How should I handle this?

I would just confront him.

It's pure wrong to steal from somone elses stash, family or otherwise. Imagine how you would feel if you looked in your box and some of your grade a shit was missing. I wouldnt care if I had a daughter and she was stealing it or not, she's still stealing outa my damn stash.

He was just looking out for ya, and you gota respect him for that, but you just have to tell him that you do smoke and that's just how it is.

 

but remember weed is for everyone, and the owner of the weed only really has rights over its management, it is owned by the earth and all those on earth. we are all linked

i become such a hippy when im stoned.

 

lol, either way, its still my weed and im poppin a cap up in someone that trys to say otherwise.

 

Don't take weed unless it is freely given to you. Weed may not be owned but taking weed that someone else had previous plans with is just wrong. There is nothing worse than going to get your weed and finding less than you had planned. And it makes it harder for you to want to share with others (okay maybe dad isn't sharing but still)... just think of how you would feel.

You dad cares about you. Maybe he is feeding you hypocritical bullshit about how bad pot is... but he doesn't want you getting in trouble or making decisions that could get you a criminal record and prevent you from being all you want to be in life. In his misguided way, I am sure he cares about you.

Doing something that can tag you with a criminal record is an adult choice and he might be concerned about you making it without considering all the implications. I may be completely wrong about your dad... but try and see things from his position.

 

dont say anything to him and dont steal it

my dad knows i smoke and doesnt like it

my mom smokes and i know she does cause i talked to some people who sold to her

but whenever my dads around shes always against smoking

hes trying to make you quit cause he thinks (like everyone ) that its going to lead to bad things (stealing,bad drugs,violence) so just keep up in school get a job and tell him you only want to smoke and talk to him about

then he might let you untill then keep low

 

He definitely wont let me...He has so much, I doubt he'll notice. I never take more than a tiny bit anyway. I dunno...I know he's trying to look out for me and stuff...so I don't wanna get in his face about it and make him feel bad for enjoying life just like I do. He underestimates me to some degree, I've seen too many people go down to go down myself, but I do understand that he's my pops, and he's gotta do that. Anyway, until he figures it out, I'm gonna cop his shit. Not out of spite, but out of the fact that we've always lived by the rule that whats mine is his and whats his is mine

 

^^ my sentiments exactly

 

Horribly skewed attempt to justify stealing follows, please discard:

Well, your dad really is trying to protect you -- most likely from the legal troubles that you could face. And every little bit that you "borrow" is one more bit that you won't have to buy and risk arrest. Further, what you steal is likely to be smoked by yourself (or maybe a couple friends) in the safety of your home. So you aren't carrying it or risking exposure any more that you would need to. So, by stealing his stash you are actually helping to fulfill his own desire to keep you safe.

Note: This is horrible justification... but it did cross my mind. I'm sure your dad does love you and wants what is best. I am not sure that he would believe you stealing from his stash is part of that "best."

 

It's not 'best' but its better than risking smoking the horrid shit we get around here (theres good batches if you know where to look, but its almost all laced)

 

well he is probably just protective over you about it because you aren't an adult yet.. that's the only reason i could see him being like that about you smoking.

 

Just blackmail the fucker, we all know you want to.

 

yeah same thing happend to me i got cought in school and had to go to these drug counsling meetings and my dad came too and like 5 months later i found out he smoked nd that he was high when he was at the meetings and htta he has smoked havely for the past 25 years i would keep it a secreat and pinch his stash what the fucks he going to do tell u to stop stealing his weed?