Why are all your posts that I have read sex related? You are either a sex therapist or just very easy with the subject.
0 I'm 16 and a virgin. I plan to stay that way at least until I'm 18. I've thought about the whole "Save Myself" thing and waiting until marriage, but I have no desire to get married. Not that I wish to be a whore or anything. I just don't want to.
My virginity has actually become part of my feminist image. It's a piece of me that no man can touch. And that's just great.
That's an interesting take on it... but aren't you still giving power to patriarchy by doing so? Like, it's great that you value your virginity and are consumed with "getting rid of it," but also, tying that in your mind with your feminism could be dangerous if you do ever find a man you'd like to have sex with... You may condition yourself to believe that having sex is like selling out your feminist principles. Myabe think of it as: i wont let a man abuse my sexuality, not: a man giving my body pleasure through sexual intercourse is un-feminist.. I'm sorry if I completely misunderstood you, I mean no offense.
Oh, no offense taken. I completely understand what you're saying, and yes that is a better way to word it (I won't let a man abuse my sexuality). My feminism is certainly not modified or defined by my sexual activities I should ever engage in or my choosing to be abstainent at the present time. At my age I feel that this is the best thing to do for myself. I understand that sex is a responsibility and I don't think it's something that I can take on right now. Plus I think I'll have a great sense of dignity when it's all said and done.
Man, we need to set you up with some pussy... I hope you're not saving it for some arcane reason. I can lay claim to 21, although I paid for three of them. I'm a bit older than some of you, though.
From the way I see it, taking a shit is a whole lot more disgusting to watch and/or contemplate than 95% of the sex that goes on outside grandma's bedroom. There's no reason to be ashamed, as long as people don't feel ashamed to have slept with you... I'd hate to ask a lot of guys how many times they wank while looking at porn sites. Probably over 3x a day in the case of most unemployed guys.
I have been sexually intimate with many (~30) but I have chosen to have intercourse with a very limited number. First one was weird and for the wrong reasons and I pulled out after two seconds feeling guilty so I only consider that 1/2. Second was with a girlfriend I had been dating for a while who was very pushy but was very creative and very active in bed and allowed me to get creative and experiment as well (handcuffs, lollypops, etc.). Third was with a girl from europe who I worked with briefly who would practically rape me daily and I finally gave in, but it wasn't very good! Pretty good (or bad) for a 28 year old. None of the ladies were virgins and I kind of feel like I am missing out somehow by not having been with a virgin.