk to others in the same boat. Kathy