How Often Do Straight Guys Have Gay Sex?

If I may be that bitch and make this a semantics argument, I'd say while straight men may have sex with other men, straight men never have "gay sex."

The term implies some sort of emotional involvement with gay feelings. Fetishizing other men and engaging with them sexually isn't always gay, but I would wager gay sex is nothing a straight man would engage in.

Not all man-on-man action is gay sex, but all gay sex is, well, gay sex.

 

P.S.: "It's not something I'd do all of the time" is a reference to how gay men have sex and I'm not gay

I tend to agree with you on this one but... we gotta call it something that differentiates it from saying it's sex because that implies sex with women and I'm glad I didn't create this semantic mess but it's one we have to deal with - and our society isn't grown up enough to just call it having sex, period, and without having to be so specific.

"Gay sex" does imply the kind of sex that gay men have but the stumble is that neither heterosexual or bisexual men are homosexual men so, yeah, the semantics can make you crazy. Lesbians are gay but we refer to the sex they have as "lesbian sex" so as not to get it confused with the "gay sex" that men have and, welp, straight people just have sex.

 

I’m married to a lovely lady.I was curious about sucking a cock for a very long time. I watched a lot of shemale porn and a lot of porn with women giving head. I have to admit it made me want to try oral on a penis. I final let my curiosity get the better of me and did the deed. Once I started I let him finish and I enjoyed it. This was the only time I ever did this. I have no desire to date or live with another man. On the other hand women are what get my attention. Does my one and only encounter make me gay??? I’m curious. PS. I might be tempted to try it again I’m not sure if I will.

 

I've been married twice over the years, and never gave gay sex a thought until after I was widowed a few years. I have no idea why it ever occurred to me in the first place, but I started waking up in bed thinking about naked men as often as women, and after I had sex with a guy, it's become exclusive for me. I had one chance when I got hit on in my teens, but the idea spooked me, and I never considered it at the time--I've often thought that if I could time-travel, I'd go back and give him a shot.

 

Does it make you gay? No.

 

I’m married to a lovely lady.I was curious about sucking a cock for a very long time. I watched a lot of shemale porn and a lot of porn with women giving head. I have to admit it made me want to try oral on a penis. I final let my curiosity get the better of me and did the deed. Once I started I let him finish and I enjoyed it. This was the only time I ever did this. I have no desire to date or live with a man. I do enjoy giving head.

 

I would love to hear the details of how you found your first, how it came about, your thoughts and emotions during and the feelings afterwards. A PM is ok if it’s too personal to post on this thread

 

Yeeeaah-let me think here a minute----oh --now I remember--NEVER!