Wow, I am depressed now but my husband and I normally have sex 3 times a week. He is just never in the mood so I am always frustrated.
The point was I was trying to hold off on it before jumping into things too soon. My ex was my first so I was nervous. Anyway, since I posted that we've had sex twice. And I did exactly what you suggested above..hehe
Not nearly often enough. At the beginning of the relationship I drank. A LOT (for completely unrelated reasons I swear ). So I was always drunk and frisky and initiating it. I stopped drinking and realized I was always the one to initiate... it felt unfair, so I stopped, to see if he would pick up the slack. Nope. Now, we have sex as often as I am able to suppress my personal insecurities just long enough to get the gears grinding. Basically, I take care of him, then I take care of myself. Shmeh. And that's why vibrators. :cheers2:
At least five times a week usually, used to be more but now we have a baby and sometimes just appreciate sleep more.